Mr knowitall.:
I dont know dude but you kinda confused me....I think the appropriate tittle for the thread should have been "How should I tell my wife to stop bringing her friends to the house because their presence is tempting me touch."...THE TITLE AND YOUR POST ARE BIG CONTRASTS....but i will answer your question though Chalay....marriage is getting harder because women are more independent...before, a women's place was the kitchen and her duties were to take care of the kids and her husband. But now days, women are equal to men and they dont have to put up with stupid crap. And also, men have failed to evolve and realized that women were not put on earth to be their slaves. The way I see it: women are evolving while most men are still ignorant and mere old relics of the male superiority propaganda reinforced by religion. cheers

Princeparix: I really don't understand the point your stressing-from women leaving their duty post{like what you said} to men being ignorant. Abeg explain

Mr knowitall.:
I dont know dude but you kinda confused me....I think the appropriate tittle for the thread should have been "How should I tell my wife to stop bringing her friends to the house because their presence is tempting me touch."...THE TITLE AND YOUR POST ARE BIG CONTRASTS....but i will answer your question though Chalay....marriage is getting harder because women are more independent...before, a women's place was the kitchen and her duties were to take care of the kids and her husband. But now days, women are equal to men and they dont have to put up with stupid crap. And also, men have failed to evolve and realized that women were not put on earth to be their slaves. The way I see it: women are evolving while most men are still ignorant and mere old relics of the male superiority propaganda reinforced by religion. cheers

190: Choose one of these young ladies carefully and make your move

Remember we are in africa and can marry as much as 4wives

Christians or muslims included

Good luck

lynpetra:




#pushes him into isi-adighi-mma river#

Mr knowitall.:


Ill explain

There was a time when women were expected only to take care of their family. Those days, having a career or simply being ambitious was almost unheard of for a women. However, the time has changed. Women are now in the work place, political offices, CEO, and successful business owners. But, most men still think that a women's role is to take care of her family, or if she has a job, the men has to control the money because he is man.

For example, there is this couple that know that got divorce because of the male superiority propaganda thats reinforced by religion. The lady was an accountant for a big hospital here, she was an expert with handling money, she knew how to spend, when to spend, and how to save money. But the husband was just a register nurse and was kinda clueless about handling money. The husband insisted that he should be in-charge of the money because he is the man of the house even though he has no clue how to handle money....The lady tried to explain to him that she understand that hes the man of the house but she should handle the finances because that's her job...shes an expert at it....well needless to say...the marriage didn't work.....IF YOUR WIFE IS AN ACCOUNTANT COMMON SENSE SHOULD TELL YOU TO LET HER HANDLE THE HOUSE FINANCES

MEN ARE NOT EVOLVING FAST ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE WORLDS HAS CHANGED....WOMEN ARE NOT SLAVES, A MEN MUST HELP COOK, CLEAN, TAKE CARE OF THE BABY, AND MAKE MONEY...BECAUSE WOMEN ARE DOING THIS SAME THING.... IT SOUNDS STRANGE BUT THIS IS THE REALITY.

bethnals: Hmm. Are you and her muslim? Your wife sits on your lap in front of her mates? That to me shows lack of respect of you by her.

If she respects you she won't be bringing around people anytime.

Gabriel_sylar: I am young man of 32 yrs old just got married to a beautiful girl..her mum is Igbo but dad is Hausa...so there are times her female friends do come to the house..my wife is 24yrs graduate of a polytechnic...she is so so nice..BUT I CANT BEAR HER GIRL FRIENDS COMING TO OUR HOUSE ANYMORE....COS HONESTLY AS MUCH AS I LOVE MY WIFE...THESE GIRL ARE TEMPTING....My wife is very slim and i "like" it...the last time her cousins came to our house..they are girls Jos...the girls were just too pretty...my young wife was always sitting on my laps and enjoying my presence...i respect myself...dats how i was raised up decent and contentment...but i wont lie to you the ladies around my wife are too much jare.......and d worst thing is she doesnt even notice anything.... i just wanna share my ordeal....

Princess zoe: 190 how can you profer such an immoral and unholy advise? How can you advise a man to commit adultery? This is exactly what the society is suffering today, moral decadence. Any married man that keeps you as a friend will be doomed forever. May God deliver good men from guys like you.

huh what did i do!!

i only gave my side of the advice why advising men not to be friends wif me wetin i do