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Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by candesan: 5:29pm On Jun 10, 2013
i wish i was exposed to this type of information when i was in my tweenties, good word to start d tweenties. more grace to your elbows
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by ichommy(m): 5:29pm On Jun 10, 2013
Okay
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by Greatken007(m): 5:31pm On Jun 10, 2013
GIVE STRONG DRINK TO HIM WHO IS PERISHING...GO AND ASK FROM THOSE WITH GREY HAIR,THERE IS NO GAIN IN BEEN A DRUNK

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Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by vislabraye(m): 5:56pm On Jun 10, 2013
Nawtipet: What about "Fuc,k Ur Neighbour's Daughter"...#Nawti#
It falls under being adventurous.
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by NellyGhenghen(m): 5:59pm On Jun 10, 2013
Erm i think We should do all this flirting and other things listed above in our teens. undecided in your 20s you should get someone right for you, get your life on track and settle the Bleep down, or you ll be broke for the rest of your life!
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by Stegomiah: 6:13pm On Jun 10, 2013
Nawtipet: What about "Fuc,k Ur Neighbour's Daughter"...#Nawti#

karma law will catch up wit ya
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by Stegomiah: 6:18pm On Jun 10, 2013
[quote
author=wi5dom]What about doing more to listening than talking bcus
almost all of the listed points is the extrovert ones?[/quote]

really, dnt tink so
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by Nobody: 6:57pm On Jun 10, 2013
2bosun: Get a degree or start a business. The 20's provide the foundation on which your future rests on.

You're so on point. They seem to have forgotten the adage 'Play now, Pay Later. Pay now, Play Later'.

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Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by Nobody: 6:58pm On Jun 10, 2013
Life is too short to observe all this things.

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Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by Stegomiah: 7:28pm On Jun 10, 2013
Enangson: Life is too short to observe all this things.

4real, so what should one observe?
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by Stegomiah: 7:29pm On Jun 10, 2013
[quote
author=candesan]i wish i was exposed to this type of information when i
was in my tweenties, good word to start d tweenties. more grace to your
elbows[/quote]

tnx!
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by LabourParty(m): 7:30pm On Jun 10, 2013
Another oyinbo list ..... undecided

Get a good education/career, marry the right person and stay away from trouble jor.

And when you retire travel around the world.

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Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by Nobody: 7:35pm On Jun 10, 2013
Move to California

Almost Accomplished
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by Godson201333(m): 7:53pm On Jun 10, 2013
Sanboy25: You really do like lists... undecided
Anyway thanks, I have the perfect age to start all of these. grin


Sanboy you always first to comment,Please do not tell me that you sleep on nairaland lol
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by uwem18: 8:36pm On Jun 10, 2013
may God bless you for this list
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jun 10, 2013
and once again, this list of yours is not meant for a typical Nigerian.
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by younglawya(m): 8:48pm On Jun 10, 2013
I think it will not profit us to copy and paste useless information that is almost totally inapplicable to our nigerian circumstances. Utter bollocks if you ask me.
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by snthesis(m): 9:09pm On Jun 10, 2013
bookmarked, will read in 5yrs time
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by oshobar(m): 9:40pm On Jun 10, 2013
younglawya: I think it will not profit us to copy and paste useless information that is almost totally inapplicable to our nigerian circumstances. Utter bollocks if you ask me.

You may have a point sha..
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by Ichie11(m): 9:42pm On Jun 10, 2013
On point!
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by lifestyle1(m): 9:45pm On Jun 10, 2013
wemmieslim: am new here pls......

You are welcome... Will u be my friend ?
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by UyiIredia(m): 10:00pm On Jun 10, 2013
I could do all the OP listed whilst being a fool at 30.
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by deols(f): 10:03pm On Jun 10, 2013
done all, especially the eating part cheesy but havent actually done one sad
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by anitank(f): 10:11pm On Jun 10, 2013
Those were the things I did as a teenager..... Now in my twenties and all I wanna do is...
Make money
Make love
Make babies and
Make heaven
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by ozoemeka(m): 10:45pm On Jun 10, 2013
Stegomiah: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s

Your twenty-somethings are the prime of your life. You will never be as young as you are right now, and there will never be a better time for you to embrace all that the world has to offer than this age of freedom. Yes, freedom. Forget about the accusations that millenials are lazy, unmotivated and lack drive.

We all have growing dreams, previous accomplishments under our belts and an ever present sense of urgency to achieve exactly what we want. Your 20s aren’t an excuse to give up on dreams and let go of ambitions. Instead, these years are the time to put it in full throttle and hit the ground running to set yourself up for future success and happiness. If you’ve ever doubted yourself, now’s the time to let go of insecurities and uncertainties.

Here are the 20 things you need to do in your 20s:

1. Be you.

Your 20s are the perfect time to find yourself, if you haven’t already. Take some time to be on your own and learn about yourself, and most importantly, learn to love yourself. Be unique! Don’t try to fit the mold and blend in with everyone else. Be sexy; be bold. Make your presence known.

2. Struggle.

Blunt and to the point. Don’t let your struggles define you, but let them happen. Misfortunes make you a better person through the lessons they instill. Troubles will come and go; they are not everlasting. If you’re struggling through tough times, things will only get better.

3. Eat whatever you want.

Screw the diet fads and constant pressure to look like the skinniest models on the runway. Working hard to become healthy and get into shape is one thing, but relax with the strict dieting. Eat whatever you want, and don’t think twice about it. You will not gain ten pounds because you ate that delicious chocolate chip muffin this morning. Food is good. Indulge in a little gluttony sometimes.

4. Date someone completely wrong for you.

Dating is fun! Don’t fear blind dates, or people that don’t fit “your type.” Go out with someone unexpected and see what happens. You could fall in love with that one quality that you never really noticed. You might be surprised at just whom you fall for. Even if you end up turned off and bored with the person, at least you have a funny story to tell.

5. Do something purely for the thrill, and maybe more than once.

Be a thrill seeker; don’t play it safe. The feeling of excitement is fun and enjoyable. Take some risks, and don’t fear the result. Sometimes going out on a limb and diving into a thrill-seeking experience makes for the best memories. You might not get enough and want to do it again. Just remember — depending on the risk you take — everything is best in moderation.

6. Keep moving.

Your 20s are definitely not the time to settle. Keep moving; do not slow down for anyone or anything. When you settle down in a certain relationship or way of living, life becomes stagnant and soon enough, less exciting. Keep moving to keep up with the quality of life that you deserve in your 20s.

7. Travel the world.

There is nothing more rewarding or fulfilling than traveling. Travel the world; explore unfamiliar territory. Soaking up new cultures is one of the best learning experiences, and it opens your eyes to the quality of life in different areas around the world. You might always have time for travel, but there is no better time to explore with all the freedom in the world than in your 20s. Who knows, you might even come across a place that steals your heart away and you’ll never want to leave.

8. Love your parents, thank them and repay them.

Your parents have been the guiding force to your current place in life. Love them for all that they have done for you up to this point because you will hopefully be taking a stronger lead in your life, specifically financially. Thank them for all the times they supported you financially, or personally, despite any poor decisions you may have made in the past.

Most importantly, your parents expect nothing from you in return for all that they have attributed to your growth as an individual, but take it upon yourself to repay them in any way you might see fit.

9. Spend good, quality time with your family.

Your family has been, and will always be, present in your life. Friends and romantic partners may come and go, but blood is forever. Take advantage of your freedom during your 20s to spend some quality time with your family and maybe even get to know them better, now that you’re older and more mature. You will cherish the times with your family when you eventually become the eldest generation.

10. Mend the open wounds.

Let go of the bullsh*t in your past. Look at your 20s as a clean canvas. This is a time to release any negative feelings holding you back from moving forward. Heal any open wounds that remain, and accept that there is sometimes no resolution for certain situations. If there might be a way to mend an open-ended problem, then make the attempt. Do whatever you have to do to feel free of any negative restrictions.

11. Meet a ton of new people.

New people are the spice of life. Everyone is unique in his or her own way and with every person you meet, there is added excitement and flavor in your life. Take it upon yourself to meet as many new people as possible in your 20s. You might meet your future hubby or wifey, or maybe simply start lifelong friendships.

12. Make unforgettable memories.

Your 20s are a time to immerse yourself in as many new experiences as possible. Make unforgettable memories with your friends, old and new. Now is the time to try as many new things as possible. Expand your horizons.

13. Continue to follow your dreams.

After years of deciding what you want to do you with your life, you may still be undecided on what exactly that is. Despite indecision on what career path to choose, your dreams are ever present and more than likely becoming more prominent as you consider where you want to end up in the coming years. Use your 20s to make your dreams a reality. Strive to do all that you can to fulfill your dreams, and always remember that no dream is too big or out of reach.

14. Be a sponge.

Not only are your 20s a good time to get to know yourself, but also a good time to get to know the people around you. Spend quality time with you friends and acquaintances, take an interest in their lives, listen to their opinions and develop genuine relationships that you will remember forever.

15. Pick up a new hobby.

Use your 20s as a time to really get to know yourself and maybe discover some new interests. Explore some new hobbies. Maybe take a few lessons on how to play an instrument, how to paint or how to work a particular computer program. You never know what pastimes you might fall in love with and seek to make something of!

16. Don’t dwell on the negatives.

Downfalls are inevitable. When the negatives outweigh the positives, don’t dwell on it. Remember that life goes on, and you have never been in a better position to remove yourself from negative situations and to move forward than you are right now in your 20s.

17. Give back.

So much of the population on this planet is not as fortunate as you may be. Allow your 20s to be the years that you lend a helping hand to the underprivileged. Whether it be a donation of some sort, or you decide to travel to a poverty-stricken country for six months out of the year, do something to make a difference and give back to the community.

18. Cherish the people who have always been there.

When all is said and done, you will be able to count your most genuine and trusting relationships on one hand. While you’re busy meeting new people and exploring new places during your 20s, don’t forget to cherish the relationships you have with the people who have always been there for you. These are the relationships that deserve the most attention and effort to keep them blooming.

19. Trust only a few.

While trust is a good quality to have, there are only so many people in this world that you can trust with your life, or even with your most precious secrets. You’re going to experience a hell of a lot in your 20s, and you should always be careful who you choose to confide in. In the end, everyone looks out for themselves, and you can’t always be sure who will or won’t look out for you in the meantime.

20. Live in the moment, without fear or expectation of the future.

Above all, live every day of your 20s to the fullest. Relish the moment and make every day worth living. Do not look ahead to the future with worry or expectation, as you could likely set yourself up for disappointment. Live every day to its greatest potential, as if there will be no tomorrow to make it right.

you forgot to acknowledge where you copied and pasted from
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by fubbyy(m): 10:46pm On Jun 10, 2013
ThiS should be "20 things to make sure you do in your life time" does it mnean after your 20's you can't do these any more? HELL NO

Nice one sha
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by simdam500(m): 10:59pm On Jun 10, 2013
Naa today Been doin all this since 5
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by Ayowumie(m): 12:32am On Jun 11, 2013
This list is superb. I have got new hobby - PHOTOGRAPHY. I'm doing it all the way grin
Does anyone want to join on a ferry ride to Amstadam? or a train ride to Paris (next wk)? Get in touch in you are in your 20s. Time to see the worlddddddddddddddddddddd
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by Isiboy(m): 3:08am On Jun 11, 2013
the best thing u can do in your 20's is to GET GOD IN YOUR LIFE and not this unnecessary list of careless acts.

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Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by Revolva(m): 6:57am On Jun 11, 2013
Umm omo learn how to be extra smart by f.ucking babes....dnt tease dem..or fall in love...cos love in the 20s are just kindda fake..

also gather enuf p.orn dvds.. and try picking up ashis...to bang....at least every month...its fun..even go loo for strip clubs.. n se live nekkied azzz...infact enjoy babes in any way oo..and most impotant make money any way......yahoo..9...to ..5....hussling.....trading..omo no carry Gun oo.. na u sabi oo grin grin
Re: The 20 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s by elder05(m): 7:09am On Jun 11, 2013
For the guys I agree but for ladies, u shd Be thinking of marriage

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