is honesty ever the best policy? when i and my boyfriend decided to be honest about straying, i found that our sexual relationship became even stronger, rite now we can even talk about the people we would like to f**k while having sex tis brilliant

maybe you shld categorise this thread as part of the "stupid questions" you so often attribute to others.

this viva person sounds more and more like Hotfunmi, maybe a little more sexualized, but the underlying tone remains the same.

nah, even hotfunmi wasnt this crass.

@post
from 4some to constant sex, what more can you think of?

Honesty is not the best policy in this situation o

If it works in that way and you dont get offended, then so be it

some times i wonder if nairaland can ever be a place for constructive arguments or discussions
if honesty is not ur best policy, there is nothing wrong with admitting it after all i dont know and dont care to know the person behind the comments so long as its constructive

so what if its from 4some to contant sex ( am not looking for approval)
what works for me might not work for some one else
and yes all i think of is sex sex sex and more sex

vivaladiva:

so what if its from 4some to contant sex ( am not looking for approval)
what works for me might not work for some one else
and yes all i think of is sex sex sex and more sex

then make you holla at me. I go make that your down below overheat.

vivaladiva:

so what if its from 4some to contant sex ( am not looking for approval)
what works for me might not work for some one else
and yes all i think of is sex sex sex and more sex

You seriously need Jesus!

how many men or women here can put up their hands and say they hvent had sex out side of their relationships ( probably no one especially the men)
what is wrong wif havin an open ananymous discussion about issues that most people deal with regularly.
when i say most nigerians are narrow minded some assholes think am crazy
yes i am crazy

@ sly i dont believe in jesus nor religion

vivaladiva:

@ sly i don't believe in jesus nor religion

Then you need me. . . . . .

@ 4him u may class this as a stupid thread but i dont so F*** off

and what can u possibly do for me sly that no one else has done b4

vivaladiva:

some times i wonder if nairaland can ever be a place for constructive arguments or discussions
if honesty is not your best policy, there is nothing wrong with admitting it after all i don't know and don't care to know the person behind the comments so long as its constructive

There's nothing wrong in creating constructive posts, or is there?

vivaladiva:

how many men or women here can put up their hands and say they hvent had sex out side of their relationships ( probably no one especially the men)
what is wrong with havin an open ananymous discussion about issues that most people deal with regularly.
when i say most nigerians are narrow minded some assholes think am crazy
yes i am crazy

If being "openminded" means exercising abnormalities I'd rather remain narrowminded!!!!!

vivaladiva:

and what can u possibly do for me sly that no one else has done before

Thats what we are about to find out. . . . . .you'd be surprised . . . . . .

@topic
No

how many men or women here can put up their hands and say they hvent had sex out side of their relationships ( probably no one especially the men)
what is wrong with havin an open ananymous discussion about issues that most people deal with regularly.

Everyone is not like you, miss!!!!!!

what is abnormality ?
there is nothing absolutely nothin wrong with abnormality
it just means u dont conform to sterotypes
u make ur own rules so long as ur not hurting any one

@topic
yes honesty is the best policy

i accept that every one is not like me Stillwater
u cant however tell me that every thing about u is normal
pls tell me stillwater whet is abnormal about u, do u have any fantasies that society might condem?

to every saying there is an however.
Honesty is not always the best policy
experience and reality has taught me that.

vivaladiva:

i accept that every one is not like me Stillwater
u can't however tell me that every thing about u is normal
please tell me stillwater whet is abnormal about u, do u have any fantasies that society might condem?

Nope

@Still water

Na your pikin be that?

The boy don chop belle full sha. Cute pikin

as for the agbaya wey tanda with am. the less said the better.

vivaladiva:

what is abnormality ?
there is nothing absolutely nothin wrong with abnormality
it just means u don't conform to sterotypes
u make your own rules so long as your not hurting any one

Can you say this to the numerous mad people along Adeniran Ogunsanya Rd?

@ stillwater there is no such person even the pope has somthing abnormal about him
are u afraid i might ask u what it is? poor u
failure to accept ones abnormality is like a gay man denying he is gay
are u afraid people will judge you?

his viva person sounds more and more like Hotfunmi, maybe a little more sexualized, but the underlying tone remains the same.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

vivaladiva:

@ stillwater there is no such person even the pope has somthing abnormal about him
are u afraid i might ask u what it is? poor u
failure to accept ones abnormality is like a gay man denying he is gay
are u afraid people will judge you?

yes yes. today's mad person, tomorrow's genius

I believe honesty is vital cuz nuthing is hidden under da sun

mental instability is an illness not necessarily an abnormality
besides even people that dont run around the street naked can also be mentally ustable
it comes in diff forms and different manifestations
infact every one on earth is mad but in varying degrees and capacities