orjifavour: i cant go back to him coz of wat he said.

Just stick to your decision, forget him.
Why would he curse the woman that he loves and want to marry...
He's a liar and you know it, he could have also lied on his feeling & the marriage thing. Find someone else.

Sanboy25:
Just stick to your decision, forget him.
Why would he curse the woman that he loves and want to marry...
He's a liar and you know it, he could have also lied on his feeling & the marriage thing. Find someone else.

Atheist:-D:
He didnt curse her, he said the truth. She liked him until she realised he had no dough... then she dumped him. Is he meant to smiling after such actions. Why is she even contemplating going back to him? Didnt she dump him? Or is the grass not as green on the other side?

Good Morning, hope you slept well.
If he didn't LIE at first to the girl, she would have love him for what he REALLY is, a broke dude
Or she wouldn't have started anything with him... The man is at fault here...

Sanboy25:
Good Morning, hope you slept well.
If he didn't LIE at first to the girl, she would have love him for what he REALLY is, a broke dude
Or she wouldn't have started anything with him... The man is at fault here...

Atheist:-D:


Good morning,

The lady is at fault. Ok he lied. Women lie about their age, the number of men they have slept with etc. Are these dealbreakers in a relationship? No. Even virginity is not a deal breaker and some women lie about that. She found out, she should have given it time to see if the relationship can work. She didnt, she immediately dumped him. That is because the only thing she has an interest in (or the only trait he has that she likes) is the financial benefits and now he lacks that she has no reason to stick about.

Sanboy25:
Just stick to your decision, forget him.
Why would he curse the woman that he loves and want to marry...
He's a liar and you know it, he could have also lied on his feeling & the marriage thing. Find someone else.

Atheist:-D:
Women lie about their age, the number of men they have slept with etc. Are these dealbreakers in a relationship? No. Even virginity is not a deal breaker and some women lie about that.

You're generalizing while we are on a SPECIAL case. And that's a stereotype !

Atheist:-D:
She found out, she should have given it time to see if the relationship can work. She didnt, she immediately dumped him. That is because the only thing she has an interest in (or the only trait he has that she likes) is the financial benefits and now he lacks that she has no reason to stick about.

orjifavour: THANKS

Anytime.

Atheist:-D:


Good morning,

The lady is at fault. Ok he lied. Women lie about their age, the number of men they have slept with etc. Are these dealbreakers in a relationship? No. Even virginity is not a deal breaker and some women lie about that. She found out, she should have given it time to see if the relationship can work. She didnt, she immediately dumped him. That is because the only thing she has an interest in (or the only trait he has that she likes) is the financial benefits and now he lacks that she has no reason to stick about.

freecocoa: Are you for real? You gotta be kidding me.

How can you say his lying about who he is should not be a deal breaker? She fell in love with who he made her believe he is instead of the real him, how was she to know he is a blawdy liar? Hian o.

tpacalipse: Fuccking gold digger!

Smuthx: Cursing as in cursing.. Are you sure its not in the heat of the moment that lead to his anger words.. You measure is on the guy's wallet. So why go back if he is still not that rich to your standard...

freecocoa: Some men won't cease to amaze me, like what do most of you have inside your brain box?

So she should have continued dating a pathological liar to prove she isn't a gold digger? My god! This is serious.

Monicasque: it means he really loves you.

... Or that he wants to get into her pants...

Monicasque: ... help him better himself.

You can't change a grown-up man... Many threads on NL should have proven you so.
Better if she finds somebody else...

Atheist:-D:


Ok. So when a lady does the same, we should immediately have her bags packed and call her a cab. The truth is she should have been patient enough to know more about the "new" guy. Is he similar to the "fictional" guy? Is he nice, hardworking, is he a lady beater? Sure it isnt a good thing to lie about these things but she was too quick to act. And she knows it. She wouldnt be asking if she should take him back if she was certain he was not worth it. She was too angry about the finances situation.

Atheist:-D:
Give him a chance, keep an eye on him. If he continues to lie then you can end it. He might have made all that stuff up to get her. It isnt good but some guys do that. It doesnt make him a terrible person. It is what he does from this point forward that will determine if he is good or bad.

Do you guys really want to see the miss coming back on NL in a few weeks, crying because we mislead her...
I don't think that the relationship will work....
@OP: Come back in a few months and tells us if it really worked.

freecocoa: Yeah right, a liar is the worst person you can ever deal with, whether he is hard working and whatever you can think of doesn't not count as far as I'm concerned, how you sure it is all about the finance for her?

Someone kept lying to her repeatedly even when she asks him over and over again, yet you expect her to sit and swallow it all in the name of love, what rubbish, mscheew.

And yes, if a woman is a liar, kick her a$$ to the curbs.

Sanboy25:
Do you guys really want to see the miss coming back on NL in a few weeks, crying because we mislead her...
I don't think that the relationship will work....
@OP: Come back in a few months and tells us if it really worked.

orjifavour: HELLO FRIENDS

pls i need your help, i meet this guy last year on 2go when i was still in school in the east but i stay in lagos. he also stayed in lagos too. i promised to see him when i come back to lagos which i did, all the while he talked about marriage which i do smile about it. he is 27 and am 24.i was really ready to continue with him but when i visited him what i saw was diferent from what he said, he lied about so may things and besides his financial status was low for him to think of marriage. so i walked out on the relationship and told him to plan his life well. then the problem started, he called me names,insulted me, he said i have seen a better man which is a lie coz am still single. he said i will not be happy with my new man. i still love him thou but i cant go back to him coz of wat he said. pls NL WAT DO I DO COZ HE STILL WANT ME BACK.

Atheist:-D:
No woman will give you an honest answer except they are virgins. So do we kick them all to the curb

Atheist:-D:


Give him a chance, keep an eye on him. If he continues to lie then you can end it. He might have made all that stuff up to get her. It isnt good but some guys do that. It doesnt make him a terrible person. It is what he does from this point forward that will determine if he is good or bad.

The problem with modern ladies is that you lack patience, none of you are prepared to go for anything that is not the finished article. How do incomplete guys get a look in? They have to get your attention and hopefully you get to admire them for who they are once you know them personally.

Sanboy25:

freecocoa: Is it that you didn't see where she wrote that she asked him even with evidence and he still lied or what?

I know guys like that and walai they are not worth wasting time on, he is not ready for a relationship, why the feck should he try to use marriage to lure her in when he clearly isn't fit to get married? He only wants to deceive her. Everyone lies once in a while but some lies are best not overlooked.

Atheist:-D:


I'll hold you to that. By the way, how many men have you slept with

No woman will give you an honest answer except they are virgins. So do we kick them all to the curb