Have You Ever "Failed" A Woman's Romantic TEST?

"WHY WOMEN TEST MEN, AND WHAT TO DO WHEN IT
HAPPENS TO YOU, "

   Women test men.
   That's the reality of the situation.

   Women test men RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING, and
they keep on testing FOREVER.

   If you don't know how to deal with the tests
that women throw at you, you have VERY LITTLE
chance of improving your success in the dating
world.

HOW DO WOMEN TEST MEN?
   For most guys, the concept of a woman "testing"
them seems a little strange.
   Why would a woman WANT to test a man?
   What could she possibly gain from it?

   The answer: A LOT.
   By testing a man, a woman can learn THE MOST
IMPORTANT thing about him, 
   And I'll share what that is a little bit later
on in this newsletter.

TEST: A DEFINITION
   Definition of the word "test".
1. A series of questions, problems, or physical
responses designed to determine knowledge,
intelligence, or ability.

      So back to my earlier question,  Why do women
test men in the first place?
   BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO.

   If you walk up to a man and say "Hey, how much
money do you make?" he can LIE.

   If you ask him if he is good in bed, he can
LIE.
   If you ask him if he's strong enough to deal
with the challenges of life, support a family, and
reach his goals, he can LIE.

   Are you with me here?

   In other words, if you get to the end of one of
your college courses, the teacher COULD just ask
you if you have a comprehensive understanding of
the material you learned during the course.
   But you could LIE.

   So the teacher gives you a TEST to see if you
REALLY know what's going on.

   Well, in the same way that teachers test
students, women test MEN.

   And that means YOU, Sparky.
   But there's one LITTLE  difference
between the kinds of tests that women give you and
the kinds of tests that teachers give you, 

   Women don't tell you first,  that they're
going to test you!
   And they don't teach you what you need to know
BEFORE they test you.

   They just do it.
   Right when they meet you.
   Within the first few seconds, actually.
   Why?

   Because women don't have the TIME to deal with
all the guys who are interested in them.
   And they're not interested in getting together
with a man who doesn't "get it" in the first
place.
   Beautiful women aren't looking for a guy to
TRAIN.

   And the tests don't stop,  by the way.
   If you meet an attractive, interesting,
emotionally healthy woman, you can expect to be
tested until either:
1) The relationship ends.
2) You or she DIES.

WHAT WOMEN ARE TESTING FOR

   Now, women will test men for ALL KINDS of
things.

   Some women will test to see if you have money.

   Some will test to see if you'll SPEND your
money on them.

   Some will test to see if you're intelligent.

   And some will test to see if you're loyal.
   But BY FAR, in my experience, more women will
test you initially to see if you're a WUSSY! ( an ass kissing, submissive guy who has no confidence, and always trying to impress her)
   That's right, 

   The VERY FIRST thing a woman wants to "know"
about you is whether or not you're a submissive,
ass-kissing boy who has no balls.
   And if you ARE, then you might as well throw in
the towel.

   If you are a Wussy, and you fail the "Wussy
Tests" that she throws at you, then you stand very
little chance succeeding with the woman who is
testing you.

   Of course, MOST men fail with MOST women,
MOST of the time.

   THESE TESTS ARE VERY SUBTLE
   Probably the most interesting thing about tests
from women is that they're not OBVIOUS.

   At least not to most men.
   In fact, I'd say that 99% of all the tests that
women use on men FLY BELOW RADAR.

   They're right out in the open, obvious to other
women (and a few men), but for the most part, they
go COMPLETELY UNDETECTED.

   For instance, let's say that you're standing at
a bar talking to some friends, and you make eye
contact with the cute girl standing six feet away
from you.

   What do most guys do?
   They look away.
   And they do it FAST.
   Of course, most guys will LOOK AGAIN within a
few seconds.

   But it's already too late.
   TEST FAILED.

   Here's another, 
   Let's say you're at a bar talking to a girl,
and she says "Hey, buy me a drink".
   You say "Great, what do you want?".

   Guess what?
   She just told you what to do, and you went for
it without a second thought.

   Or maybe you've started a conversation with a
group of girls at a coffee shop.
   One of them says that she doesn't like your
shoes.
   You say "Oh, well I wasn't planning on seeing
anyone important today,  I just put on whatever I
could find".
   In other words, you MAKE AN EXCUSE for
yourself.

   As you can probably guess, that's a BAD IDEA.
   In that moment, you have just failed the test
with flying colors.

THIS HAS HAPPENED TO YOU
   If you think back in your life about all of the
situations with women that went BAD, you'll
probably find that you were TESTED, and you
FAILED.

   In one way or another, you probably missed some
VITAL clue that you were being tested, and you
wound up failing.
   RESULT: She hit the road.

      And before I give you some tips on handling
tests from women, I want to say AGAIN: If you find
yourself failing tests from women on a CONSISTENT
basis, then you should get yourself some "in-
depth" reprogramming on a DEEP level.
HOW TO DEAL WITH TESTS
   If you're going to successfully deal with tests
from women, you first need to "get it".
   To say it differently, you need to learn how to
RECOGNIZE tests quickly,  and know when they're
happening.
   What's the best way to know when you're being
tested?
   Well, one way that I KNOW I'm being tested is
my GUT.

   Your gut doesn't lie.
   In fact, if we guys would just learn to use
this amazing "test detector" called our GUTS, then
we'd live happier lives.
   Here's how it works, 

   Next time you're interacting with a woman and
she does or says something that makes your gut
tense up, you're probably being tested.
   Now, I can't go into all the aspects of how to
deal with tests from women,  because that would
take me several hours.
   But I will say that the most IMPORTANT thing to
do is EXPECT tests,  and then pay close attention
to how you're responding to them.
   Most of the things we do with women are NOT
CONSCIOUS. When a woman looks at you, and you look
away, it wasn't a "conscious decision".
   It just HAPPENS.
   All of a sudden, you're feeling butterflies and
glancing away. It happens in an instant.
   So you first need to recognize when it's
happening to you.
   When a woman tells you what to do, she's
testing you.
   When a woman tries to change plans or cancel at
the last minute, she's testing you.
   When a woman asks you to buy her something,
she's testing you.
   When a woman nags, whines, or complains, she's
testing you.

   Learn to SPOT IT when it's happening.
   Next, notice how you respond.
   You've failed a million tests with women
already, so don't worry about ten more.
   Just notice how you respond.
   Most men respond by trying to win the woman's
approval.
   If she tries to cancel plans at the last
minute, you'll say "Oh, no problem".
   If she complains about something, you'll say
"I'm sorry, let me fix it".
   You know what I'm saying.
   Again, just notice what's going on when you
respond.
   Finally, learn how to PAUSE before you respond,
and then UNDERSTAND how you need to respond to
each test.
   Most tests will be tests to see if you'll allow
her to CONTROL YOU.

   If you DO allow a woman to CONTROL you, you
will lose.
   And you can take that one to the bank.
   You will lose in one way or another, almost
guaranteed.

   Women don't want men that they can control.
   So make sure you pass those tests first.
   The more you pay close attention, the more
you'll see the subtle tests that women are using
with you.
   And the more of these tests you pass, the more
success you'll have.

YOU MUST GO BEYOND THE TEST
      If you REALLY want to have success with women,
you need to learn how to deal with tests even
BEFORE THEY HAPPEN.

        And by FAR, the most important of these things
is to make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you.
   Sure, you can show her that you're a great
leader, or self-confident, or that you won't kiss
up to her before she tests you for it.

   As you probably know by now, Attraction Isn't A
Choice.
   Women don't go through a logical process to
decide if they're going to feel ATTRACTION.
   It just HAPPENS.
   But it doesn't happen very OFTEN.

   If you're one of those rare men who knows how
to use your body language, voice tone, and other
communication to make women feel ATTRACTION, then
you will have the kind of success that most men
only dream of.
   And you'll deal with far fewer tests from
women.
   Success with Women and the idea of making women
feel ATTRACTION.
   It's something that no one talks about.
   It's something that most men don’t understands.
         Learning this particular skill can make ALL THE
DIFFERENCE in your life.

   cheers
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why would a woman test me,im not that desperate and personally i think our relationship wont last from the moment i know she tested me because i think its immature

@ POSTER
u right, women test men, but not just any man.
they test them to know if they have the same feeling towards each other, or if the guy truly love them,

may be my guy as been cheating on me, the best way for me to prove that is to give him an exam, not even a test, so if he fails so be it.

I think i need help here,im good at noticing things like that,but im naturaly rebelious,i hate impressing ppl,wat do u think

The first reply is spot-on. It's childish. If he 'fails' you won't dump him. You'll try again later.

l kind of agree with datemax there is this girl l want to get with in between she has asked some questions that has got me wondering what the heck is going on seriously

Good luck in your test

THIS GUY IS OFF THA HOOK, IT WAS LIKE I WAS HAVING MY WHOLE LIFE BEING ROLLED B4 MY EYES. LET ME SHARE THIS WITH ALL LANDERS,
THERE IS THIS GUL I HAVE ASKED OUT AND I HAVNT HAD MY REPLY YET BUT I GOT A TEST FROM HER YESTERDAY. WEN I CALLED HER SHE SAID SHE WASNT OK AND THAT SHE HAD A HEAD ACHE TRUST A NAIJA NIGGA NOW I SWUNG INTO ACTION AND PLAYED DR. GREY AND GAVE ALL THE GIST THAT I COULD GIVE TO SHO THAT AT LEAST I CARE. I CALLED HER AGAIN THIS MORNING AND SHE SAID "WHEN NXT ARE WE GOINA SEE", DID I PASS THE TST, HALLA BACK LANDERS

1. too long to read
2. wat is the essence of this test? maybe someone that read it all and understands it can help me out.

ENQUE, AS I SAW UR POST MY MIND FLY WETIN NA. I WAS HAPPY BUT AFTER UR POST I HAD A SECOND TOT AS U SAID DONT BE HAPPY YET TIME WILL TELL. SO MY DEAR FROM A WOMAN'S VIEW WETIN I GO DO. TRY CALM ME DOWN ABEG , NO VEX. REPLY THIS POST

Busta:

1. too long to read
2. what is the essence of this test? maybe someone that read it all and understands it can help me out.

exaclty

PRYNXLEX:

ENQUE, AS I SAW UR POST MY MIND FLY WETIN NA. I WAS HAPPY BUT AFTER UR POST I HAD A SECOND TOT AS You SAID DONT BE HAPPY YET TIME WILL TELL. SO MY DEAR FROM A WOMAN'S VIEW WETIN I GO DO. TRY CALM ME DOWN ABEG , NO VEX. REPLY THIS POST

you mustn't put your picture on a post na.

enque these chill pills really helped. thanks and as for the picture i was just testing the stuff. i did not know that it will turn out this big no vex

PRYNXLEX:

enque these chill pills really helped. thanks and as for the picture i was just testing the stuff. i did not know that it will turn out this big no vex

oya remove it naaaaaaaaa! we don c am tire

Can anyone guess how many times that word "TEST" was used in this topic? even as I type that shit is still ringing in my head!
I remember this girl that claim I don't love her because I failed her simple test! watin be the test? out of no where in the middle of a whole diff topic she asked me her cell number (just about a week after we started talking). That thing vex me   na like tissue I drop her! test ko! tester ni!!

God is wonderful Ohhhhhhh how that tiny neck take carry that BIG head for that picture

prince_onx:

God is wonderful Ohhhhhhh how that tiny neck take carry that BIG head for that picture

LAMOOOOOOOOOOOOO

That is some head !!! That's all i got to say.


@Busta

Your Jiggling Busta. that is some rum roast you got there on that picture. Something white girls wish they have!!! KEEP UP THE BAD WORK.

@sweet T,

thx but no stalk me oh

@Busta

You dont have to worry about stalking. I'm already at your door. That is something you got back there. Make a brother wanna say, HALLELUYAH !!!

damm yall are cruel, that head can probably seal the holes in the ozone layer

ITS MY MISTAKE, I DID NOT KNOW THE PICTURE WILL GO THAT WAY OK. AT LEAST AS ONE DUDE SAID IT CAN HELP THE OZONE. THATS A USE I WISH I CULD TAKE THAT OFF. WELL GO ON SAY ALL YOU CAN, TALK SOME MORE, ITS FUN ISNT IT

Is it only women that give guys romantic test? Do guys not give ladies test too? To me, the more you try to go by the theories and principles, the more cofused you may find yourself. People are different (not all ladies are the same, not all guys are the same). What works for A might not work for B. I think you just have to be natural; what's yours is urs; you dont have to go chykin all d ladies to assert dat u're truly d man in control!