Say you are 30, the guy is 19.

y not.

beyunce:

y not.

Do you mean just a fling, maybe because you have soft spot for the person or proper dating?

i mean proper dating.

why not

At 30, what in da world would i be doing with a 19 yr old chap!!!

Pls. if u dont believe in it fine.
But i can.

Sure beyunce. I spoke 4 maself.

i dislike younger guys!! i could never go in for a younger guy i refer older guys

Well, one man's meat is another mans poison.

for me oh, I can do with the fact it could happen with someone you really have soft spots for, but not a continues thing.

no

Uhmm, 30 - 19.

Im not ready to eat baked beans yet. NO!

Never, 30 to 19? the difference is just too much.

Rosby:

Say you are 30, the guy is 19.

I wouldn't do 30 - 19. but when I'm old(er) and I want someone to make me feel younger, (and I happen to be single at the time) I might consider it. Say, 50 - 30

Nia:

I might consider it. Say, 50 - 30

erm, some might consider that cradle-robbing.

Lady is 30 while the Man is 19. Why would she want to? I'm not saying it's the age different but I think it's the age in this case - of the man. 19 is quite young. If only he were at least 23. But an old 19 acts, what, 21? I think they can date etc. but I wouldn't think of it as a marriage relationship.

So many different views, I am glad my wife doesn't think like some of you, she is 11 years younger than me and the age difference has never bothered her.

Chief2B,

I would want you to ask your wife if she would have accepted to marry you if she was 11 years older than you?

I don't even have to ask her to know the answer to that one, she would have said "no". My wife prefers older men. Something about older men being more "refined" in their ways!

Then why this statement:

Chief2B:

I don't even have to ask her to know the answer to that one, she would have said "no". My wife prefers older men. Something about older men being more "refined" in their ways!

mochafella:

erm, some might consider that cradle-robbing.

LOL,
I didn't think 30 year olds still use cradles.

Nia:

LOL,
I didn't think 30 year olds still use cradles.

Well I think they'll take the toys bought by their "sugar-mummies" instead.

mochafella:

Well I think they'll take the toys bought by their "sugar-mummies" instead.

hahahaaa
true talk, o, my brother. 
I'll prolly want to spoil my 30 year old, maybe even teach him a thing or two, LOL.

Naaah.

its enough that men aren't muture to begin with i dont htink that dating a 10 year old younger man is a good choice but may be a couple years younger cause thats not much of a difference but 10 years is a whole lot. Thats a great big space really it is. i dont think that thats a goos choice

It wud av been beta if it were d oda way round.

Nia:

hahahaaa
true talk, o, my brother.
I'll prolly want to spoil my 30 year old, maybe even teach him a thing or two, LOL.

oooooo, what I would give to be a student in that class.

nahhh i cant do that i feel lyk a paedophile even if tha boy is jst 1 day younger than me

I can't date a younger person but I'm currently having this thing with a 31 yr old guy and I'm 17.

mochafella:

oooooo, what I would give to be a student in that class.

Really? well, don't worry, when the time comes, I'll let you know and we'll see if you're eligible. Now if you're an old grandpa by then, you know I'll have to pass. We can't be old together. I'll need someone who can lift me off the ground in that very romantic way without breaking their back, LOL.

Nia:

well, don't worry, when the time comes, I'll let you know and we'll see if you're eligible. Now if you're an old grandpa by then, you know I'll have to pass.

Nah, waiting till later will be like adult education classes, I shall be ancient by that time . It is better to teach when the student is willing, young and able.

Nia:
We can't be old together.