buzyDiva:

sorry but u ain't ma type!!

what is your type am I in ur type

to make matters worse, her husband seems to be the conservative kind - no trips downtown, no alternative positions ( as long as madam is on top , there is no need for a guy to perform - madam will get there by herself

If a woman was this "conservative" the same NL people would tell him to go outside for expert. I feel bad for that woman.

Can someone tell me why it's ok for a man to leave his new wife for supposedly hnot being a virgin on her "wedding night" but it's ok to "understand" a man with erectile dysfunction which he obviously knew about

Im waiting

D-reloaded:

If a woman was this "conservative" the same Nairaland people would tell him to go outside for expert. I feel bad for that woman.

Can someone tell me why it's ok for a man to leave his new wife for supposedly hnot being a virgin on her "wedding night" but it's ok to "understand" a man with erectile dysfunction which he obviously knew about

I'm waiting

The husband is the head.

Discussion will be b/w me and my husband, not me and NL discussing what I'll do

osisi, don't make jenny feel bad now for spekaing her mind truthfully na

Besides she's still pretty young, who wnats to deal witha dead horse

God bless u d-reloaded

Jenny I'm suprised to hear you say this.
Do you know men can develop erectile dysfunction just like that
Are you telling me you'll divorce my brother if he stops performing maximally when it's not his fault rather than seek help?
Is it then OK for a man to divorce his wife after a double mastectomy from breast cancer?
Or drop her when she developes certain gynecological problems that make sex uncomfortable rather than see her through it?

Thank God I have a man who answers whenever I call Lips sealed
The most important thing is that I love him and no matter what,I'll stand by him.
And he feels exactly the same way about me
What did we take our vows for?
That's what love is.

osisi forget story abeg,y would a man not tell his fiancee or wife before hand that he can't perform,y did he not tell her when they were dating that he is not ok sexually,instead of trapping a lady in marriage and then telling her that u can't perform but u were scared to tell her because u did not want to loose her,abeg osisi leave matter


if my hubby suddenly develops erectile dysfunction (God forbid) no problem as long as he wasnt like that right from d beginning,then d both of us will have to look for a solution somewhere,atleast he could perform before but due to some probs can't perform again,its beta that way,instead of keeping it secret during courtship and then telling me after wedding

@Jennykadry

I dont think the topic applies to you, we know your husband is a fire man. A natural-born Viagra.

@Jennykadry

I don't think the topic applies to you, we know your husband is a fire man. A natural-born Viagra.

rotflmao ,u dis guy who told u my hubby is a fire man

Ferlie, let sane people reply to my question

Thanks

Sorry does not apply to me. I have one that "overperforms" and can't wait for him to slow down. Sometimes I see myself as an amusement park.

The man go just siddon on top and refuse to come down.


Anyway, to answer your question. I will be very relieved for a change because I have gotten enough mileage off his cute arse!

Thats why I'm an advocate of sex before marriage

Marriage is for life, u have to try befor u buy or test drive the car. . . . . if u knw what i mean

that situation wont even apply to me!

There is no hopeless situation. . . so there'll surely be a solution to make him perform

WONT HAPPEN TO ME
BUT NXT TIME TRY TRY TRY TRY TRY TRY TILL INFINITY BEFORE U BUY

What if they both agreed to continue living as husband and wife but at the same time the man asked his wife to look for another man to have fun with anytime she likes? Above all they both are to keep this agreement as top secret. If you are the man or woman can you do any of the above suggestions to save your marriage?

What if your religion does not permit you to try before marriage how will u know?

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, love is blind ooo

Will still love him regardless, cos we're in this love together.

sista-jay:

Will still love him regardless, because we're in this love together.

re U sure? will you be able to bear the pain?

quadrant4:

What if your religion does not permit you to try before marriage how will u know?

you just have to try it, whether religion talk or not. religion will not be there when your marriage is galling apart.

sista-jay:

Will still love him regardless, because we're in this love together.

easier said than done.


@everybody
this is why i get mad when i hear you all advise a guy whose babe refuse to give him sex that he should wait until she is ready, which is most times until they are married.
are u all now seeing some of the functions of sex before marriage?

Talk to him about having someone outside to the JOB!!! Simple as ABC

Hey Frank,

If the woman doesn't want to have sex before marriage, that should still not be a problem per se. But you have to make out and fool around. If you're making out and nothing is happening then "Houston we have a problem". Some people really need to be stimulated to become aroused so this is not a one size fits all package. But these are things you need to be doing anyways. It's fun and the by product is, you get to test the equipment without necessarily having intercourse ;-D

I think you can get away with not having sex before marriage (even though I don't really subscribe to it).

But I believe this is more common than we can imagine (man not being able to perform). And to the people who will stand by their partners, you're talking from your backsides on that one. After waiting goodness knows how long to consumate the relationship, to find out your partner is impotent, please tell me you will not be frustrated.

A woman can still enjoy sex without being able to concieve, a man cannot have sex without an erection. These are different issues. In both cases adoption is an option but then both partners are frustrated if the man cannot perform.

I guess adoption might be the solution.However sex is not all about having children women will need it from time to time and that might cause the woman to start messing around without the husband having to control her anymore.It a real test of one's faith to remain faithful and committed in this kind of situation.

why u say hard question?
nothing dey hard.

so what is the way out of this situation?

osisi, don't make jenny feel bad now for spekaing her mind truthfully na

Besides she's still pretty young, who wnats to deal witha  dead horse.

That's not my intention deloaded,what do you mean pretty young
are you calling me Mrs Methuselah ?
mind yourself o
Jenny nwa nma,we thank God our men are standing
May they continue to answer when called,in Jesus' name.

have u not received enough information,wat r u looking for again poster

That's not my intention deloaded,what do you mean pretty young
are you calling me Mrs Methuselah ?
mind yourself o
Jenny nwa nma,we thank God are men are standing
May they continue to answer when called,in Jesus' name.

rotflmao osisi no make me laff,honestly d-reloaded has to take her time how will she even call u nwinye metuselah

Amen my sister,but my dear sometimes we dont call them ,they call themselves

God have mercy, so my waiting will be in vain eh? well i pray to get a fully loaded abunna when my time comes but for now i can only read and laugh

omoge don't you worry about a thing!
Make sure he's a Nigerian esp Igbo man
They get am for fully loaded yekini

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As a lady, you should discuss it with him privately something like a pillow-talk; if symptom persists, fast and pray for him, if symptoms still persist; refer him to the nearest clinic for treatment, if symptoms still persist and he still can not perform,

Then know its heredity maybe he inherited it from his parents and I guess you would know what to do.

crazykid:

As a lady, you should discuss it with him privately something like a pillow-talk; if symptom persists, fast and pray for him, if symptoms still persist; refer him to the nearest clinic for treatment, if symptoms still persist and he still can not perform,

Then know its heredity maybe he inherited it from his parents and I guess you would know what to do.

we dont oooo