coogar: it's because africans in diaspora are losing their identity. they are not sure if they should hold on to their african roots or copy the african americans. it's everywhere, i am sure the africans in the UK are the same if not worse.

zboyd:
Just this morning, a friend called to inform me that one of his cousin's friends has been jailed for prostituting out the 12-year old daughter of his Nigerian girlfriend. This child is now pregnant, by who knows, and the mother, a R.N., at the county hospital, is beside herself with grief and guilt.

zboyd:

Wow!!!

You may be onto something!

ileobatojo:

Could you please specify exactly which behavior or behaviors you're talking about. Because the only Nigerian you mentioned in this story are the RN and her daughter. Just want to be clear on what perverse behavior specifically you are trying to highlight in this story. Thanks.

coogar: it's because africans in diaspora are losing their identity. they are not sure if they should hold on to their african roots or copy the african americans. it's everywhere, i am sure the africans in the UK are the same if not worse.

ileobatojo:

Could you please specify exactly which behavior or behaviors you're talking about. Because the only Nigerian you mentioned in this story are the RN and her daughter. Just want to be clear on what perverse behavior specifically you are trying to highlight in this story. Thanks.

coogar: it's because africans in diaspora are losing their identity. they are not sure if they should hold on to their african roots or copy the african americans. it's everywhere, i am sure the africans in the UK are the same if not worse.

caseless: 'if u are in rome, then, act like the romans'

it is not even always about emulating ameicans, but africans, nigeria/nigerians to be specific, have overtaken america/americans in some of the so called 'american culture' if u look at the cases of human right violations which are common in nigeria. For example, are there;
1. Baby factories in the u.s?
2. Again, are there hideouts in the u.s where children under 12 yr undergo apprenticeship in prostitution?

3. Are children below 14 travelling to europe like africans(nigerians) do to italy through niger republic and libya? Even as environment contribute to how africans behave over there, we must not also forget that Our problem is inherent. No blame oyibo dem for everything...we get our own wahala too

£&nairato&froUK:
dis is a big problem in the nigerian community,

i know women are more rebelious abroad but US is becoming the wife murdering capital

God help us

zboyd: [b][/b]

Well...it depends on what YOU consider perverse (disturbing) behavior.

per·verse
/pərˈvərs/Adjective
1.(of a person or their actions) Showing a deliberate and obstinate desire to behave in a way that is unreasonable or unacceptable 2.Contrary to the accepted or expected standard or practice. Synonyms: vicious - perverse

Why do YOU think nine Nigerian nurses were killed by their partners, between 2005 and 2008?

Where YOU were raised, in Nigeria, how many times were such happenings "news of the day"?

If such happenings were rare in your village...why is it that such happenings are becoming more and more common in the Diaspora?

Such happenings aren't new in America...but in the Nigerian/African community...here in America...such happenings WERE rare...until a decade or so.

Why?

ileobatojo:

Could you please specify exactly which behavior or behaviors you're talking about. Because the only Nigerian you mentioned in this story are the RN and her daughter. Just want to be clear on what perverse behavior specifically you are trying to highlight in this story. Thanks.

Mrs.Chima:


He was speaking generally of all Africans in America and the criminal behaviors of all sort.

Sisi_Kill: Ile, For me, what is more alarming than the high rate of the African Criminals is how quickly they learn...after all, the issues OP listed never ever ever happens in Nigeria. ..EVER!

How do they do it...how are they able to discard the childlike innocence that can only be the result of living in a utopian nation like Nigeria to become beasts abroad?!!

ileobatojo:

I'm sorry I'm still not clear what perverse behaviors by Nigerians you are talking about specifically in that story your friend told you. I see nothing in there about anyone killing their partners so I'm having some difficulty following your train of thought.

Sisi_Kill: Ile, For me, what is more alarming than the high rate of the African Criminals is how quickly they learn...after all, the issues OP listed never ever ever happens in Nigeria. ..EVER!

How do they do it...how are they able to discard the childlike innocence that can only be the result of living in a utopian nation like Nigeria to become beasts abroad?!!


Very disturbing.

ileobatojo:

It seems so but his story does not seem to fit the narrative. He didn't say that the criminal in his story was Nigerian or African which is why I'm quite confused. He specified the nationality of the RN but not of the criminal. So I'm wondering if it's the woman and child he is accusing of perverse behavior or someone else. And if so, what perverse behavior from them exactly he is referring to.

Mrs.Chima:


Got you. You know men aren't naturally great talkers.

Mrs.Chima:
Poster...please be honest with me.

Are you professing that ALL African immigrants living in America NEVER had criminal and perverse thoughts nor actions PRIOR to immigration?

The good ole Africans were wholesome and holy until they touched the American soil transformed into demon spawns?

So if an American was to immigrate to Nigeria or Liberia and perform several perverse and criminal acts such as scamming, bombing, cutting off clitorises, marrying babies in diapers, and selling punny in public bathrooms for mush and flipflops.

Would that be fair for that American to blame Nigeria or Liberia? No one can make you do anything you don't want to do unless by gunpoint and even that.

I doubt an American force any of those Africans to commit crimes by gunpoint.

Accept accountability and mature.

coogar: it's because africans in diaspora are losing their identity. they are not sure if they should hold on to their african roots or copy the african americans. it's everywhere, i am sure the africans in the UK are the same if not worse.

ileobatojo:

It seems so but his story does not seem to fit the narrative. He didn't say that the criminal in his story was Nigerian or African which is why I'm quite confused. He specified the nationality of the RN but not of the criminal. So I'm wondering if it's the woman and child he is accusing of perverse behavior or someone else. And if so, what perverse behavior from them exactly he is referring to.

Sisi_Kill: Ile, For me, what is more alarming than the high rate of the African Criminals is how quickly they learn...after all, the issues OP listed never ever ever happens in Nigeria. ..EVER!

How do they do it...how are they able to discard the childlike innocence that can only be the result of living in a utopian nation like Nigeria to become beasts abroad?!!


Very disturbing.

zboyd:

IMO..."scamming, bombing, cutting off clitorises, marrying babies in diapers, and selling punny in public bathrooms for mush and flipflops" does not equate to apousal murder.

Such behavior is commonplace in American society, but what of the African immigrant communities aross America.

Something is going very wrong in the African immigrant commmunity.

khiaa:

He is talking about Child Prostitution which is a horrible, horrible crime in america, so that man was doing that prior to leaving nigeria.

ileobatojo:

Could you please specify exactly which behavior or behaviors you're talking about. Because the only Nigerian you mentioned in this story are the RN and her daughter. Just want to be clear on what perverse behavior specifically you are trying to highlight in this story. Thanks.

zboyd:

IMO..."scamming, bombing, cutting off clitorises, marrying babies in diapers, and selling punny in public bathrooms for mush and flipflops" does not equate to apousal murder.

Such behavior is commonplace in American society, but what of the African immigrant communities aross America.

Something is going very wrong in the African immigrant commmunity.