My girl celebrated her birthday june 5th, nd i made a promise of giving her a gift, i asked everybody i knw that re guru's in this aspect (relationship) i was been told to buy re these (wrist watch, chocolate, teddy bear and lots more) u knw every woman with their own taste. Thou i appreciate all of there suggestions, but am nt yet satisfied.
For me, i am thinking of buying her a dictionary, the latest version, nd please don't say i am been childish about this, cos i already studied her, she told me she will LOVE to be a writer, so in helping her boost this, i am thinking of buying her a dictionary, nd buying some books which will assist her in been the best writer through the horizon of the universe, cos i believe everything is possible.
I dont knw maybe this will look meritorious to her.
I need ur opinions please.

Thank you all

You know dictionaries are becoming very heavy by the day. I hope she doesn't slam the dictionary on your head. You have to learn to seperate what you want for your girl and what she wants. One of the things you have to do when you're ina relationship is to read your partner and find out what they like and want.

Buy her a dictionary, yano...

If she wants to be a writer; just ask her for reading list and buy her two or three books from that list. However, you need to add the surprise factor. Ask her in a sly way and get the books.

Afam4eva: You know dictionaries are becoming very heavy by the day. I hope she doesn't slam the dictionary on your head. You have to learn to seperate what you want for your girl and what she wants. One of the things you have to do when you're ina relationship is to read your partner and find out what they like and want.

Buy her a very big dic. o

Yes, you are being too serious. Doesn't she have a dictionary. You can buy her books but not dictionary. Even the books, it still depends. Study her and know what she wants but not a dictionary, abeg!

shymexx: Buy her a dictionary, yano...

If she wants to be a writer; just ask her for reading list and buy her two or three books from that list. However, you need to add the surprise factor. Ask her in a sly way and get the books.

I agree. OP, you know your babe the best. Only you would know if she would appreciate a dictionary or books. Does she have a watch and the rest of the other things your friends mentioned? If yea, don't waste your money. Honestly, I would rather you bought something meaningful and that can add value to her life. Chocolate no go finish? Teddy beat? What's that? Wristwatch, maybe but not a biggie. You can always combine both anyway - books and a watch or books and chocolate.

Btw, if you want to buy a dictionary, please make sure it's one the best around (it's probably going to be a big one. And maybe include a thesaurus too?)

Egba girl:

I agree. OP, you know your babe the best. Only you would know if she would appreciate a dictionary or books. Does she have a watch and the rest of the other things your friends mentioned? If yea, don't waste your money. Honestly, I would rather you bought something meaningful and that can add value to her life. Chocolate no go finish? Teddy beat? What's that? Wristwatch, maybe but not a biggie. You can always combine both anyway - books and a watch or books and chocolate.

I hope you will be there to console him when he gets dumped. We live in a realist and not idealist society.

shymexx: Buy her a dictionary, yano...

If she wants to be a writer; just ask her for reading list and buy her two or three books from that list. However, you need to add the surprise factor. Ask her in a sly way and get the books.

thank you very much, i really appreciate your opinion

Egba girl:

I agree. OP, you know your babe the best. Only you would know if she would appreciate a dictionary or books. Does she have a watch and the rest of the other things your friends mentioned? If yea, don't waste your money. Honestly, I would rather you bought something meaningful and that can add value to her life. Chocolate no go finish? Teddy beat? What's that? Wristwatch, maybe but not a biggie. You can always combine both anyway - books and a watch or books and chocolate.

Btw, if you want to buy a dictionary, please make sure it's one the best around (it's probably going to be a big one. And maybe include a thesaurus too?)

you are such a nice person, i love your suggestions, and thanks for really your understanding. your re a special person, and hope you will also find a guy that will make you so special.
thanks so much

Afam4eva:
I hope you will be there to console him when he gets dumped. We live in a realist and not idealist society.

I wasn't been idealistic at all. Not everyone wants the chocolate teddy bear and wristwatch birthday, valentine, and Christmas gift. I'm surprised girls aren't even tired of these things . And like I said, the poster knows his girlfriend best. Only him can decide what she would appreciate.

And if anything, I would be here on this page to console him. (which will probably not be necessary anyway)

israel boy:

you are such a nice person, i love your suggestions, and thanks for really your understanding. your re a special person, and hope you will also find a guy that will make you so special.
thanks so much

Thank you . I wish you all the best. I hope she appreciates whatever you buy for her but be unique in what you get her. Let it be tailored to her needs/wants/interest. Goodluck bro

please guys, don't just comment for commenting sake, we all can learn from each other, you know this term is very common in most of the youths of nowadays dictionary (heart breaking) i dont want to experience such, so i always like to satisfy my ownself and my girl, no matter what.
i do ask her things she will love to see in me, and what she really wants me to upgrade about myself.

thank you all for your understanding

israel boy: please guys, don't just comment for commenting sake, we all can learn from each other, you know this term is very common in most of the youths of nowadays dictionary (heart breaking) i dont want to experience such, so i always like to satisfy my ownself and my girl, no matter what.
i do ask her things she will love to see in me, and what she really wants me to upgrade about myself.

thank you all for your understanding

Sounds like you're really invested in this relationship and I honestly wish it brings you nothing but happiness .

Do you think she wld like the idea?
Is she a nerd? Only nerds wld like that kinda tin. For God's sake, it's her birthday nd she prolly wants to boast to her friends abt wot u got her. Even nerds like Afam are against the idea...so, wot am I even talking about?

Egba girl:

I wasn't been idealistic at all. Not everyone wants the chocolate teddy bear and wristwatch birthday, valentine, and Christmas gift. I'm surprised girls aren't even tired of these things . And like I said, the poster knows his girlfriend best. Only him can decide what she would appreciate.

And if anything, I would be here on this page to console him. (which will probably not be necessary anyway)

you are so an intelliegent been, most people think the ways others are been treated they can treat all, but they really dont understand we re just too different from each other

israel boy:

you are so an intelliegent been, most people think the ways others are been treated they can treat all, but they really dont understand we re just too different from each other

Remind me of why you're again
If u're so sure of ur idea, why don't you just go ahead and spare us the tym and energy of trying to give our advices.

alutacontinua:

Remind me of why you're again
If u're so sure of ur idea, why don't you just go ahead and spare us the tym and energy of trying to give our advices.

Excactly. He just wants us to give him a go ahead on his idea. He wasn't looking for an advice.

Is a thing to want to buy a gift and is another to want to buy a birthday gift. Birthdays are special days and anygifts presented shold be worth remebering.

queen charming: Is a thing to want to buy a gift and is another to want to buy a birthday gift. Birthdays are special days and anygifts presented shold be worth remebering.

I agree with you that it why i think It should definitely not be chocolate. That's not worth remembering at all! Lol. Something wey person go chop today n shit am tmr? Lol

israel boy: .

Omo Isreali, take her to Pharaoh's palace in Egypt & later to the red sea for sun bathing.
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Last Bullet: On a serious note, I think you should buy her a nice book. Yes, wrap the book in a lovely birthday wrapping paper. You may include a Dico if she doesn't v one. Some gifts are just special than watches, cloths, chocolates, phones etc.
So, go ahead boy.

Okiki_Oluwa: Omo Isreali, take her to Pharaoh's palace in Egypt & later to the red sea for sun bathing.
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Last Bullet: On a serious note, I think you should buy her a nice book. Yes, wrap the book in a lovely birthday wrapping paper. You may include a Dico if she doesn't v one. Some gifts are just special than watches, cloths, chocolates, phones etc.
So, go ahead boy.

Word.

i so much appreciate all your contributions, and will love to tell you this (THE SECRET OF A TRUE LOVE IS THAT IT HAS NO ENDING) so i guess i am just been straight forward to this girl, letting her know am not just pretending to be who am not, even me as a person, i do not welcome wasteful spending, so she should just love me as i am, and it will be so better if no one is trying to pretend, and i guess she's not pretending also, thou as a guy, am always tempted to cheat on her, but do put my self in her own shoes also, that does it mean because i am the head, i should now turn to tail just becos of some minutes enjoyment, most guys are hiding under the umbrella of i don't care, well i guess we are just in the era of smart phones and stupid people. God bless us all

omo israeli I love ur attitude towards "loving"bt I tink a dictionary wld be 2 "over " doing it jst try to get a special book wrapped nicely and a card for her..

Haha! This is funny. Even Nerds like teddies and chocolates.

israel boy:

thank you very much, i really appreciate your opinion

That's what's up.

Egba girl:
I agree. OP, you know your babe the best. Only you would know if she would appreciate a dictionary or books. Does she have a watch and the rest of the other things your friends mentioned? If yea, don't waste your money. Honestly, I would rather you bought something meaningful and that can add value to her life. Chocolate no go finish? Teddy beat? What's that? Wristwatch, maybe but not a biggie. You can always combine both anyway - books and a watch or books and chocolate.

Btw, if you want to buy a dictionary, please make sure it's one the best around (it's probably going to be a big one. And maybe include a thesaurus too?)

Edited.

I agree.

honestly, that's the perfect gift you could give her right now. you know your girl better than all these people giving you suggestions. I would prefer my boyfriend getting me grape juice and a drama flick ( little things I love) than the traditional chocolate and teddy bear every girl gets at least once in her dating stage.I'm impressed

Nw u are saying ur mind, instead of u to help advice, there u are tryig to woo a girl.oooo dat has been ur plan right? Dream on romeo.

yuzedo: I cried!

@ Op: so u can't buy iPad and install dictionary in it? Damn u bro!

Bro, u need to learn how to take care of a woman. For instance, if Egba girl was my babe.. Ohhhhhh boyyy!!! Everyday would be her birthday! Ah! Mogbe! Ejoor! I go spoyel d babe like natin! Chei!

Sweerie, how are u? As today is sunday I want to quote bible for u, "I know the plans I have for you, plans of good and not of evil, to bring you to an expected end."

Sooooo wuz yo numba? Plisss be nice

Hahahahahahahaaha you would spoil me?? Hmmm... you must also be a good Christian for you to quote the bible! Dang! I'm loving this already
Oh and the number, I don't have a phone I use the old method of letters. Sorry but you can be my pen pal though?

Dictionary kwa? Maka gini mere?

Afam4eva: You know dictionaries are becoming very heavy by the day. I hope she doesn't slam the dictionary on your head. You have to learn to seperate what you want for your girl and what she wants. One of the things you have to do when you're ina relationship is to read your partner and find out what they like and want.

Una don finally kill me o!Sexkillz abeg Ambulance. I don die o.Yepaa!!