My four year relationship seems to be tearing apart with no hope for tomorrow. The fault is mine, cos I am full of ambitions and dream but there isnt big yield financially to keep my big dreamer chick who believes she can get everything with just a dial on her phone satisfied. Does it really mean there are no chances for an ambitious guy in marital affairs? Now all I feel is having a home (wife and kids) and save myself of the long relationship crap. would this really work out, as I am in search of a woman who would appreciate my very little efforts. 08136708323. thanks

Do u knw wat we get for bein so desperate i guess u dont ask esau in d bible, out of desperatcy for food he sold is birthright, so don't come so desperate or u mite take home wat u neva bargain for:

Desperate times and desperate measures

This shldnt be comin from a man whose ego can make him end d r/ship once d woman's real characters spring up. Take ur tym, many ladies out there want u. Mix up, make moves n live happily. Above all, pray if u believe.

hook up with these chick, you cant tell. http://nairaland.com/1304983/want-date-someone-nairaland

Sanboy25:
Wish you the best.

I will keep those words. thanks.

[quote
author=Exponental]This shldnt be comin from a man whose ego can make
him end d r/ship once d woman's real characters spring up. Take ur tym,
many ladies out there want u. Mix up, make moves n live happily. Above
all, pray if u believe. [/quote]
I knew I wasnt a trash even if the circumstance around points towards that direction 'all for the sake of Love'.
thanks friend, I feel stronger

Fingesi: My four year relationship seems to be tearing apart with no hope for tomorrow. The fault is mine, cos I am full of ambitions and dream but there isnt big yield financially to keep my big dreamer chick who believes she can get everything with just a dial on her phone satisfied. Does it really mean there are no chances for an ambitious guy in marital affairs? Now all I feel is having a home (wife and kids) and save myself of the long relationship crap. would this really work out, as I am in search of a woman who would appreciate my very little efforts. 08136708323. thanks

How old are you dude? Women dont always like to wait too long for a guy to make it financially. 4 years is plenty of time to see major progress. If you are facing stumbling blocks then she might be able to judge accurately if it is a small block or a large block.

To summarise, she got tired of waiting for you to "make it", she felt your progress was too slow and she felt she was running out of time to wait any more.

It is part of life, unmet ambitions and dreams. Dont feel bad about it, you still have time on your hands, she doesnt . Focus on getting your career, finances and other targets solidified before looking at serious dating. Set a 2 year target and clear 1 year progression for at least 5 years. In 7 years you should have met all your main targets. In the 3rd year you can start looking for a more serious partner.

I hope all of this adds up

Fingesi: My four year relationship seems to be tearing apart with no hope for tomorrow. The fault is mine, cos I am full of ambitions and dream but there isnt big yield financially to keep my big dreamer chick who believes she can get everything with just a dial on her phone satisfied. Does it really mean there are no chances for an ambitious guy in marital affairs? Now all I feel is having a home (wife and kids) and save myself of the long relationship crap. would this really work out, as I am in search of a woman who would appreciate my very little efforts. 08136708323. thanks

being full of ambitions and hopes is not the problem here, the issue is you f.ooling yourself into believing that such ambition and hopes is what should keep a woman by your side......this is your FAIL #1

thinking that wasting your life away with "golddigging gals who only demands demands demands" will bring happiness to your life....is your FAIL #2

not understanding that the only way to save yourself from long r/ship is to accept your situation and who you are, and find a woman who will love you for who you are, NOT what she can get from you...is your FAIL #3

hoping for a home with a wife and kids when you are not wise enough (with all due respect) to sort your own issues in life MATURELY (and stop dreaming)....is your FAIL #4

writing that you want to find a woman who will accept your little effort in life, when we can all understand from your above post that you cannot even accept it yourself...is your ULTIMATE FAIL

Please in your desperation, apply wisdom. Best of luck

Thanks NL. I've got strenght to move one and apply all of the wonderful comment you've made

MRbrownJAY:

being full of ambitions and hopes is not the problem here, the issue is you f.ooling yourself into believing that such ambition and hopes is what should keep a woman by your side......this is your FAIL #1

thinking that wasting your life away with "golddigging gals who only demands demands demands" will bring happiness to your life....is your FAIL #2

not understanding that the only way to save yourself from long r/ship is to accept your situation and who you are, and find a woman who will love you for who you are, NOT what she can get from you...is your FAIL #3

hoping for a home with a wife and kids when you are not wise enough (with all due respect) to sort your own issues in life MATURELY (and stop dreaming)....is your FAIL #4

writing that you want to find a woman who will accept your little effort in life, when we can all understand from your above post that you cannot even accept it yourself...is your ULTIMATE FAIL

Thumbs up man.
Dropping ur number ====}fail number 5.

MRbrownJAY:

being full of ambitions and hopes is not the problem here, the issue is you f.ooling yourself into believing that such ambition and hopes is what should keep a woman by your side......this is your FAIL #1

thinking that wasting your life away with "golddigging gals who only demands demands demands" will bring happiness to your life....is your FAIL #2

not understanding that the only way to save yourself from long r/ship is to accept your situation and who you are, and find a woman who will love you for who you are, NOT what she can get from you...is your FAIL #3

hoping for a home with a wife and kids when you are not wise enough (with all due respect) to sort your own issues in life MATURELY (and stop dreaming)....is your FAIL #4

writing that you want to find a woman who will accept your little effort in life, when we can all understand from your above post that you cannot even accept it yourself...is your ULTIMATE FAIL

Thumbs up man.
Dropping ur number ====}fail number 5.

Aklofs:
Thumbs up man.
Dropping ur number ====}fail number 5.

actually that should have been the ultimate fail, lol!

Aklofs:
Thumbs up man.
Dropping ur number ====}fail number 5.

+1

thank you all for pointing out my wrongs. There wouldnt be naira land without you. And for the super ladies who have been calling, kindly go straight to the point 'I want you, you want me'. Thanks to you all NL