I won't waste anytime talking all the long stories that I am used to reading here. I will just go straight to the point...

Please if you are in my shoes and your boyfriend came visiting and stayed for long then this neighbour of yours who claims to be your sister suddenly appeared from nowhere and embarrassed your boyfriend out of the house, what would be your reaction? Would you allow you boyfriend come back apologizing for taking more time than usual or look out for him since her aint picking his calls?

I need advice please!!!

Did your boyfriend inconvenience her?
Which kind of neighbour are we talking about...like room-mate or flat-mate or house-mate or compound-mate?
How is your boyfriend's stay with you her business?

alutacontinua: Did your boyfriend inconvenience her?
Which kind of neighbour are we talking about...like room-mate or flat-mate or house-mate or compound-mate?
How is your boyfriend's stay with you her business?

An elder woman who I'm kind of close to. My boyfriend did nothing to her, she just came in shouting and saying should I be his younger sister would her allow a man come sleep with me in his house. I was shocked. My boyfriend was shocked too. He answered her, "No one was sleeping with anybody". She trailed him outside but he was already gone.

Why don't u tell us d full story,is ur sister paying d house rent and feeding u.u are being economical with d truth so come clean first we hv time to read.

overdrive: Why don't u tell us d full story,is ur sister paying d house rent and feeding u.u are being economical with d truth so come clean first we hv time to read.

I'm not being economical with the truth. She is not my sister, just an older neighbour. I was surprised when she introduced herself to my boyfriend as my sister.

alutacontinua:

Aunty, calm down and chillax
Must you be mean? ...which one is normal naija mentality now?
You have just about 20 views on your thread, u don't just expect that everybody that opens drop a comment...75% of viewers here are even guests.

Sorry about that, I already modified the post. I would love if you do same. Thanks

Miss_Fibre:

An elder woman who I'm kind of close to. My boyfriend did nothing to her, she just came in shouting and saying should I be his younger sister would her allow a man come sleep with me in his house. I was shocked. My boyfriend was shocked too. He answered her, "No one was sleeping with anybody". She trailed him outside but he was already gone.

Well...you just need to draw boundaries. If you respect the woman enough to let her boss you around and be your mother, you can just talk to her calmly and settle it with your boyfy. This option means that she'll continue to keep an eye on you and your movements.

If you think you're old enough to take care of yourself and you don't need extra monitoring, tell her that you would not appreciate her interfering in your matters again and that you weren't pleased with her actions the other time. She'll see you as a bad girl for a while before she gets used to the fact that you're not her sister. Either ways, call your boyfriend and apologize to him.

alutacontinua:

Well...you just need to draw boundaries. If you respect the woman enough to let her boss you around and be your mother, you can just talk to her calmly and settle it with your boyfy. This option means that she'll continue to keep an eye on you and your movements.

If you think you're old enough to take care of yourself and you don't need extra monitoring, tell her that you would not appreciate her interfering in your matters again and that you weren't pleased with her actions the other time. She'll see you as a bad girl for a while before she gets used to the fact that you're not her sister. Either ways, call your boyfriend and apologize to him.

Thanks....

First of all how old are you?

Are you a lesbìan?

your boyfriend no package well, in fact na the dunlop silipas wey he left for ur door step dey provoke the woman..
make he come back with 2013 Porsche Panamera, na the woman go give am sit make he wait for you if you no dey house, but if you dey house na the woman go dey ask you whether you don give cola to OUR visitor.

J12: Are you a lesbìan?

Is that the advice I asked for? Why would you even start with such a question?

You need Jesus!!!

Tell your boyfriend to get a house of his own there you won't have to worry about neighbours, btw what kind of guy goes to a girl's house and spends weeks there?? Is he that jobless

hornipipe: Tell your boyfriend to get a house of his own there you won't have to worry about neighbours, btw what kind of guy goes to a girl's house and spends weeks there?? Is he that jobless

I was talking about hours, not days or weeks

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Miss_Fibre:

I was talking about hours, not days or weeks

Still doesn't change his advice

All these old ppl sef, very annoying n jobless! If na me I'll spark and warn the woman but then again I won't respect any elderly person that doesn't respect themselves

All these old ppl sef, very annoying n jobless! If na me I'll spark and warn the woman but then again I won't respect any elderly person that doesn't respect themselvesr

Miss_Fibre:

I'm not being economical with the truth. She is not my sister, just an older neighbour. I was surprised when she introduced herself to my boyfriend as my sister.

How many boyfriends have you brought to the house? What is his manner like whenever he comes? Is he loud and noisy? Maybe she feels protective of you.

Things in play here. 1st, Do you live in face-me-I-face-you rooms?
B. Is she a sit at home women?
Third, Dont try to argue with her over the incident because if you do, you will be wrong in your neighbours eyes and from there resentment. It maybe a one off incident.

Well OP-my gf is economical with the truth. This is what happened. We were tonging when some1 coughed by the door. So we quickly separated, bt dat woman smart badt, she sensed it. I left wit my honour to avoid amebo neighbours. Am sorry ppl.

frodobee: Well OP-my gf is economical with the truth. This is what happened. We were tonging when some1 coughed by the door. So we quickly separated, bt dat woman smart badt, she sensed it. I left wit my honour to avoid amebo neighbours. Am sorry ppl.

Damn it, there was no tonguing jor... Just normal gisting

Miss_Fibre:



Damn it, there was no tonguing jor... Just normal gisting

Sure, but there was handling, groping and possibly insertions

Atheist:-D:


Sure, but there was handling, groping and possibly insertions

Miss_Fibre:

Just filling in the blanks... dont get mad babes

She is just protecting you, you should actually thank her !maybe she saw through him ,why would he not pick up his calls if he did not have bad intentions?

Lol my neighbour is my landlord and when i come home with babes, he will request for their number and i gatz give am control if not no drinking with the chairmen again. Yeah but seriously how old are you, i get the woman,s intention but i don,t see an elderly person doing such to an adult so am assuming you are young prob early twenties.