I personally think that most men feel a very powerful desire to IMPRESS women.

If you watch the way a man behaves when he’s talking to a woman he’s just met or a woman that he’s on a first date with, you can SEE IT.

The feeling that you need to impress a woman usually comes along with another feeling: DON’T SCREW THIS UP.

Here are some of the signs that a guy is feeling the need to “impress” the woman that he’s talking to:

1. He tries to only say “cool” things, or things that will “impress” the woman.

2. He acts nervous and stilted during the conversation…sometimes coming across as “formal”.

3. He tries to figure out what the woman wants to hear.

4. If he says something that the woman doesn't like, he “back-pedals” and tries to change what he said to suit the woman.

5. He doesn't say anything “risky”, doesn't tease the woman, and doesn't do anything to upset her.

In other words, when a guy is talking to a woman that he “likes”, he’s usually on his “best behavior” and he’s trying to “put his best foot forward”. And this drive to impress often makes them act UNNATURAL.

But the big Secret To Impressing Women is: --- STOP TRYING.

If you will just STOP TRYING to impress women, women will NATURALLY be “impressed” by you.

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You are correct !@op,unfortunately this doesnt apply to all women.Some ladies just want to hear the good side of a man and they end up falling for that.When am out on a date,I wanna hear more of a man's natural flaws...Don't tell me only the good sides,I want to hear some nasty experiences,until you do that,you will never see the real me,my flaws too.

Not all ladies are "Naturally Impressed". If you must impress a lady, IMO, don't try too hard. Just be polite!

Sanboy25:


I don't believe that.
This works only for a woman who has already fallen for you, not for a complete stranger...
You have to impress me or you'll end up being 'unseen', just like the others.
All the rest is true.

Very true.

Sanboy25:


I can tell that you're a pro

It is not about being a pro. It is about knowing humans and what works for them......Men, women, mixed, we all ain't so different in certain things and some rules are just universal

Sanboy25:


Wow, you're a soldier.
Going to sleep late, waking up early...
Congrats