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MY ANSWER to the question, "Why do Love hurt so Much" by phoneport(m): 1:00am On May 09, 2013
When you think of your past love, you may
view it as a failure. But when you find a
new love, you view the past as a teacher.
In the game of love, it really doesnt matter
who won or who lost.
What is important is
you know when to hold on and when to let go. You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if his or her happiness means that your not a part of it. Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn't love you back, dont be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try.
You'll never love a person unless you risk for love. Love strives in hurting. If you dont get hurt, you can't learn how to love. Love doesnt hurt all the time, though the hurting is still there to test you and help you grow. Dont find love, let love find you.
That is why it is called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a
single caress.

It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing. The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can
love us even more than we can love ourselves. On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse.

Don't ever make the same mistake
of riding the same one that threw you the
first time. To love is to risk rejection; to live
is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure.
But risk must be taken because the
greatest hazard in life is risking nothing. To reach for another is to risk involvement, to
expose your feelings is to expose true self;
to love is to risk not to be loved in return. How to define love: fall but do not stumble,
be constant but not too persistent, share
and never be unfair.
Understand and try not to demand, hurt but keep the pain. Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. IT should inspire you and give you joy and strength.
Sometimes the things that give you joy can
also hurt you in the end. Loving people
mans giving them freedom that they choose to be and where they choose to be.


Loving someone means giving them the
freedom to find their way, whether it leaves
towards you or away from you. Love is a
painful risk to take but the risk must be
taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you'll experience the fullness of
humanity and that is love. Only love can
hurt your heart, fill you with desire or tear
you apart. Only love can make you cry and
only love knows why. If you are not ready
to cry, if your not ready to take that risk, or feel the pain, then your not ready to fall in
love. There was a time in our lives when
we became afraid to fall in love because
every time we do, we get hurt.
Then I figured thats why its called falling in love.
When you decide to love, allow it to grow. When you promise to love, refuse to let it die.

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Re: MY ANSWER to the question, "Why do Love hurt so Much" by markstar(f): 8:22am On Aug 29, 2013
Why open anoda thread on dis, Ɣ☺ΰ cld simply follow up on d old thread so one will knw where to follow from.

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