I'm going to break this question down using a straightforward analysis and also tell you why I think men act the way they do when it comes to sex. No need to pretend, it's all natural.

Sex, plays an essential role in every relationship/marriage and regardless of how one kicks it down the road, it has in so many cases broke homes, relationships, and marriages alike.

So let's get started:

Each person has a certain balance of masculine and feminine "energy." Obviously, men have more masculine and women have more feminine.

The feminine energy grows with connection and love, and with "surrender" to all kinds of joyful experiences. This is often why women feel a sense of connection and surrendering with sexx, and often have deeper feelings for a man afterwards.

But the masculine energy doesn't work this way. The masculine energy seeks CHALLENGE and a feeling of "emptiness" and "freedom." This "freedom" or emptiness is actually the masculine MEANS of surrender and fulfillment.

Have you ever noticed that lots of men fall right to sleep or act like they're off somewhere else after sexx?

It's because the tension of reaching their "challenge" is released, and now they feel a sense of emptiness and freedom from that tension, which means surrendering is still miles away. What the sexx actually did to him was to free him from his shackles and not necessarily make him want to surrender to the woman.

Furthermore, you notice that a man could spend months chasing just one girl but the minute he gets SEX, you would have been expecting the emotions that lead in the chase to continue but it doesn't, rather he starts seeking for another challenge.

So what is it that actually challenges a MAN to surrender or make him grow into a great lover and partner to a woman if SEX isn't?

A man surrenders ONLY when he has those intense strong feelings that make him feel physically and EMOTIONALLY CONNECTED to you which could include how great you make him feel when he's around you (I'm not referring to the sex type of feelings) or how you challenge his intellects or personality (you may want to think of stuffs outside your physique and beauty as they're no where close to it)

With sex, a man doesn't automatically "surrender" to love and connection the way a woman does... unless he LEARNS to.

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Not true... I fell in love with someone who was better intimately.

..OOOOO yesss...i once walked 20 miles for a kiss

-Mr Cork-:
..OOOOO yesss...i once walked 20 miles for a kiss

Mugu

-Mr Cork-:
..OOOOO yesss...i once walked 20 miles for a kiss

Mr Cork never disappoints.

-Mr Cork-:
..OOOOO yesss...i once walked 20 miles for a kiss

20 miles? you mean 20/5? thats only 4 miles my friend....

I kinda relate to what OP has said. Men's love tend to depreciate after that first climax, while it is the other way round for women. They become more clingy and seeking.

lyfe: I kinda relate to what OP has said. Men's love tend to depreciate after that first climax, while it is the other way round for women. They become more clingy and seeking.

No wonder she tie me with wrapper after I sexed her

190:

No wonder she tie me with wrapper after I sexed her

no handcuffs available

If you are broke, let us see if the woman will be clingy.

sex is overrated.

Most people are in lust and not in love.

Sex is not love.

Hmmmm.

This is so insightful......

Old news

Lmao

190:

No wonder she tie me with wrapper after I sexed her

If she's a good cook, that will do just fine for me.

tpia@:
sex is overrated.

but it is good

tpia@:
sex is overrated.

It is not.
What is underrated is the importance of sex.
Nothing will happen without it.

Popowaa: Lmao

could 'surrender to love' sound any cheesier

Lovetinz:

It is not.
What is underrated is the importance of sex.
Nothing will happen without it.

And the boldened brings us back to this

tpia@:
sex is overrated.

Who need sex when I food

It depends on who's pusssy, brand, how tight, clean and sweet it is