7 reason why women lose RESPect for men.

If a woman loses respect for U as a man, she will also lose attraction and begin to fall out of love with U.

It might’ve taken U a long time to find “the one” dat U’re now in love with, but unless U’re careful about avoiding the following mistakes, she’ll soon be thinking about backing out of the relationship for good.

Let's have some clues...
1) Belittling Her in Public:
Playful teasing each other in private can be a fun aspect to Ur relationship, especially if it’s kept light and U both have understand each other’s sense of humor. Too often though, some men will belittle their woman in front of their friends or family in a way that she feels is cruel and sincerely harmful to her confidence and sense of pride and comfort in front of others.

In an effort to “show off” to his friends or because he believes that some “habit” his girl has is silly, some guys will say hurtful things about their girlfriend/wife.

Even if it’s done when she’s not there, what the man says about his woman is probably going to get back to her eventually and she will feel betrayed and lose
respect for him when it does.

2) Being Too Bossy:
Women like to have their man be the head of the relationship, but when he starts getting too bossy and treating her like a slave or a servant,
that’s when she will begin to lose respect for him.
Being bossy sets in when it has to do with house chores.
If U want Ur relationship to last,
U should let Ur girl do much of the housework, while U spontaneously help out with the housework, but focus mainly on doing the “manly” jobs around the house,
making the big decisions and basically leading the relationship.
However, when the man decides that he’s the “boss” and his woman has to do whatever he demands of her as if he “owns” her, she will lose respect for him and want out; especially if their sex life isn’t that fulfilling for her either.

3. Always Letting Her “Win”:
On the opposite side of being too bossy, some guys will give in to whatever a woman wants because he is too fearful of losing her if he doesn’t yield to her every
whim and desire.
While it’s true that a woman will usually “test” U to see how much she can “get away
with,”
what she really wants is reassurance that U are in-charge of their relationship by seeing that U don’t agree to her every request.
If it gets to the point where her man agrees with her every request or “demand,” especially out of fear of her leaving him,
she will walk all over him until sheeventually loses all respect for him.
She’ll then fall into the arms of another man who will show her who is truly “in charge” of their relationship.
Girls may act like they want to be the boss in this new age of independent women who can do whatever they want,
but deep down, they all want a man who is a man and who can and will continually take the lead in a relationship.
Any bros out there fumbling..., c'mon dude, U the man, act up!

4. Being Weak or Submissive Around Other Men:
This is one point U must not toy with.
A woman is always watching to see how much of a man a guy really is.
One of the best ways a woman can see how strong (mentally and emotionally) a guy is, is to watch him interact with other men.
Whether he’s chatting to men at a party or talking to a male shop attendant in a
store,
the woman is watching to see if he acts submissively and places the other man/men above him in terms of dominance.
If he bosses her around at home, but let’s most (if not all) other guys boss him around outside of the home,
she will lose respect for him instanta and won’t want to “follow his orders” at home
- even akpos no go gree if na U date am!
If U want to learn how to be an alpha male who men respect and women love and lust after,
please read wide about being an alpha male. U’ll be surprised at how easy it is to be the alpha male in a situation and how much Ur life will improve, not only with women,
but at work (or study) and around friends and family.
I no say make U turn commando... abeg na Nigeria police go carry U shine!
Life is completely different when, everywhere U go, people look up to U and
respect U.
Good things will just start happening to U all of the time.
Doors open up for U and women just naturally want to be with U.
There’s no need to try to get a woman attracted – she already is becos U’re alpha bravo - just saying.

5. Being Suspicious of Her Every Move:
Trust is essential for the health of a relationship.
Without it, all sorts of problems begin to emerge.
One of the fastest ways to erode and eventually destroy the trust in a relationship is to become suspicious and overly protective of Ur woman.
Regularly accusing her of wanting to cheat or of doing things behind Ur back will only lead to a breakdown of trust and a halt to the flow of love in the relationship.

Whether she’s legitimately working with a male co-worker on a project,
going out with her friends to the movies or to do some shopping or running errands,
some guys will find it difficult, if not impossible, to trust their women unless they are with her.
In an effort to control and keep tabs on her,
some guys will stay in constant contact with their woman to find out where she is and what she is doing,
snoop on her e-mails and phone messages to see if any guys are saying anything
that could mean she wants to be more than “just friends” with them and so on. Women find this to be a major turn-off becos they aren’t attracted to men who desperately need them for their emotional security and feelings of self-worth.

My advice get Urself busy looking for money.

6) Whining Like a Victim:
For a variety of reasons, a man might find that his life plans are suddenly in jeopardy (e.g. he loses a job, his shares/stocks/investments plummet and lose
tremendous value,
he gets caught up in heated disagreements with family or friends, etc.).
It’s understandable that when things go wrong like that,
a man might want to talk about his problems with his woman,
but when he whines and complains like a victim without looking for solutions,
a woman’s respect for him will quickly dwindle not every lady though but it's
good U brace up.
Everyone has disappointments and problems that have to be dealt with,
but some men will let it destroy them by dwelling on it and acting like a “victim of life.”
When a man is in a relationship,
he should sometimes seek his woman’s advice to see how she feels and what she thinks might be a good way of tackling a problem.
Even if he doesn’t follow her suggestions,
but instead weighs them up as a possible solution against his ideas,
a woman will greatly appreciate that her opinion matters to him and that he is actively trying to find a way to resolve his problems instead of moping, whining
and complaining, but not actively seeking a solution.
Boys complain and whine, while men decide and act.

7. Lying:
Being able to rely on U to be truthful and live with integrity is one of the most important things to a woman when in a relationship with U.
It doesn’t matter if it’s a “little white lie” to “keep out of trouble with her” or a major fib that, if discovered, will have life-altering ramifications,
most women won’t tolerate their man routinely being dishonest.
In fact, once Ur woman has caught U lying,
she will never be able to fully rely on U again.
She will not be able to see U as her “rock” or her man of stone and her respect for
U will diminish.
Personally speaking, I’ve been able to consistently win arguments with my girlfriends and consistently stop women from putting heat on me about something,
simply by saying, “Hey, have I ever lied to U? I always tell U the truth, right?” and the woman then has to give in and smile. From there, she can rely on U to lead her with the integrity and strength of a true alpha male.
So, as a general rule, I recommend U to just tell it how it is with women.
Don’t lie, don’t cheat and don’t pretend to be something U’re not.
Be the straight up, cool guy that U are and everything will be fine.
But some girls like lie lie sha but don't fall deep into it least U turn a pathological liar - just learn how to garnish it.
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