Monicasque:

me 2

You need a shrink

Mynd_44:
You need a shrink

now i know

Monicasque: wow i am soooo shocked at my self. i can't blv i am the one who just wrote all this. i actually never understood how i felt until a moment ago. wow and i am suddendly so calm. thanks nairaland for helping me see that i have a problem. i am really going to seek help. wooooow. now i hope you guys can see how important this forum is as for some of us its eye opening and life changing. thank you guys . from the bottom of my heart

yorubas say ibi ere l'ati nmo ooto oro.

meaning even though you may feel you're typing in jest, or to get people riled up, it doesnt change the fact that you have a deep resentment towards whoever you consider a father figure. Vice versa goes for the women-bashing males.


at some stage, it will be certifiable, just saying.

tpia@:


yorubas say ibi ere l'ati nmo ooto oro.

meaning even though you may feel you're typing in jest, or to get people riled up, it doesnt change the fact that you have a deep resentment towards whoever you consider a father figure. Vice versa goes for the women bashing males.


at some stage, it will be certifiable, just saying.

sister i already know what i am going through. i know i hate men and my dad too. i am serously. i am not trying to get people to feel sorry for me or manupilate guys hey. its just that i just realised that the anger i have had for the last 21 years has turned me in to a nasty sad person

I like this OP for one reason: openness and ability to take corrections, kudos...but try and love people...and don't blame your late dad for kicking the bucket so early, never his fault, and if only you could see where he is crying and watching over you....just take heart and be happy; you have a greater, ever loving father that cares for you always, and never dies, run to Him, and that's Jehovah!!!!

DailyNews: I like this OP for one reason: openness and ability to take corrections, kudos...but try and love people...and don't blame your late dad for kicking the bucket so early, never his fault, and if only you could see where he is crying and watching over you....just take heart and be happy; you have a greater, ever loving father that cares for you always, and never dies, run to Him, and that's Jehovah!!!!

ncoooh thank you sir. i am sooo humbled right now

Monicasque:


ncoooh thank you sir. i am sooo humbled right now

...you are welcome, and as you are new on this forum, just take your time and walk through slowly....soon, you will get to understand how the forum operates...

Meanwhile, try and let go of anger and self-hate...God has a wonderful purpose for whatever that happens around you if you are patient, prayerful and focused enough to discover why....

Remember the popular Nigerian music artiste that's now reigning- Iyanya, that sang the popular hit track- "kukere", he lost his parents and sibling...now look at where he is....

Remember the present Nigerian born Chelsea football club striker, Moses, he also lost his parents in northern crises, and that led to his leaving this country to discover his football talent...so be happy, thank God in all situations and watch out....once again, you are welcome, and do have a lovely moment here

I would take Daily news's advise with a pinch of salt and a bottle of malt if I were you

Mynd_44: I would take Daily news's advise with a pinch of salt and a bottle of malt if I were you

done sirr

Monicasque:


done sirr

That's good

This is definitely a joke... Dang!

Princess zoe: @op All men are not cheats. Please you are the one that needs to wake up. Who told you that all men are the same ? We have five fingers which make up one hand yet the fingers are never equal, how much more humans. You need to stop this attitude of generalisation. Your ideology is a misconception. It doesn't matter how you paint it. It can never be a fact talk more of being true.

Thank you! You're a darling

Wooow! Now this is serious! Op truly needs help

dmcdad: This is definitely a joke... Dang!

sir this is not a joke. m sorry of you think it is

shizzle11: Wooow! Now this is serious! Op truly needs help

already started seeing a therapist sir

Monicasque:

sir this is not a joke. m sorry of you think it is

I called it a joke because you seem to change the subject like a chameleon.

Monicasque:

sir this is not a joke. m sorry of you think it is

I called it a joke because you seem to change the subject like a chameleon. Now tell me, whats really the problem?

una sure say dis girl no dey among those 40 kenyans wey escape from psychia?? Abeg,mods make una trace the ip address..

dmcdad:
I called it a joke because you seem to change the subject like a chameleon.

Indecisiveness na. Do you expect anything else?

Mynd_44:

Indecisiveness na. Do you expect anything else?

Not like I expect anything else but the way and manner she comes up to change one thing or the other incessantly is what is startling to me...

dmcdad:
Not like I expect anything else but the way and manner she comes up to change one thing or the other incessantly is what is startling to me...

give me an example of your concern because i only changed from the main topic once when i was analysing my feelings. please give me another example

Monicasque:


give me an example of your concern because i only changed from the main topic once when i was analysing my feelings. please give me another example

Monicasque: wow i am soooo shocked at my self. i can't blv i am the one who just wrote all this. i actually never understood how i felt until a moment ago. wow and i am suddendly so calm. thanks nairaland for helping me see that i have a problem. i am really going to seek help. wooooow. now i hope you guys can see how important this forum is as for some of us its eye opening and life changing. thank you guys . from the bottom of my heart

After much whining about men and how ur father kicked the bucket, leaving u and ur mom to face all the challenges of life, all of a sudden u came up with the above, and at that time I knew u were... Anyway, I understand how it is with you but then, you really need help in order for u to be able to change this mindset of yours.

Well, you really need to change your view cause as it stands now... in fact, let me leave u to it.

dmcdad:

After much whining about men and how ur father kicked the bucket, leaving u and ur mom to face all the challenges of life, all of a sudden u came up with the above, and at that time I knew u were... Anyway, I understand how it is with you but then, you really need help in order for u to be able to change this mindset of yours.

Well, you really need to change your view cause as it stands now... in fact, let me leave u to it.

tnx

Oh my gosh, see me responding to this lady on another thread.


Didnt realize its the dog woman, i need to start bookmarking some user ids here so i can stop accidentally engaging them in discussion.

tpia@:
Oh my gosh, see me responding to this lady on another thread.


Didnt realize its the dog woman, i need to start boikmarking some user ids here so i cant stop accidentally engaging them in discussion.

suit yourself dear. no one is forcing you

tpia@:
Oh my gosh, see me responding to this lady on another thread.


Didnt realize its the dog woman, i need to start bookmarking some user ids here so i can stop accidentally engaging them in discussion.

fyi its never about the person , its always about the topic. learn to be civil and use your brains

Monicasque:


fyi its never about the person , its always about the topic. learn to be civil and use your brains

She just gave you an advice oh and you were happy with it.

In case that shrink is not doing a good job, don't worry, I'll just recommend another one. You have large mass of anger in you. Try dissipating it from time to time.

kaboninc:

She just gave you an advice oh and you were happy with it.

In case that shrink is not doing a good job, don't worry, I'll just recommend another one. You have large mass of anger in you. Try dissipating it from time to time.

you too late dol

Monicasque:

you too late dol

Really? Then you've completed your therapy? We'll see then. By the way am not a doll oh. I be 'nna meen'

kaboninc:

Really? Then you've completed your therapy? We'll see then. By the way am not a doll oh. I be 'nna meen'

yep completed. Dealt with the issues i had. sorry brother for calling you dol

DailyNews: I like this OP for one reason: openness and ability to take corrections, kudos...but try and love people...and don't blame your late dad for kicking the bucket so early, never his fault, and if only you could see where he is crying and watching over you....just take heart and be happy; you have a greater, ever loving father that cares for you always, and never dies, run to Him, and that's Jehovah!!!!

The reason I like Monica too. Better to be all the things she is and be open about it. A large number of women would do and think like her but deceive people into thinking they are different. She is open at least.

Atheist:-D:


The reason I like Monica too. Better to be all the things she is and be open about it. A large number of women would do and think like her but deceive people into thinking they are different. She is open at least.

morning Ath