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Why Do People Take Oaths In Relationships? (2) (3) (4)
| Oaths by Hirrahmalson(f): 5:21pm On May 22, 2013 |
I and my boyfriend(ex rather) took an oath to be married to each other no matter what. It wasn't a blood oath but we swore and used God, the stars and moon, trees and the ground we stood on as witness (stupid i know!). We also had empty bottles with us and we swore that the only way to reverse the oath was to find those same bottles and break them. Its been 3years now and God knows were the bottles are. Thing is, we broke up about a month ago and even though i still love him very much and i can't picture myself with another man, i still feel the need to reverse the oath so that what ever consequence attached to the oath wil not affect him as he has already started dating and will eventually be married if not to this girl, to someone else in the future. I want him to be happy and safe. Please if anyone knows how or what i can do to undo the oath, I'll be most grateful if you can share it with me. Also, is it possible that since its not a blood oath, its has no consequences? I'm confused and i need your opinions and or advice. Thank you. |
| Re: Oaths by Godson201333(m): 5:30pm On May 22, 2013 |
Are you a village girl?How dare you make an oath with someone in this civilized world...It is really true that "Love is Blind" You should carry your cross... |
| Re: Oaths by Kgdavid(m): 5:44pm On May 22, 2013 |
you should have posted this in the religion section. anyway your witnesses would have had to be God and man not God and inanimate objects. pray and move on 1 Like |
| Re: Oaths by Kgdavid(m): 5:46pm On May 22, 2013 |
also you sound quite young? your father can release you from any oath if you are still under his authority. all my advice is based on christian principles cuz im assuming you are one 1 Like |
| Re: Oaths by dahmie2013: 5:53pm On May 22, 2013 |
This is tales by moonlight! @Op has to be kidding me  ! |
| Re: Oaths by haitto99(m): 6:31pm On May 22, 2013 |
kgdavid is right,talk to ur old man 1 Like |
| Re: Oaths by greedie1(f): 6:37pm On May 22, 2013 |
u r in one deep shit... how old were u den? anyway ucan't do it alone. It took 2 to make d oath it ll take 2 to break it.... tell the ex he should stop dwelling in d present and tink of the future... u guys need to do something o. ofcz d stars and moon are even more reliable witness dan any man can be, don't think for a min u don't need to reverse dat. one would think dat since u had d brain to avoid blood oath and use a bottle, u wuld also have the brain to keep the bottle safe, but no, u lost it.... 2 Likes |
| Re: Oaths by Idowuogbo(f): 6:42pm On May 22, 2013 |
Dial Fadeyi on 0800 69 69 69. |
| Re: Oaths by xynerise: 6:47pm On May 22, 2013 |
One of you may likely run mad. Silly kids |
| Re: Oaths by Handsomeemmy(m): 6:48pm On May 22, 2013 |
Not an easy task, but nothing is too hard for God.... Fast and pray, isaiah 61, 1 Like |
| Re: Oaths by Hirrahmalson(f): 7:05pm On May 22, 2013 |
Thank you all for your comments, i appreciate. I was 21 then and he was 24. we were so in love, we thought we'd be inseparable. we didn't think of keeping the bottles because then, we thought we were soulmates. It was a stupid thing to do i know. |
| Re: Oaths by greedie1(f): 7:18pm On May 22, 2013 |
^^^ i know its not good to hit a lady wen she is already feeling low.... but FGS, u were 21!!!! pele sha 1 Like |
| Re: Oaths by Nobody: 8:49pm On May 22, 2013 |
What the hell is this?  Can't stop laughing.  |
| Re: Oaths by Nobody: 8:58pm On May 22, 2013 |
By fire..!! By force..!! Una two must marry each oda. Nonsense yeye love, it didnt even stand the test of time. |
| Re: Oaths by Princesszoe: 4:49am On May 23, 2013 |
@ op this is not a laughing matter. You need serious prayers and deliverance. Oaths are not meant to be taken lightly. The consequences are very severe . Is a spiritual thing. Go to church for a deliverance. I will recommend mountain of fire prayer and miracle ministries(MFM) for you. They are very good in conducting deliverance. The earlier you go the better for you and your future. |
| Re: Oaths by Nobody: 5:47am On May 23, 2013 |
Hirrahmalson: Thank you all for your comments, i appreciate. I was 21 then and he was 24. we were so in love, we thought we'd be inseparable. we didn't think of keeping the bottles because then, we thought we were soulmates. It was a stupid thing to do i know. So you want us to help you find those bottles?or what do you want exactly? Two people took the oath ,why should you be the one to worry? |
| Re: Oaths by Nobody: 8:07am On May 23, 2013 |
I don't believe in the oath. |
| Re: Oaths by Kosigift(f): 8:31am On May 23, 2013 |
Hahaha dis is funny! Can't stop laffing |
| Re: Oaths by Dovahkiin(m): 8:48am On May 23, 2013 |
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| Re: Oaths by bknight: 9:30am On May 23, 2013 |
Hirrahmalson: We also had empty bottles with us and we swore... Wat kind of bottle were those? Cos u were definitely both high on something... |
| Re: Oaths by 190: 9:34am On May 23, 2013 |
i want an Oath  |
| Re: Oaths by Nobody: 9:38am On May 23, 2013 |
190: i want an Oath I can help you. We'll use a cutlass...who do you want to swear  |
| Re: Oaths by 190: 9:39am On May 23, 2013 |
alutacontinua: either adaobi, flytefalls, kalis or sanboy |
| Re: Oaths by Nobody: 9:41am On May 23, 2013 |
190: ...U bi?Anyways, we can do for all of them. Tell them to meet me in my shrine on sunday by 2.00pm. If they don't want to come, give them some dose of valium and drag them down... By fire by force, we must swear all of una together! |
| Re: Oaths by 190: 9:42am On May 23, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Thank you and BTW sanboy isnt male, shes female and shes my baby and i love her so much  |
| Re: Oaths by Nobody: 9:50am On May 23, 2013 |
190: ok. When you're coming, come with 4 very sharp cutlasses and very hot grinded pepper. Also, don't forget to come with USD10,000 cash for the priestess!  You people's love would reign till eternity after the encounter. |
| Re: Oaths by 190: 9:51am On May 23, 2013 |
alutacontinua: very well and thank you aluta - uve been a good ex gf indeed |
| Re: Oaths by Nobody: 9:56am On May 23, 2013 |
190: It's my pleasure. What are friends for? |
| Re: Oaths by 190: 9:56am On May 23, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Nid ur help here https://www.nairaland.com/1299809/ |
| Re: Oaths by please: 1:58pm On May 23, 2013 |
mumu. go and do another oath na in this generation and age people (lovers) are still taking oaths?? with all the dicks and vagina that abound all ova.......ABEGI!! |
| Re: Oaths by 190: 11:55am On May 26, 2013 |
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