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Being Happy & Looking Good: Is The Best Revenge, Yes Or No? What Do You Think? by SexxyNaija(f): 8:10pm On Apr 30, 2008
lol, My friends and I are of course, not doing much work, but we were having a convo about revenge. One of my friends says that she wants to get revenge on her ex-best friend by doing something mean. We had a long argument because I was saying to her that "looking good and being happy, is truly the best revenge"

What do you guys and girls think?

Do you think that it is better to seek to humiliate or be mean to an ex (friend, lover, or someone that wronged you) or is it better to try to have them see you looking hot, and feeling good?

What would hurt more, seeing someone that you used to care for who is now looking like damn near Beyonce or Halle, or seeing that person get you back in a mean way What hurts more, what is better? .olol try to make sense of it all. Anyway, its all in good fun.
Re: Being Happy & Looking Good: Is The Best Revenge, Yes Or No? What Do You Think? by ikamefa(f): 10:24pm On Apr 30, 2008
@topic why try to get revenge on an ex friend, lover or whatever?

why expend so much energy and time on such "ish"

your friend should use all that energy on more constructive things to better her life

move on with her life e.g if she is not in school seek for an admission in a good school, if she is not driving she should go and learn how to drive,or even pick up a new hobby(bungee jumping, sky diving tongue or something)


abi? wink
Re: Being Happy & Looking Good: Is The Best Revenge, Yes Or No? What Do You Think? by TOYOSI20(f): 10:47pm On Apr 30, 2008
@ Topic,

Very true, I isn't on common for some ladies to get a total body "Make Over"

after a break up, whether it be working out, eating right,

going shopping or whatever the case may be to kinda

boost their self esteem, and it also essentially helps them to move on.

Nothing wrong with that at all. cool
Re: Being Happy & Looking Good: Is The Best Revenge, Yes Or No? What Do You Think? by babycool(f): 11:05pm On Apr 30, 2008
@ Poster

The most interesting side of breaking up is the opportunity to start afresh on a clean slate and looking good and sexy is a vital tool for it and yes! its a sweet revenge  grin

Let him know what he is missing especially if he was the one who initiated the break up, have fun enjoy yourself, before you know it, your life has moved on and who knows, a better prince might be knocking at your door!
Re: Being Happy & Looking Good: Is The Best Revenge, Yes Or No? What Do You Think? by Nobody: 8:14am On May 01, 2008
babycool:

@ Poster

The most interesting side of breaking up is the opportunity to start afresh on a clean slate and looking good and sexy is a vital tool for it and yes! its a sweet revenge grin

Let him know what he is missing especially if he was the one who initiated the break up, have fun enjoy yourself, before you know it, your life has moved on and who knows, a better prince might be knocking at your door!

huh why would i be worried if i ended the relationship?
Re: Being Happy & Looking Good: Is The Best Revenge, Yes Or No? What Do You Think? by iice(f): 9:09am On May 01, 2008
ikamefa:

@topic why try to get revenge on an ex friend, lover or whatever?

why expend so much energy and time on such "ish"

your friend should use all that energy on more constructive things to better her life

move on with her life e.g if she is not in school seek for an admission in a good school, if she is not driving she should go and learn how to drive,or even pick up a new hobby(bungee jumping, sky diving tongue or something)


abi? wink

Co-sizzled!
Re: Being Happy & Looking Good: Is The Best Revenge, Yes Or No? What Do You Think? by NaJaHaJe(f): 9:13am On May 01, 2008
ikamefa:

@topic why try to get revenge on an ex friend, lover or whatever?

why expend so much energy and time on such "ish"

your friend should use all that energy on more constructive things to better her life

move on with her life e.g if she is not in school seek for an admission in a good school, if she is not driving she should go and learn how to drive,or even pick up a new hobby(bungee jumping, sky diving tongue or something)


abi? wink

simple!
Re: Being Happy & Looking Good: Is The Best Revenge, Yes Or No? What Do You Think? by frank316(m): 11:44am On May 02, 2008
while looking good and getting a make over is good for someone who just hadf a heart break since it can help boost self esteem, however the reason for this positive change should not be for revenge, it should be for you to be ablke to move on

doing it for revenge is just a sign of accepting defeat, therefore its a wasted energy

the best way to revenge is to forgive and move on

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