A friend of mine narrated her story this way,
That her boyfriend of just about 2month wants sex from her at all cost,but she had already told the guy in the first place that there will be no sex before marriage but the guy still insisted that even if it is once they need to have it.
She even told the guy that he should do the right thing by coming to her family and ask her hand in marriage then he ill have to the fullest but anything after that no sex until marriage.

Nairalander in the house please advice,

So what exactly is the problem here?

@smallworld
my advice is for her to stand on her word, if this guy is really for her, he would wait till marriage but if not, then he is not hers, tell her to let him go .
you should never displease urself just because you want to please someone, pls tell her not to try it.
any more issues, i dey.
let her stick with her word,

He is a "player".

He just want to chop free cake

PLEASE! I beg you in the name of God, tell your friend not to have sex with him untill after marriage, it is obvious that he does not love her enough to wait and if he still does not agree to that then leave him! If he really loved her he would respect her wish!

smallworld:


A friend of mine narrated her story this way,
That her boyfriend of just about 2month wants sex from her at all cost,but she had already told the guy in the first place that there will be no sex before marriage but the guy still insisted that even if it is once they need to have it.
She even told the guy that he should do the right thing by coming to her family and ask her hand in marriage then he ill have to the fullest but anything after that no sex until marriage.

Nairalander in the house please advice,

I was wondering if this story was related to you but when l check ur profile i change my mind because you dont in any way look who will refuse sex before marriage

@busta
that is exactly what i feel, he want to take advantage of the girl, and then run away at the end.
i can never and i will never try such, even for the fact that am a guy.
guys get wisdom towards sex,
sex is not relationship, its not how to show ur love 4 someone

literally speakin everybody likes a free piece of cake most especially if it comes with double flavour but about the gal with a boyfirend problem she said the guy is insisting its simple  i think they hav notin in common i mean its jus two months and he has d liver to insist?What i dont understand is dat they have nothin in common and they are datin ?it doesnt make sense why date someone who u hav notin in common wit?

@ibkaye
so u also dey come this forum

@Joey
Yup

@topic
no sex before marriage!

it's interesting to know how certain people handle demands for sex. the guy might be trying to play save, who knows the kind of lady he's relating with. the chick might be out to grab the guy for keeps knowing his her near last option and offering the cake might turn him off. so why not keep him quessing in the guise of great expectation.

na my angle be that.

@ibkaye
so do you think about sex before marriage

@joey
do you mean do i think of sex before marriage or do i think of having sex before marriage? I'll answer both of these questions though, yes i think about sex sometimes but no I do not plan on having sex before marriage

@topic
like i said, if he really loves you he will wait

as for me ooo
i must do before marriage.
why not.infact if u no dey do make u dey go.
i must have a feeling of how it is there.
all these people saying no sex before marriage ,
na lie dem dey talk.
@ poster,
if ur friend no wan do,
make she go look for man wey go
obey her desires.
afterall men plenty for town.

bennygee:

as for me ooo
i must do before marriage.
why not.infact if u no dey do make u dey go.
i must have a feeling of how it is there.
all these people saying no sex before marriage ,
na lie them dey talk.
@ poster,
if your friend no wan do,
make she go look for man wey go
obey her desires.
afterall men plenty for town.

who is lying

@topic
abeg, dump the guy if he no go agree

ibkaye:

PLEASE! I beg you in the name of God, tell your friend not to have sex with him untill after marriage, it is obvious that he does not love her enough to wait and if he still does not agree to that then leave him! If he really loved her he would respect her wish!

wetin be ur own, pls let her have sex with him if she love him. Why da hell will da friend of urs tell u such a sill story, two months she might not even love him.

@Ibkaye
Play safe oh don't let any Hausa deceive u my dear.

deolaagain:

wetin be your own, please let her have sex with him if she love him. Why da hell will da friend of urs tell u such a sill story, two months she might not even love him.

@Ibkaye
Play safe oh don't let any Hausa deceive u my dear.

She said that her friend does not want to have sex with him untill after marriage, if she 'might not even love him' then why even have sex with him?

@deola
The hausa's have not deceived me dear, it is my own beleif

ibkaye:

She said that her friend does not want to have sex with him untill after marriage, if she 'might not even love him' then why even have sex with him? 

@deola
The hausa's have not deceived me dear, it is my own beleif 

love does not exists in there. Let her give him want he wants abi?

@Ibkaye
Swear to me u're a virgin despite u tender age. . .lol

deolaagain:

love does not exists in there. Let her give him want he wants abi?
@Ibkaye
Swear to me u're a virgin despite u tender age. . .lol

Abeg, if she does not want to have sex with him she should not give him the kitten, he should love her enough to wait, if he isn't willing, boot him and find one who is willing

deola, I am swearing

am a guy, but i dont believe in sex before marriage, why do i have to rush my self in eating what i know i can

@ deola
ur questions are too personal. . . .
she's spoken for by a friend. . . .*call me jealous u are not far off*

ibkaye:

who is lying

@topic
abeg, dump the guy if he no go agree

na so u go talk.
when e reach ,na u go quickly open leg
u be virgin??

@beeneegee
which kin question be that, if u one confirm, go try her

bennygee:

na so u go talk.
when e reach ,na u go quickly open leg
u be virgin??

I beg your pardon? Not every girl is in need of a shag
read my previous posts and you will get the answer to your question

@topic
please tell your friend not to do what she will end up regretting  

@ibkaye
i beg tell her,
let her hear
a word is enough for the wise

make una leave the poster,
if she wan do make she do,
its a world of choices.
whether u do before marriage or not
is not a guarantee for a successful marriage

hnm, that a great talk, we all just need to pray for direction towards the right person

Has the girl in question ever tasted THE FORBIDDEN APPLE before ? If she hasn't then let her stand her ground !

big father:

Has the girl in question ever tasted THE FORBIDDEN APPLE before ? If she hasn't then let her stand her ground !

and what if she has and doesn't want to anymore until after marriage??

Busta:

and what if she has and doesn't want to anymore until after marriage??

On what excuse then ? She don over chop the thing so tay she don yansh full !

whats wrong

with sex before marriage?

as i matter of fact i am an advocate of it

but if the girl senses say the guy wan play am well

its at her decretion

yeah, even if she has done it before marriage, doesn't mean she cannot make the choice not to until she marries. Maybe she wants to do what she feels is the right thing, don't hold that against her.

Akinagirl:

yeah, even if she has done it before marriage, doesn't mean she cannot make the choice not to until she marries. Maybe she wants to do what she feels is the right thing, don't hold that against her.

If she had no previous case of rape then why couldn't she have waited for marriage before tasting the thing ?
Why she wan come change now ?