A guy went somewhere to spend 3 months. He found 3 attractive girls there. These 3 girls are not friends, but they only come across each other once in a while and exchange simple greetings. The guy decided to aim at one of them to hook up with. But the first girl he was aiming at wasn't responding. Time is runinng out cos he is only gonna be around for 3 months. Due to time constraint, he decided to try the second and third girls he found attractive with the hope of being lucky with one among the three. But just as he made this decision, he realized that the second and third girls has been watching him make advances towards the first girl. These three girls move around the same place and watch each other, so definitely the first girl would also know he is wooing the other two girls, and this would further destroy the guys chances with her. All these means that wooing the first girl and then wooing the second girl and third girl may portray him as a womanizer in the eyes of these three girls.
So what exactly should this guy do in this situation? Should he focus entirely on the first girl he started wooing and hope she accepts or should he try out the other 2 girls for luck and risk appearing as a womanizer and losing all three?

He won't look like womanizer because he is really one.
Within few days he wrote ladies names queue in his list, the more days he spend the more the list increases, why can't him weigh all the qualities and go for the best till she will accept


My advice stop following them and face your project because we don't want any more casulties on NL , someone eyes was plucked out few months ago due to this kind of thing, I don talk my own

wazobia_for_u: He won't look like womanizer because he is really one.
Within few days he wrote ladies names queue in his list, the more days he spend the more the list increases, why can't him weigh all the qualities and go for the best till she will accept


My advice stop following them and face your project because we don't want any more casulties on NL , someone eyes was plucked out few months ago due to this kind of thing, I don talk my own

The list never increased. It was just by chance that 3 lovely ladies were at hand simultaneously.
We cant face a project 24 hrs a day. Our heads should also be up for other things for a little while. If someone eyes was plucked does it mean every other persons shouldnt use their eyes anymore?

Sanboy25:
Nice story.
The answer to your question is in your post:
Go for the first lady, if not, you'll lose three of them at once...

So what if the first lady rejects? All your time would be wasted on her for nothing and the other two good looking ladies would be lost too.

Goes to show u dnt knew what you want... So since u r the " anything goes" type, look 4 someone outside those 3 gals cos it won't work with any of them

Na face-me-I-slap-u una dey stay?

Woo the most beautiful among the three friends while making friend(Casual) with the remaining two!!!

bro, be annointed to start and finish.
there's no harm in trying. when u ar done trying the three if nothing worked then lock up abeg

After all d noise on NL, u still find posts like dis showing how ignorant n lacking y'all are.
@op..sit down like a nice kid n learn a tin or two; when faced wit ur kind of situation, u Never go f d prettiest first, tho she might b ur target. Reason being, she expects it, d odas expect it n she's probably prepared f it. Wen u go f d odas, u take d wind outta her sails, tho still keeping her as a casual acquaintance. That way u keep her guessing n wondering, making her more susceptible t ur advances wen d time is right. On d plus side, d friend mite b so grateful f d unexpected attention, she'll probably smother u wit loving appreciation.

F now, forget abt d 3, u already shot yourself in d foot.
PS; leave d game f dse who know,n face ur project

@OP
FIRST the guy should accept what he is....aka a WOMANIZER. the minute he accepts that is the minute he will have a chance a succeeding here.

SECOND he shouldnt really care what these women think of him as he certainly aint looking to marry them, so he should try his best to score with any of them, and if he doesnt succeed then so be it.....at least he tried.

THIRD if within a short time, he burned his bridges with all 3 of them, then he should set his eyes on other women...... i am sure there are more than these 3 lot around him.

MRbrownJAY: @OP
FIRST the guy should accept what he is....aka a WOMANIZER. the minute he accepts that is the minute he will have a chance a succeeding here.

SECOND he shouldnt really care what these women think of him as he certainly aint looking to marry them, so he should try his best to score with any of them, and if he doesnt succeed then so be it.....at least he tried.

THIRD if within a short time, he burned his bridges with all 3 of them, then he should set his eyes on other women...... i am sure there are more than these 3 lot around him.

The second point makes sense but I dont agree with the first and third point.
The guy is not a womanizer. It was only unfortunate that he found 3 ladies attractive at that point in time. Its possible for one to find several people attractive at the same time. So it was his objective to get just one of them depending on who agrees.
Concerninig your third point, there maybe other ladies outside those three. But the question is, does he find the rest attractive? If he carries out your third suggestion when he doesnt find other ladies outside those three appealing, this is what qualifies him as a womanizer.

He should be friendly with girls 2 and 3 without appearing interested in romance.
He should "openly" flirt with them and be silently aggressive in his pursuit of both.
Meanwhile, he should still be friendly and flirt with girl 1, this lets her know that she's still in his sights.
He should take his opportunities when they arise, for surely they will arise.
Finally, like MBJ says, he should be interested and pursue other women, for this will actually increase his chances of landing the "top 3". Cheers.

dBard: After all d noise on NL, u still find posts like dis showing how ignorant n lacking y'all are.
@op..sit down like a nice kid n learn a tin or two; when faced wit ur kind of situation, u Never go f d prettiest first, tho she might b ur target. Reason being, she expects it, d odas expect it n she's probably prepared f it. Wen u go f d odas, u take d wind outta her sails, tho still keeping her as a casual acquaintance. That way u keep her guessing n wondering, making her more susceptible t ur advances wen d time is right. On d plus side, d friend mite b so grateful f d unexpected attention, she'll probably smother u wit loving appreciation.

F now, forget abt d 3, u already shot yourself in d foot.
PS; leave d game f dse who know,n face ur project

Nice try. But sorry, all you said will not work in this situation. We are talking about 3 attractive ladies. How do we who is expecting to be approached and who is not? The main thing here is that this guy needs one of the three ladies. So how does he get one without approaching all three girls like he is womanizer considering the fact that the first girl he has tried isnt responding and other 2 girls already know whom he wants first?

fresh_dude: He should be friendly with girls 2 and 3 without appearing interested in romance.
He should "openly" flirt with them and be silently aggressive in his pursuit of both.
Meanwhile, he should still be friendly and flirt with girl 1, this lets her know that she's still in his sights.
He should take his opportunities when they arise, for surely they will arise.
Finally, like MBJ says, he should be interested and pursue other women, for this will actually increase his chances of landing the "top 3". Cheers.

You made a good point. I think first engaging them in casual friendship is the big key here. This would make things alot easier cos the guy can explain things to each of the ladies. But there are situations where there isnt a chance to be friends first. In this situation it means the guy would have to confront them and indicate his intrest and feelings. This is where it becomes problem.

clemz85: bro, be annointed to start and finish.
there's no harm in trying. when u ar done trying the three if nothing worked then lock up abeg

This is a better suggestion so far.

Blackteeth: A guy went somewhere to spend 3 months. He found 3 attractive girls there. These 3 girls are not friends, but they only come across each other once in a while and exchange simple greetings. The guy decided to aim at one of them to hook up with. But the first girl he was aiming at wasn't responding. Time is runinng out cos he is only gonna be around for 3 months. Due to time constraint, he decided to try the second and third girls he found attractive with the hope of being lucky with one among the three. But just as he made this decision, he realized that the second and third girls has been watching him make advances towards the first girl. These three girls move around the same place and watch each other, so definitely the first girl would also know he is wooing the other two girls, and this would further destroy the guys chances with her. All these means that wooing the first girl and then wooing the second girl and third girl may portray him as a womanizer in the eyes of these three girls.
So what exactly should this guy do in this situation? Should he focus entirely on the first girl he started wooing and hope she accepts or should he try out the other 2 girls for luck and risk appearing as a womanizer and losing all three?

I will advice you try the other two. Dont bother yourself about what they think. Women are competitive in nature. going for the others may make you get the first. Just try your luck. it is not compulsory you must win any or all of them. there is no harm in trial. dont bother yourself with what they think.

JUST CHOSE THE PERSON YOUR HEARTED TRULY DESIRE, RELATIONSHIP SHOULD NOW BE A CHESS OR DRAFT GAME.

Since option 1 wasn't co-operating, he has 2 options left. What he should do is get to know each one of them on a friendly basis to see which one he vibes well with, the most. This would help him out because they'll get a chance to know him a little bit and not judge him solely based on seeing him approach another girl. If they don't reciprocate his efforts after that, then he should move onto someone else. No be by force. Plenty of fish in the sea.

Yield: Since option 1 wasn't co-operating, he has 2 options left. What he should do is get to know each one of them on a friendly basis to see which one he vibes well with, the most. This would help him out because they'll get a chance to know him a little bit and not judge him solely based on seeing him approach another girl. If they don't reciprocate his efforts after that, then he should move onto someone else. No be by force. Plenty of fish in the sea.

You gat a point but lemme tell you something, girls are very tricky and slippery except you are very loaded or super handsome. For the average guy, all 3 girls have seen your intent before you started the chase, they will play along and allow you make the move, they take special joy in rejecting advances, this makes them look strong and moral, especially when they know their refusal will be heard by the rest two.

Dont forget that these babes know and watch each other, and that they know each others boyfriends, none will like to fall yakata for you since the news will leak to her boyfriend. It has to be secret, or casual to work.

My advice to the guy is to remain friends with the 3, dont make any advances just talk, laugh and hang out with any of them that makes themselves available. Dont ask for anything like romance or special favours, just be around, escort them to places, help out with little things and gain their trust. One will fall one day, maybe the 3 may even compete to see who will sleep more hours in your room in the end.

Blackteeth:
The second point makes sense but I dont agree with the first and third point.
The guy is not a womanizer. It was only unfortunate that he found 3 ladies attractive at that point in time. Its possible for one to find several people attractive at the same time. So it was his objective to get just one of them depending on who agrees.
Concerninig your third point, there maybe other ladies outside those three. But the question is, does he find the rest attractive? If he carries out your third suggestion when he doesnt find other ladies outside those three appealing, this is what qualifies him as a womanizer.

bro, i am sorry to say that (IMHO) if a man is trying to woo girl A, but worries about the fact that girl B and C may see him and thus spoil his chances of scoring with them (if he fails with girl A), then i am safe to say that this man is a playa.....and certainly NOT serious about his intentions towards girl A, B or C.

also, finding many girls attractive at the same time is NOT the problem, the issue here is wanting them all at the same time, instead of choosing ONE GIRL and standing by that choice (whether others know you stood by her or not). it is clear as blue sky that this man's intention is to SCORE at all cost, whether with girl A, B or C.......in other words, the proper description of a PLAYA!

Dumb aszz man. It they are all pretty ask all of them out if you cn afford it and watch them behave like territorial cats that they are #ladies. May the best babe win!!!

Blackteeth: A guy went somewhere to spend 3 months. He found 3 attractive girls there. These 3 girls are not friends, but they only come across each other once in a while and exchange simple greetings. The guy decided to aim at one of them to hook up with. But the first girl he was aiming at wasn't responding. Time is runinng out cos he is only gonna be around for 3 months. Due to time constraint, he decided to try the second and third girls he found attractive with the hope of being lucky with one among the three. But just as he made this decision, he realized that the second and third girls has been watching him make advances towards the first girl. These three girls move around the same place and watch each other, so definitely the first girl would also know he is wooing the other two girls, and this would further destroy the guys chances with her. All these means that wooing the first girl and then wooing the second girl and third girl may portray him as a womanizer in the eyes of these three girls.
So what exactly should this guy do in this situation? Should he focus entirely on the first girl he started wooing and hope she accepts or should he try out the other 2 girls for luck and risk appearing as a womanizer and losing all three?

It won't portray him as a womanizer because that's what he is actually. Why's he wooing 3 different girls. Does he love the 3 of them or just wanna have fun?