i need some body to help me tell me what to do ?
my gril friend is going out with other man but
i have not see her with my eye but my friends
are telling that she is going out with other man
and this the gril i want to marry
pls some body should tell me some thing

gril? whats gril

somebody should tell U sumtin abi?? kay! i'll tell u sumtin


'' i love U''

thats sumtin innit??

well, i think the best thing to do is to ask Ur gurl, dont listen to what Ur friends say, thou it might be true, U've still got to ask ya gurl 4 her side of it, then carry on from there, if U still wonna keep on seeing her, thats cuul, no probs but make sure she's still in love with U and not this other man[that is if there is] cuz if not, then U're gonna look like ''a fool in love'

The guy is shaking and he made a spelling mistake

pity him, i wish i could help but i cant we all have to go thru it

am over mine, this is ur time

the solution should be simple, you shold ignore those that are
telling you that she is going out with someone untill you see
her yourself. love with rumor will not last.

don;t believe the hype/rumours , if u don;t catch ur gal with this other guy why worry ur self, sit her down and ask her upfront that is the best thing to do.

blacknbold:

The guy is shaking and he made a spelling mistake

pity him, i wish i could help but i can't we all have to go through it

am over mine, this is your time

Ohmigod! this is real funny! im actually laughing ma @$$ off right now this is his time abi??

as for me i think it will take alot of courage for my friends to tell me that my man is playing games (cause i knew them first and i believe they have my best interest at heart). if more than one person has told u that she is cheating, dont just stop at asking her cause its easy to lie about things like that. just snoop around a little, be on ur toes. if it was that u were just not trusting her and snooping around for no reason then we would have cursed u. but thats not the case this time, u have a reason which is not all that good but a reason. it wont hurt to just u know check it out, if she is not cheating u wont catch her abi?

boy i will tell u to stick with her, but beware to every rumor there is an ounce of truth to it, so look out and dont judge her, the truth will eventually come out, u wont even have to look hard

is ur gurl going out with "other men or older men/man"


One thing bout life is the fact that "PEOPLE TALK" and thats they way God has created us all.

be sure that she is for sure before u do wat u're gonna regret. Its bad news for a relationship when people especially friends get involve in ur personal affairs.

what kinda friends do u have? even tho they might be bullshitting u, da fact taht u wanna get hooked to this chick means you must asess thangz from a more sinister point of view, remember, u can't turn a sisi-mama into a sisi and u definitely can't turn a o into a housewife!!

hhhmmm, this is hard,

if she knows that you plan to marry her, and shes still going out with somebody else,

maybe she doesnt want to marry you anymore. Maybe she has changed her mind,

c her korokoro b4 u dcide now!

Have you heard Styl-plus's Hadiza. . . LIsten to the words of the song. Anyways, what if your friends are jealous of your relationship,Maybe they are just hating and want your relationship to crash.
Don't listen to anyone. . .if truly she's cheating, wait till you catch her yourself.

MASE GBO TENI KENI MU IFE RE, By style plus. So be careful, dont get annoy with her. only if you catch her red handed.

ajayi1:

MASE GBO TENI KENI MU IFE RE, By style plus. So be careful, don't get annoy with her. only if you catch her red handed.

bros u yarn correct jare.

kill urself

To be honest this kinda situation is very dicey and one would need wisdom to handle such.
Most people would tell u to forget about what others say and just carry on lovin ur gf but truth seeking IS THIS POSSIBLE?
If u really love ur gf u cant take all u hear 4 granted.

THIS IS ONE THING DT MAKES RELATIONSHIPS VERY #@$yi*#+


FOR EVERY INFO U HEAR THERE ARE JUST TWO SIDES,
1. IT CULD BE RIGHT 2.IT CULD BE WRONG
Ask urself some questions,

IF right it means ur gf's been cheatin on ur ass.can u still put up with her?
If wrong means u dont trust ur gf and she's gonna be mad this leaves her wif d question, can she still be with u

what i think u can do
1. Ask her about it, u gotta do ds d mature way.

2. FIND OUT. U GOTTA BE SMART ABOUT THIS MORE

I STRONGLY RECOMMEND (2.) THOUGH BECAUSE U SEEM NOT TO TRUST UR GF AND SO (1.) WOULDNT SATISFY UR CURIOSITY.



I'M SORRY JUST MY OWN WAY.
GOOD LUCK

gril? whats gril

somebody should tell U sumtin abi?? kay! i'll tell u sumtin

i love U'' 

thats sumtin innit?

The guy is shaking and he made a spelling mistake

pity him, i wish i could help but i can't we all have to go through it

am over mine, this is your time

Ohmigod!      this is real funny! im actually laughing ma @$$ off right now    this is his time abi??   

Now im seriously having fun, 

I'll respond to your question when you correct your grammar,

@ poster

Sorry I can't blame the girl for wanting to upgrade.

@ Ajoto
why now

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Re: Some Body Help Me
« #9 on: May 26, 2006, 02:45 PM »
boy i will tell u to stick with her, but beware to every rumor there is an ounce of truth to it, so look out and dont judge her, the truth will eventually come out, u wont even have to look
psych!!!!

I think this one has the best point.
Rumors always come from somewhere. Weather it's all the truth is a different story. Just think if your having problems before you get what will be after? And then you gotta live with it. A relationship should just fall into place if you have to work with doubt is it gonna be worth it. I would take the marrying thing slowwww.

@ poster, be very very very, and i can't stress that enough, careful of what your friends tell you.i've been there before.with my current boyfriend and his friends told him i was Fu*king them and saying nasty things about him to them.btw all of that was not true at all cos i don't even know these guys.bottom line he believed every single word of what they told him and it caused a big problem for us and he later found out they were jealous cos he had something the couldn't have. so wise up and ask her or investigate for yourself but be careful else you'll loose her all together man!

Trust is one the most important things in a relationship. Practice it.

don't mind whatever your friends are saying, if you don't see her yourself, don't believe anything, some friends are jealous and are out to ruin good things, what are friends, i don't even have the word friend in my dictionary because they are not useful.

@poster

Stick to grammar School.