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Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Nobody: 8:24pm On Jun 05, 2013
dayokanu: OP,

Have you tried to write the USMLE and get into residency?

I am thinking of the years and finances you have invested into this medicine and not just throw it away.

If you ar in the US, Medicine can be a very financial rewarding field.

You can google annual salary of doctors maybe that would motivate you

Yh. I av written and passed d first 2 steps.
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by dayokanu(m): 8:28pm On Jun 05, 2013
annoymous:

Yh. I av written and passed d first 2 steps.

When you get to the US schedule your CS and write step 3. Maybe you can match and get into residency

What makes you think you have a passion for Petroleum Engineering
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by ACM10: 8:33pm On Jun 05, 2013
Prof. Chinua Achebe dropped out of medicine in UI, hence lost his scholarship. He had to pay through his nose to graduate from UI. Today, how many of his former classmates can boast of or equal his achievements? My friend, think well and follow your heart desire. You are still very young at 25 years. You still have time to pick up the pieces of your life. You can't get yourself out of this shiit-hole by digging deeper. Follow your heart desire. My maternal uncle is a doctor and a legal practitioner. Studied medicine first and later followed his heart desire to study law when he was 38! My friend, FOLLOW YOUR HEART DESIRE!

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Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Nobody: 8:35pm On Jun 05, 2013
jay2k: if i may ask.wats dis job satisfaction Is it dat u ve applied ur sef so well yet u dont get it ryt or u dont satisfy ur patients by @ least makin dem get well nd happy,or wat ?? Cos am sure dea is dis inner joy attached to makin som1 or a family hapy..jst by virtue of treatin d patients.xept if ur clinical IQ is so shallow else i c no reason y u would want to opt out cos am sure its fun wen u get it ryt bro...come to tink of it y pet-eng ?? R u certain of a job to do as soon as u r out of skul??lots of dem r out dea lookin for job as against d Drs cos u'll feel mor pain wen u come out nd stay @ home for a peroid looking for job wen u hav a medical knowledge...bro plz eehh!! Jst calm down nd weigh ur options in d medical field nd folow 1,say MPH if u dont lik clinical practice but for pet-engn broda dea is neva any sense in doing dat @ all !!!..wyl doing it try nd put in ur mind nd do it well so dat u will enjoy it cos its natural to enjoy somtin wen u do it well nd make pepl involved happy... U can still ryt ur primaries with either national or west african college nd do a residence studies in com-med u will ve more oportunities i tink u will acqure more knowledge,, nd also get a true understanding of life as u advance in d study nd age cos emotions seems to be d determinant of wat u do..but gaze wat ?? Its not very healthy for u kkk... my opinion though

U make me laugh. Clinical IQ?? Lyk srzly. So u feel once u r good at medicine, u won't wanna quit? No offence, but it sounds like something my dad would say - just keep learning, you'll eventually love it. My wanting to leave medicine has nothing to do with my clinical ineptness, if there's anything like that.
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by bellong: 8:42pm On Jun 05, 2013
annoymous:

U make me laugh. Clinical IQ?? Lyk srzly. So u feel once u r good at medicine, u won't wanna quit? No offence, but it sounds like something my dad would say - just keep learning, you'll eventually love it. My wanting to leave medicine has nothing to do with my clinical ineptness, if there's anything like that.

What is it that you really want to do? Answering the question will give you a start on the next line of action.
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jun 05, 2013
gtrust: I need to know a few things before I can make a suggestion:

1- who sponsored you through medical school
2- who is going sponsor you through 5 years engineering course
3- what about all the specialties in medicine: prosthetic medicine (no blood here), orthopaedic (bone and blood)
radiology (no blood), psychiatry, public health they're so many and if you're abroad...
4- what do you want from engineering salary

Bros,it seems you're a rich kid. Get your folks to send you abroad and go specialise and start making good money!
Engineering etc = zombie around.
Make progress and build on your foundation (medicine which you spent a minimum of 6 years to study)

Is there any such thing as prosthetic medicine. That's bioENGineering, and trust me - I've checked it out - its as good as starting over.

Theres nothing engineering offers in terms of financial reward that Medicine cant ultimately match or at least almost match - so it ain't for pecuniary reasons
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by guchieberry(m): 8:56pm On Jun 05, 2013
Jongrac: What we see from the outside is usually not what it is when one gets to the inside. I am concerned that you've been way too long on the inside to know how medicine works, you should have fallen in love or developed love for medicine through the many years of perseverance and study - or could it be you bought your way through medical school and now afraid of defending your cert?
If NO, then go find out how you could love the course you spent a good number of your years on earth studying, don't use other people's story as a basis for switching. It may not work for you, and if it happens, I can only think of one word in the end - FRUSTRATION.
@Jongrac, u're so right. I'm a doctor by profession and I completely understood the point u're trying to make here. This issue if well dissected, the cause of dissatisfaction wld nt tak long to surface
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jun 05, 2013
tpia@:


If the solution involves thinking you have to go back to secondary school level after getting a degree in medicine, then its either the med school he attended is questionable, or its just a case of nlers and their devious habit of using other people's stories online.

What exactly are you talking about? If I want to go for a 2nd bachelor's degree in Nigeria, what exam will I write? Jamb, ain't it? Does that mean I'm going back to secondary school 'level'?
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Nobody: 9:09pm On Jun 05, 2013
Gud luck..but wat abt Τ̲̅ђe stuffs
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by majalisa(m): 9:14pm On Jun 05, 2013
annoymous: I'm a 25 yr old medical doctor who recently concluded the compulsory one year NYSC. I am not particularly happy with medicine and I think I only became a doctor due to family/environmental pressure. I have a fairly nicely paying job so it ain't about the pay.

I'm going for a Masters in Public Health this fall in a highly reputed university and am now thinking of starting over. write the SAT, and go back for a first degree in petroleum engineering.

I want a job I'll be happy doing for the rest of my life. better late than never, I guess. what are your thoughts? thanks a mil
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jun 05, 2013
ay pumpin: Gud luck..but wat abt Τ̲̅ђe stuffs

Lol. I can give you those if you want.
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Nobody: 9:31pm On Jun 05, 2013
guchieberry: @Jongrac, u're so right. I'm a doctor by profession and I completely understood the point u're trying to make here. This issue if well dissected, the cause of dissatisfaction wld nt tak long to surface

What causes will not take long to surface? You assume too much. I'm leaving medicine because I want to - period. You say you are a doctor - are all your classmates practising medicine?
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by tpia5: 9:42pm On Jun 05, 2013
annoymous:
What exactly are you talking about? If I want to go for a 2nd bachelor's degree in Nigeria, what exam will I write? Jamb, ain't it? Does that mean I'm going back to secondary school 'level'?

Oh boy.

You will write jamb to get into a second degree in nigeria?

Are you joking or something?

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Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by tpia5: 9:43pm On Jun 05, 2013
annoymous:

Yh. I av written and passed d first 2 steps.

Indeed you have.
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by dayokanu(m): 9:45pm On Jun 05, 2013
dayokanu:

When you get to the US schedule your CS and write step 3. Maybe you can match and get into residency

What makes you think you have a passion for Petroleum Engineering
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Braincheck: 9:48pm On Jun 05, 2013
Lagusta:

plss dont think about the money ooo, not all oil geeks are rich ooo, my elder bro had a neighbour once that worked in chevron, this guy is paid 750K a month, but this guy still lives from hand to mouth, after a week, money don finish, no savings, borow money to fuel his car, etc.......

750k a month and lives hand 2 mouth!! Eida ur broda lied or u lie or d both of u conspired 2 lie. Which is it??

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Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Pink1: 10:18pm On Jun 05, 2013
tpia@:


Oh boy.

You will write jamb to get into a second degree in nigeria?

Are you joking or something?

You are clueless. And why in the world are you hounding the young lad if I may ask? And yes to get into a different undergraduate degree in Nigeria you need to take UME
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Pink1: 10:20pm On Jun 05, 2013
tpia@:


Indeed you have.

Jeez let it go shocked, you are coming off as pathetic
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Emmafrancis: 10:24pm On Jun 05, 2013
i once faced this state of confusion. i studied human anatomy, and was supposed to study medcine via DE afterwards (my parents cajored me to that path). but i didnt have the passion for it. . . there was no point struggling and forcin myself into something i dont like.
today am in 300 level marine engineering. and doing so well. makin such good grades without struggling or stress, cos the passion is there.
my friend follow your heart. at the end of the day ,its your future not that of ur parents or friends.
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by DrBaby(f): 10:53pm On Jun 05, 2013
@OP, I am a doctor like u n truth is I av found myself in dis situation a lot of times before now. I was so scared of what il do afta graduation, dint want to get stuck doinwat I dont like....so i started to think....
Now wat is it dt u dont like in medicine....der r a lot of field/dept in medicine...its very rare for u to 'hate' all d dept...see if u can like anyone of it....just incase u really r goin to b 'stuck' in it....so I settled for paeds here...I dint make any commitment at dis stage (no primaries, nothin, just tried to dev d interest)
Next stage, I tot I needed a break frm medicine....sometimes its abt d stress u went thru so wen u eventually bcom a doc it feels like its nt worth it....not new cos we feel same way abt oda things in life....so at dis point I decided to change location (left naija) and settled for a masters in public health...now me not so cut out for oda things in life unlike u who alredi has an interest in pet eng.
Next...afta my one year masters...I looked at d public health thing...for a start I myt av to b travelling from one third world country to d oda to up ma CV n make myself relevant....at dis stage it was glaring I myt av more to deal wt here than in medicine so I said y not try medicine elsewhere, to av an idea wat clin practice is outside naija...so I wrote my licensing exams and started working as a doc here...bliv u me, life feels so diff now...d pay, so much less stress, things r workin well n everyday I see aw my actions or inactions directly affect patient care...n bliv u me, its bn worth it.
Now av said al dat just incase ur reasons r based on wat u see around u...or some fears abt ur future life as a doc where u r at d moment.
Another scenario u can learn from...
My bf is a doc also n since 300 level he has vowed neva to practice medicine so he has bn on a search for wat field to go into...he also wanted something engineering too...so at d end of d day, he settled for occupational health, safety and environment. Now wt dis u work directly wt most engineering companies esp oil n gas...u r a lil closer n u see inside things...there r a lot of certification u can get HSE I, II, III etc, he also alredi has his NEBOSH and he is getting his masters in occupational health safety n environ in d UK.
Now d choice is urs...d world has bcom so liquid dt goin for a first deg in engineering is like driving backwards...der r a lot of middle grounds des days n even heads of companies r lookin for diversified individuals ...cos it pays dem...u wl offer wat odas who av bn strictly in d field cant offer.
If u cld survive med sch..u can pretty much survive anywhere in d world...u av bn built to take over n dt mbbs cert def sets u out from d crowd.
I hope all I av said makes a lil sense n pls pray for God to direct u...dont make d decisions of a life time in a hurry.
Make Sure ur foundation in medicine is secure...as in b fully reg wt d council (mdcn, gmc etc) so dt wen u eventually venture into medicine either as a part time job ( apart frm in naija, its stl one of d highest Paying job outside, so u can b doin locums which pays more than wat oda ppl earn in 3 days for an hour) or for investment ( u myt want to invest in an hospital in d future), u go stl dey kampe

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Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by tpia5: 10:54pm On Jun 05, 2013
Seems a bleacher came on board.

My dear, you can have the thread, i am not dragging the op with you?

If you're looking to deceive some maga somewhere, thats your personal biz.
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Nobody: 11:01pm On Jun 05, 2013
Good luck op
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jun 05, 2013
Medicine gives u opportunity to do anything u like. U can do master in business administration or do master in biomedical engineerin. All d best.
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by polosky: 11:41pm On Jun 05, 2013
annoymous: I'm a 25 yr old medical doctor who recently concluded the compulsory one year NYSC. I am not particularly happy with medicine and I think I only became a doctor due to family/environmental pressure. I have a fairly nicely paying job so it ain't about the pay.

I'm going for a Masters in Public Health this fall in a highly reputed university and am now thinking of starting over. write the SAT, and go back for a first degree in petroleum engineering.

I want a job I'll be happy doing for the rest of my life. better late than never, I guess. what are your thoughts? thanks a mil
Guy a bird at hand is better than two in the bush. Do u know how many millions are in the labour market hoping 4 favour every day. You would not understand what u have until u loose it
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by bigboss80s(m): 4:28am On Jun 06, 2013
annoymous: I'm a 25 yr old medical doctor who recently concluded the compulsory one year NYSC. I am not particularly happy with medicine and I think I only became a doctor due to family/environmental pressure. I have a fairly nicely paying job so it ain't about the pay.

I'm going for a Masters in Public Health this fall in a highly reputed university and am now thinking of starting over. write the SAT, and go back for a first degree in petroleum engineering.

I want a job I'll be happy doing for the rest of my life. better late than never, I guess. what are your thoughts? thanks a mil
I guess we r are in the same boat. I'm 25 as well studied abroad and I'm doing my housejob in Nigeria but I'm just disillusioned with medicine. Its frustrating when you see what your friends who either quit medicine or just read other courses are doing with their lives and you are just stuck in this rut called medicine. Trust me majority of the doctors who say they enjoy what they do are saying so because they have resigned themselves to their fate.
The funny thing is remaining a doctor should be a no-brainer for me since my dad is a surgeon and owns a reputable hospital in this country. And all I would need to do is 'take over' when I have specialized. But with every passing day I just realize more that this isn't what I really want to do. I'm tired of living up to other people's eXpectations. I'll be going for an MPH next year in the UK where it takes 1yr as opposed to 2 in the US and that's the end of practicing core medicine for me.
'When you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.'
Good luck bro.

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Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by bigboss80s(m): 5:12am On Jun 06, 2013
tpia@:


Indeed you have.
Tpia or otapiapia whatever your name is, you seem to be mentally challenged or maybe u were abused as a child. Take your insanity somewhere else.
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Nobody: 5:53am On Jun 06, 2013
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Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Nobody: 6:17am On Jun 06, 2013
bigboss80s:
I guess we r are in the same boat. I'm 25 as well studied abroad and I'm doing my housejob in Nigeria but I'm just disillusioned with medicine. Its frustrating when you see what your friends who either quit medicine or just read other courses are doing with their lives and you are just stuck in this rut called medicine. Trust me majority of the doctors who say they enjoy what they do are saying so because they have resigned themselves to their fate.
The funny thing is remaining a doctor should be a no-brainer for me since my dad is a surgeon and owns a reputable hospital in this country. And all I would need to do is 'take over' when I have specialized. But with every passing day I just realize more that this isn't what I really want to do. I'm tired of living up to other people's eXpectations. I'll be going for an MPH next year in the UK where it takes 1yr as opposed to 2 in the US and that's the end of practicing core medicine for me.
'When you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.'
Good luck bro.

Woooow. U have no idea - meeehn. As in, DAT could easily av been me posting what u just did. My dad z a surgeon too and infact, I work for him ATM. And evry body just expects me to grow up and become him as if his life needs mine to be complete. When I say everybody I mean my dad, family friends, some of his patients - its distressing. most schools in the US offer an 18mth - 2yr MPH but i got admitted into one of the top tier schools that offer a 1 yr MPH. A few schools offer a one year mph in the US JHU, Harvard, I fink Colombia too. Thanks for sharing.
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Pennywise(m): 6:53am On Jun 06, 2013
Anonymous and bigboss both of u have apathy to succed bc u lack drive.

What do u need MPH for? A better salaried job? What stops you from understudying your dad and current trends in medical practice with a view to raising their clinic to the level of hospital conglomerates seen in India. The biggest hospitals in Nigeria today are non-starters in earning potentials compared to asian hospitals. Some are richer than our banks.

Even if u chose to leave medicine, this apathy will follow u wherever u go after the initial excitement. Nothing is wrong with trying to beat ur own path. U will see along d way guys who are 10 times smarter and 20 times more hardworking who havve not been able to make any head way.

Success in life is not always abt abilities sometimes its providence and good fortune. Ur dads were fortunate they had it. And it might take a few generations bf ur families get it.

My advice to u is that be smart and take advantage of what u have.
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by Nobody: 6:54am On Jun 06, 2013
Not too sound harsh. But you know what is disturbing the Op? Too much cash. Assuming u left school and the next thing on ur mind is how to make enuff money to survive, you wouldn't been thinking like this. I still insist that you must fund your engineering program by urself. You still knw u cn rely on ur dad that is why u're having wild dreams. But if u really wanted to do engineering then what u took u so long?
Re: I'm Considering Leaving Medicine - Please Advise by bigboss80s(m): 7:14am On Jun 06, 2013
annoymous:

Woooow. U have no idea - meeehn. As in, DAT could easily av been me posting what u just did. My dad z a surgeon too and infact, I work for him ATM. And evry body just expects me to grow up and become him as if his life needs mine to be complete. When I say everybody I mean my dad, family friends, some of his patients - its distressing. most schools in the US offer an 18mth - 2yr MPH but i got admitted into one of the top tier schools that offer a 1 yr MPH. A few schools offer a one year mph in the US JHU, Harvard, I fink Colombia too. Thanks for sharing.
Uw bro

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