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BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by ayospecie(m): 3:30pm On Jul 01, 2013
At the Welcome to Paradise event held few months back to celebrate ayoSpecie's 5 years as an event MC where he hosted his past clients (couples) to a dinner, one of the general issues faced by young couples was centered around

"BED ROOM DUTIES IN MARRIAGE"-

Men: Wives don’t care about the sexual needs of their men!
Women: Men aren't considerate at all with all this Lagos traffic & wahala.

Plenty practical/non-practical suggestions/solutions were raised but I will want to particularly center today's discussion on one of them.

"Someone suggested that - Couple should agree & draw up a Bed room time-table".

Do you agree/disagree that this suggestion will work to help young couples?
NB: This is a learning platform for all, so treat it with great importance it requires.

My opinion: Since there is food time table, morning devotion table, why should this be an exception?
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Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by fr3do(m): 8:19pm On Jul 01, 2013
Time table?
What happened to being spontaneous?

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Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by kreamidiva(f): 8:25pm On Jul 01, 2013
Haaaaa! Me i no gree o.which kain timetable be dat nah


@OP,can u give me an illustration of d time table?
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by ayospecie(m): 8:08am On Jul 05, 2013
Since most women complain about getting tired with Lagos traffic and hustles thereby having excuse not to engage in bed room duties and at the same time want the man to remain faithful, wouldnt it be nice for both parties to agree at having a timetable binding both parties to engage in the bed room duties without excuses.
Your opinions?
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Mynd44: 8:33am On Jul 05, 2013
When you plan sex, it gets boring

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Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by megareal: 12:46pm On Jul 05, 2013
Abeg no timetable. Take it as it comes.
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jul 05, 2013
Mynd_44: When you plan sex, it gets boring
I Concore

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Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Agybabe(f): 1:56pm On Jul 05, 2013
Time table would have been nice but what if I feel like ***it against the time table or he travels during that time on a business trip.
It's going to be like a torture as I wait for a time in the time-table that will favour me.
I will just tear the paper if it's written as I may get wet before the time. No dulling!
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Bleszin(f): 2:05pm On Jul 05, 2013
Time table or wat did i c....vry funny....infact i COMMENT my RESERVE :PTime table or wat did i c....vry funny....infact i COMMENT my RESERVE
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by RedCard1(m): 2:06pm On Jul 05, 2013
Mynd_44: When you plan sex, it gets boring
exactly....so there should be no time table. Just Grab it @any time it comes.
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Mynd44: 2:41pm On Jul 05, 2013
Red_Card: exactly....so there should be no time table. Just Grab it @any time it comes.
Abi oooo
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by MrsChima(f): 2:52pm On Jul 05, 2013
Planned sex rocks!!!

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Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by janeypearls(f): 5:46pm On Jul 05, 2013
Time table will be kinda boring , let it happen spontenously.
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Nobody: 7:22pm On Jul 05, 2013
Time table koor....Time chair ni, abeggy f*** dey go joooor
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Popowaa: 11:46pm On Jul 05, 2013
So if dey wey konji catch u seriously and it's a no sex day what do u do?
If i'm tired touch me at the right places and do ur thing,and if you tired i arouse u and ride my horse.
End of story.Nobody is drawing any timetable.

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Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Mynd44: 1:07am On Jul 06, 2013
Popowaa: So if dey wey konji catch u seriously and it's a no sex day what do u do?
If i'm tired touch me at the right places and do ur thing,and if you tired i arouse u and ride my horse.
End of story.Nobody is drawing any timetable.
shockedshockedshockedshockedshockedshockedshocked
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Godson201333(m): 2:00am On Jul 06, 2013
Popowaa: So if dey wey konji catch u seriously and it's a no sex day what do u do?
If i'm tired touch me at the right places and do ur thing,and if you tired i arouse u and ride my horse.
End of story.Nobody is drawing any timetable.

HA,No be small thing ooo
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Nobody: 2:07am On Jul 06, 2013
said the virgins lol
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Cholls(m): 3:58am On Jul 06, 2013
Mynd_44: When you plan sex, it gets boring

I salute cool
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by MEGA4BILLION(m): 5:15am On Jul 06, 2013
how will you possibly draw the time table, since you dont know the day the will be traffic n wahala. Spontenuity is the spice of any relationship.
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Popowaa: 7:24am On Jul 06, 2013
*scratches head*eeerrrrrrmmmm what?
Mynd_44:
shockedshockedshockedshockedshockedshockedshocked
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Mynd44: 8:26am On Jul 06, 2013
Popowaa: *scratches head*eeerrrrrrmmmm what?
I did not know you are so "Liberal"
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Popowaa: 8:52am On Jul 06, 2013
Mynd_44:
I did not know you are so "Liberal"
cool
Mynd_44:
I did not know you are so "Liberal"
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by ozengbe(m): 9:12am On Jul 06, 2013
Good weekend house... me I support "spontaneous" oo. Making dinner for d children, she goes to kitchen to get something.... follow her n get a quickie then come back to d dining n pretend nothing happened.
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Popowaa: 9:44am On Jul 06, 2013
Lol
ozengbe: Good weekend house... me I support "spontaneous" oo. Making dinner for d children, she goes to kitchen to get something.... follow her n get a quickie then come back to d dining n pretend nothing happened.
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by Mynd44: 9:58am On Jul 06, 2013
ozengbe: Good weekend house... me I support "spontaneous" oo. Making dinner for d children, she goes to kitchen to get something.... follow her n get a quickie then come back to d dining n pretend nothing happened.
nice.....
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by omiobo: 10:34am On Jul 06, 2013
Time table for sex? Na wa for all this Iyawo alakowe. Person wey talk say if you marry iyawo alakowe na wahala you marry no lie o!
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by PrettySpicey(f): 6:58pm On Jul 06, 2013
Lol @ rib cracking comments.
But thinking about it seriously though, I do think that at times couples can be on a "sex" timetable without even knowing it.
I mean like when weekend sex is a given or when charting for a baby.
But nothing beats spontaneity though.
Re: BED ROOM DUTIES IN Marriage-(for Married People Only) by ayospecie(m): 12:41pm On Jul 08, 2013
Agybabe: Time table would have been nice but what if I feel like ***it against the time table or he travels during that time on a business trip.
It's going to be like a torture as I wait for a time in the time-table that will favour me.
I will just tear the paper if it's written as I may get wet before the time. No dulling!

You cant be too sure that you wont give your husband excuses when he makes demand until you get married.

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