I was in South Africa a while back and saw this 1 lady who was staying with a guy from back home. The woman was unemployed and he was working as a camera man for one popular tv station. They stay in an apartment with another couple. The guy is a player. He left a woman in his father's house i Delta State and she has 3 kids by him the first one is 16 years old. The south african woman who he has a child with is about 30 and the brother is about 38. More than 3 ladies confronted her telling her that when ever she is not around he invites woman to his house and has normal relationships with them ofwhich they all dumped him when they learnt that he had a woman he was staying with.The lady has also confessed that she knows of his cheating habit but claims to be inlove with this man. in order to hold on to him , she gave him a baby last month and she goes around parading how happy she is What do you guys think of this whole situation

sexkillz: Things fall apart.

please explain

An unfortunate situation. She will most likely be dumped at some point by the guy.

Atheist:-D:
An unfortunate situation. She will most likely be dumped at some point by the guy.

Or realize she is a damn fool and leave on her own.

SniperInADiaper:

Or realize she is a damn fool and leave on her own.

When she is too tired and has suffered enough yes she will leave

@op, abeg wetin concern u? Did d woman complain to u? U just said it just now that d woman jst had d man's baby and she is goin around happily becos of that, I tink d lady knows wat is goin on bt still, she is happy.


That is how some people "fall" in luv and refuse to "stand" up again even wen it matters.

But still, leave them alone, e no concern u and d woman is happy with d situation.

Ab025: @op, abeg wetin concern u? Did d woman complain to u? U just said it just now that d woman jst had d man's baby and she is goin around happily becos of that, I tink d lady knows wat is goin on bt still, she is happy.


That is how some people "fall" in luv and refuse to "stand" up again even wen it matters.

But still, leave them alone, e no concern u and d woman is happy with d situation.

the purpose of the thread was to hear people's views and probably help educate fellow women out there.

OP sounds to me like a complete Gbeborun aka Amebo aka local gossip.
Did you by any chance visit his house in Delta state to ascertain for yourself that he has three kids?
If you don't learn how to mind your business, somebody is gonna teach you.

numerical_guy: OP sounds to me like a complete Gbeborun aka Amebo aka local gossip.
Did you by any chance visit his house in Delta state to ascertain for yourself that he has three kids?
If you don't learn how to mind your business, somebody is gonna teach you.

who is that somebody? is it you?

A BIG OL MESS

Yes it always works like magic,if I was a lady,that exactly what I will be doing,you know husband scarce wella,once you are pregnant for a man you love,u will be hooked with him forever,no way out.

for her.. she has a piece of him... he could burn in hell later.. she would love their baby nevertheless

Monicasque:



the purpose of the thread was to hear people's views and probably help educate fellow women out there.

Women will never learn,no need to educate them,they are called "fishbrains" for nothing.

Many women makes this mistake thinking that a baby keeps a man!

Look at the baby mommas around the world and unfortunately the rate of black baby mommas "appears" to be greater than other communities.

If you have no issues with taking care of a baby alone...go right ahead! It is your life!