eyescue: Please don't HATE me till you DATE me, in other word don't find it easy to criticise me. Am only a young man living a normal life like evry other normal person. I was so much brought up to believe in love by my mom, and on my own i tried so much to live virtually all my teenage life threading on that path of BELIEVING IN LOVE. But the bad thing about it is that i never had a good story to tell about my love life. Why.......almost all the beautiful girls i had known in my life are materialistic. And my question is, does it mean that cannot truely love a man for just the way he is and not for other material things or simply help him make it in life because, biblically women are our helper. Please someone should help me because am really starving of the right soulmate, someone i can call mine. Please i need your candid advice. Thanks.
Waiting....

ogugua88:

[size=13pt]Be patient. If finding love or a compatible partner was simple, then most people would be happily married/dating. It's normal for people to have to date other people unsuccessfully before finding his or her match. The woman of your dreams exists. She simply hasn't crossed your path yet.[/size]

eyescue: Thanks to you @ ogugua. Indeed you are living to to your name. if i can guess well, your name simply means comforter and indeed if feel so much comfortered with your candid words. you know why? Your words have just boosted my immune of patience. If waiting is all it takes, please God help me am good to go because i cant just imagine living with someone who has no true love for me. Once again, thank you ogugua.

[size=13pt]Yes, that's the meaning, and you're welcome.

As much as people like to talk about today's Nigerian women and how they depreciate themselves, the truth is that the situation was the same during our parents' times. My dad had his own frustrations with girls who weren't up to his standards, until he met my mother. And even with meeting my mom, it took him months just to get her attention. She didn't agree to go on a date with him until six months of him asking her almost every week. The moral is, if you truly want something, then you can surely wait for it. Patience is bitter but its fruit is sweet.[/size]

ogugua88:

[size=13pt]Yes, that's the meaning, and you're welcome.

As much as people like to talk about today's Nigerian women and how they depreciate themselves, the truth is that the situation was the same during our parents' times. My dad had his own frustrations with girls who weren't up to his standards, until he met my mother. And even with meeting my mom, it took him months just to get her attention. She didn't agree to go on a date with him until six months of him asking her almost every week. The moral is, if you truly want something, then you can surely wait for it. Patience is bitter but its fruit is sweet.[/size]

190-the-clown:
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dmcdad: Well... Its like that everywhere bruv. Its not just you bug every other person faces the same fate. The thing is for you to just be cool and keep your fingers crossed. Getting a girl to truly love and care about you for you is never a do-or-die affair..

What I would say is for you to just be you and try as much as you can to be the best of who you are. Try not to do anything in the hopes of pleasing someone, but do everything very well cause that's how it should be. I believe if u play right and focus your energies in enriching yourself in all spheres of life, in due time you would definitely find the right one for you.

One thing that is worth highlighting is the fact that you shouldn't carry it on your need, if u know what I mean... Just be yourself and be focus, with time you will see a beautiful and loving girl that is capable of giving out real and unconditional love. No matter how bad things are seemingly becoming, that is not to say there ain't good people available anymore.

Just be cool. Its worth praying for also, you know....

eyescue: Wow! Thats a nice briefing. But wait dear who told you this because i know that about 80% of our parents dont really relate with their children. True i envy such kids that have a good parents-kids relationship. Well back to the matter arising....lol...well nothing good comes easy. Evrything good especially when it comes to relationship is worth waiting for, i think. And to the meaning of your name, mine is ifeanyichukwu, thats my own igbo name.....now you are smiling. Yeah am an igbo and that how i knew the meaning of your name. Once more thanks.

[size=13pt]Lol. My parents relate with my siblings and I very much. They've both told us the story so many times and always have a laugh about it, which is nice.

You're right. Everything good is worth waiting for, so you too should be patient.

Nno Ifeanyi. And I know you're Igbo. If anyone knows the meaning of Ogugua, it's an Igbo lol. The name isn't too common.[/size]

mondi_cheeks: U want to be with a woman because of the way she looks and how good u would look when u show her off, yet u want her to be with u for who u are... If u don't stop using these women to boost ur on ego wat makes u think she doesn't have the right to use ur pocket to boost her wallet too?
If u go for a woman for the right reasons, u will always end up with the right one

mondi_cheeks: U want to be with a woman because of the way she looks and how good u would look when u show her off, yet u want her to be with u for who u are... If u don't stop using these women to boost ur on ego wat makes u think she doesn't have the right to use ur pocket to boost her wallet too?
If u go for a woman for the right reasons, u will always end up with the right one

eyescue: By there fruit you shall know them.....

eyescue: By there fruit you shall know them.....