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| My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by StevenJay01(m): 8:32pm On May 18, 2013 |
I have a girlfriend who believes she is my responsiblity.she makes demand and whenever I remind her that I have sisters she points it out that why don't I have sex with them.Am not stingy but I think its not proper to spend blindly to someone you are not married when you have family responsibilities that demand urgent attention.Please advice me on this 1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by againstGEJ(m): 8:39pm On May 18, 2013 |
press the delete button, dump her. 1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 8:41pm On May 18, 2013 |
depends on the demand, if it is something unrealistic and constant, then you might a problem. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by StevenJay01(m): 8:54pm On May 18, 2013 |
Seriously understudyin her |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by lilmax(m): 8:54pm On May 18, 2013 |
againstGEJ: press the delete button, dump her.na so o....sharp guy |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by ifihearam: 8:59pm On May 18, 2013 |
na wa oooo |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by kambo(m): 9:05pm On May 18, 2013 |
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| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Kslib(m): 9:19pm On May 18, 2013 |
Steven Jay01: I have a girlfriend who believes she is my responsiblity.she makes demand and whenever I remind her that I have sisters she points it out that why don't I have sex with them.Am not stingy but I think its not proper to spend blindly to someone you are not married when you have family responsibilities that demand urgent attention.Please advice me on thisMy advice is "Continue,you're on the right track".. Errrm,no need to worry sef cos we've already warned your girlfriend to desist from that act.. I believe her name is Miss Emerald and she created this topic below https://www.nairaland.com/1294998/boyfriend-doesnt-give-me-anything Pls next time in other to save seun's bandwith,you guys should do a merger. You and your girlfriend should combine and create only one topic. You being the man should post ur own first then her post follows yours and then we the outsiders start judging and giving points.. 1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 9:27pm On May 18, 2013 |
MY bros...there are some responsibilities that comes with enjoying the yansh....you cannot expect it to be for free....as long as shes giving you the yansh....she has the right to make reasonable demands....unless shes not giving it to you than you are not responsible for anything..cheers. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 9:31pm On May 18, 2013 |
Mr knowitall.:then whats the point of dating why not just visit a brothel, not to sound rude, seems cheaper economically but i don't advocate prostitution 1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by JameyMaxwell(m): 9:32pm On May 18, 2013 |
That's what happens when women read too many harlequeen novels. They start to imagine tinz |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by SKIPCY(m): 9:32pm On May 18, 2013 |
She makes demands just as you make yours..I don't think there's anything wrong with that. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 9:32pm On May 18, 2013 |
Jamey Maxwell: That's what happens when women read too many harlequeen novels. They start to imagine tinzand Twilight BS too |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 9:36pm On May 18, 2013 |
pc guru: In fact, I was gonna touch on that..thanks..."you could just forget about a girlfriend for now and just visit asewo every once in a while"..it works for some people.....but we can all agree that....reasonable demands can be made when a woman is giving the yansh to a guy...abi? |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 9:38pm On May 18, 2013 |
as long as its a hooker or run girls yeah. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 9:43pm On May 18, 2013 |
pc guru: as long as its a hooker or run girls yeah.I think you are confusing demands with money.....demands doesn't have to be money...i could be...helping her cook, clean, work, kids, etc.....are you confusing these things with money? |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 9:47pm On May 18, 2013 |
am sorry anytime i hear "demands" and "Nigerian babes" in a sentence, money comes to mind. and i know you're thinking maybe pcguru pays for hooker. i just want to say i don't  |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 9:50pm On May 18, 2013 |
Mr knowitall.:  |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 9:54pm On May 18, 2013 |
pc guru: am sorry anytime i hear "demands" and "Nigerian babes" in a sentence, money comes to mind. and i know you're thinking maybe pcguru pays for hooker. i just want to say i don't so essentially you are the problem...not the girl making reasonable demands.....demands doesnt have to mean money.. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 9:54pm On May 18, 2013 |
Steven Jay01: I have a girlfriend who believes she is my responsiblity.she makes demand and whenever I remind her that I have sisters she points it out that why don't I have sex with them.Am not stingy but I think its not proper to spend blindly to someone you are not married when you have family responsibilities that demand urgent attention.Please advice me on this Bros if you aren't giving her anything at alllll,then u are wrong.But if you are and she still feels she needs more,then she needs to be pushed out of thoughts.If you insist on visiting a brothel,u go still spend that money wey u no give ur babe sha |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 9:56pm On May 18, 2013 |
Steven Jay01: I have a girlfriend who believes she is my responsiblity.she makes demand and whenever I remind her that I have sisters she points it out that why don't I have sex with them.Am not stingy but I think its not proper to spend blindly to someone you are not married when you have family responsibilities that demand urgent attention.Please advice me on thisits also wrong to be intimate with someone u are not married to   7 Likes |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 9:57pm On May 18, 2013 |
Mr knowitall.: Obviously nau, women make demands now, that's normal. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 9:58pm On May 18, 2013 |
mondi_cheeks: its also wrong to be intimate with someone u are not married towell i think that boat has sailed a long time along. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 10:00pm On May 18, 2013 |
pc guru:we can't always use morals wen it best suits us only |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Kslib(m): 10:00pm On May 18, 2013 |
mondi_cheeks: its also wrong to be intimate with someone u are not married toWhy?? I wanna learn.. Nobody is perfect. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 10:00pm On May 18, 2013 |
lynpetra: I think am getting what you mean, it'd be wrong if he's stingy now that's different but not being able to give as a result of circumstances is different,there's a line between those two. Also not to bash anyone, but as someone good with numbers its quite cheaper actually. out of boredom i've calculated my friend's ashewo expenses before. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 10:01pm On May 18, 2013 |
mondi_cheeks: we can't always use morals wen it best suits us onlyare you the romance section official preacher? |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 10:02pm On May 18, 2013 |
Kslib:you can't treat a woman like your wife when it comes to ur se.xual needs and expect her to act otherwise when it comes to her needs |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 10:02pm On May 18, 2013 |
mondi_cheeks: we can't always use morals wen it best suits us only"Morals" i think when God gave us free will, Moral became optional. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by StevenJay01(m): 11:51pm On May 18, 2013 |
pc guru: Pls enlighten me on morals and free will |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Scarpon(m): 12:27am On May 19, 2013 |
are you locked inside a bottle ?dum her jare |
| Re: My Girlfriend Thinks She Is My Responsiblity by Nobody: 12:51am On May 19, 2013 |
Steven Jay01: Might still not help your case. Anyway, just be honest and forth-coming with your girl. Tell her that you don't believe she should be your responsibilty since you're not married (maybe your convictions would lead her to re-assess her own moral obligations to herself)and that you cannot give her gifts because providing for your sisters drains you completely. Let her know that you're only interested in free sex and having someone around to cook for you ocasionally. Tell her what you've said here - that you're not stingy ( and maybe she would have the chance to witness to that should you eventually get married). Tell her you're not her daddy or sugardaddy (or hubby?) who would buy her gifts or pay for her hairdos and try convincing her that your attitude would magically change once you're wed. And after dazzling her with all that “affection” if isn't cool with it just free her. You might find someone who compliments your needs, and hopefully she would find someone who thinks she deserves better too. Cheers. 1 Like |
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