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HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by RealJenny(f): 8:31pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
Hey guys pls I would really appreciate your advice. So I applied for jamb this year and I dididnt really meet the cut-off for what I would want to study which is medicine. After muchwailing I accepted my fate and decided to try next year but the problem is that I. Am 17 at the moment and if I wait till next year I'll be 18 before I enter med school and I'll be 26 before I can be fully established as a doctor. I know that to some people that is young but I've always dreamt of being very young and independent. Another big problem is that I wanted to opt for chemical engineering in next year's jamb while I attend a private school in the mean time(studying computer science) in other for me to have a plan b incase things don't go as planned but going to a private skul is a lot of money that I don't want to waste either. Now my major confusion is do I go for chemical engineering or Medicine My fav subjects are biology and maths and I detest physics a lot and I also want a career that would give me some time to have a family and actually take care of them!! Pls I'm just too confused, my head is about to blow, what do u advise plz?? !! |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by PilotOz(m): 8:41pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
bro, why u acting like a baby? I turned 18 some days ago, and i dont even have plans on writing jamb.. Iam into business, and iam leaving my parents house this year, to focus on my business.. I study part time at national open university.. Yes iam just 18, and i have started beign independent.. In this life, certificate will not put food on ur table. Man up bro and consider beign self employed.. Well if u wanna be a doctor, good for u. |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by RealJenny(f): 8:51pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
Pilot Oz: bro, why u acting like a baby? I turned 18 some days ago, and i dont even have plans on writing jamb.. Iam into business, and iam leaving my parents house this year, to focus on my business.. I study part time at national open university.. Yes iam just 18, and i have started beign independent.. In this life, certificate will not put food on ur table. Man up bro and consider beign self employed.. Well if u wanna be a doctor, good for u.Thanks but I'm actually a girl!! And yes I will definitely be self employed in the future I just want to have a good resume whether I use it or not incase of future opportunities that will present itself.. Still confused!! |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by PilotOz(m): 9:07pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
i study computer science too. Medcine is really complicated, 4yrs uni, 4yrs med school, another yr for internship programme. So u have to look at all these.. Its a high paying job, truth be told, if u really want a family, i'd say go for engineering.. U'd have to start developing some interests for physics.. Have u considered other options outside university? Like polytechnic and all of that |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by RealJenny(f): 9:29pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
I really don't want to go to a poly because of the stress involved(IT and all that) besides I think people look down on HND certificates compared to a bsc so I've already made up my mind to write jamb next year but I don't want to sit at home again which is why I wanted to go to a private skul for the mean time to have something doing but the money sha will waste after one year and also I love medicine as a course just the time and stress involved and I did a little research bout chemical engineering physics is not too involved sha |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by RealJenny(f): 9:36pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
And ehn u mentioned business can u connect me?? I wouldn't mind earning some cheddah along with my schooling |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by PilotOz(m): 9:45pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
going to a private school, to pay a ridiculously high amount of money just because u dont wanna stay at home is ABSURB. Since you've made up ur mind to sit for next year's jamb(if there's any), i say u get prepared.. Ur not gonna sit at home doing nothing, u are fighting for a slot in the university.. if u are really passionate about medicine, go for it.. Just be determined.. And study intensively, do what you are passionate about.. use failure as a stepping stone to greater things.. Most of all, pray to GOD to direct ur paths. |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by PilotOz(m): 9:49pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
RealJenny: And ehn u mentioned business can u connect me?? I wouldn't mind earning some cheddah along with my schoolinglol, arrgh so u dont wanna depend on ur mummy for cash? *winks* |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by mployer(m): 9:54pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
I think u should go for either engineering or computer science. U really don't hav d guts and doggedness required to pursue a career in medicine ( no offence). Successful medical students are mostly focussed and determined from the onset. As for d physics, I don't see a threat in it; If u are really good in math as u said, u won't hav much problems with engineering courses. Pls stay away from medicine so u don't end up a frustrated student or medical doctor. |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by PilotOz(m): 10:09pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
m-ployer:the young woman said she is passionate about medicine.. Women have been known to succed in medicine.. I'd bet on this that you'd give the opposite if it was a male poster all she need is just some encouragements that yes she can, if she really wants it.. |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by RealJenny(f): 10:32pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
Pilot Oz: lol, arrgh so u dont wanna depend on ur mummy for cash? *winks* Ah no o I want to take care of mummy o she has done too much already.. I'm serious o I can forward my email if u want I can even work under you to keep busy |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by RealJenny(f): 10:43pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
m-ployer:Thanks for your advise but I wouldn't say I'm not determined its just that I have an over analytical mind so I tend to over analyse a lot. The thing is I don't want to get into something that will limit me and I really don't want to stay at home again.. I love medicine( I get fascinated by biology all the time) but I also looove maths and hate physics (I knw that sounds weird sha) I think I'm also attracted to the prestige attached to medicine but one thing about chemical engineering I love is that it combines most of the subjects I love with little physics + a good pay if I get favoured and with computer science hmmm I'm definitely gonna go into programming which I know I won't learn everything in school so I have to go to NIIT or Aptech so you see all this put 2geda = One very confused girl. I'm persistent and I know that whatever I put my mind to I can do it. 1 Like |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by PilotOz(m): 10:49pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
RealJenny:take things easy.. I see u are determined.. Well for a start, we can talk. Nosakhareimasuen@gmail.com |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by RealJenny(f): 11:14pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
Pilot Oz: take things easy.. I see u are determined.. Well for a start, we can talk. Nosakhareimasuen@gmail.com You've got mail Bruv |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by PilotOz(m): 11:18pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
RealJenny:what's ur email? I didn't see any message on my email |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by RealJenny(f): 11:21pm On Jul 17, 2013 |
Pilot Oz: what's ur email? I didn't see any message on my emailPls check again, my email is sharpgirl835@gmail.com |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by DBestDoc(f): 7:52am On Jul 18, 2013 |
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Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by DBestDoc(f): 7:53am On Jul 18, 2013 |
Make up your mind girl! |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by RealJenny(f): 9:03am On Jul 18, 2013 |
D_BestDoc:Arrgh! not so easy bruv |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by Nobody: 12:16am On Aug 14, 2013 |
[quote author=Pilot Oz]bro, why u acting like a baby? I turned 18 some days ago, and i dont even have plans on writing jamb.. Iam into business, and iam leaving my parents house this year, to focus on my business.. I study part time at national open university.. Yes iam just 18, and i have started beign independent.. In this life, certificate will not put food on ur table. Man up bro and consider beign self employed.. Well if u wanna be a doctor, good for u.[/quote] pls can u link me up with ur biz, i don't mind woking under u. really want 2 do bizness @ d same time schooling at NOUN. Thank u so much. my email- tonichris11@yahoo.com |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by Nobody: 12:19am On Aug 14, 2013 |
Pls can u link me up with ur biz, i don't mind working under u. really want 2 do bizness @ d same time schooling at NOUN. Thank u so much. my email- tonichris11@yahoo.com |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by Nobody: 12:21am On Aug 14, 2013 |
@ Pilot Oz.....Pls can u link me up with ur biz, i don't mind working under u. really want 2 do bizness @ d same time schooling at NOUN. Can i get ur phone number? Thank u so much. my email- tonichris11@yahoo.com |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by Nobody: 2:18am On Aug 14, 2013 |
if i were u, i ll go for chem engineering.. as a female ,i thnk chem engineering ll give u more time for ur family than medicine cos of night shifts, emergency calls and all of that involved in medicine, except of course u wnt to run ur own private hospital.(even d private hospital wouldnt even give u d much time u desire as patients ll be troppin in all d tym) secondly, chem engineering is also a good course as it's lucrative in Nigeria. thirdly, as regards d physics, i think u r only goin to offer physics in first yr, so thats nt really an issue.. d choice is still urs, best of luck... |
Re: HELP!!!!! A Confused Teenager!!!!! by PilotOz(m): 9:42pm On Aug 14, 2013 |
JAGARS: @ PilotSorry NO.. Things r too complicated ATM |
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