Lol, In a situation where ur wife permits u to have a one night stand with an escort, will it be considered cheating? Or adultery? I know some women will permit their husbands to have a one night stand to spice up the sexual experience of the marriage or to help the man cool off in a long distance.

Personally I think that's just asking for trouble!!! There are plenty of other ways to spice things up. Would you permit your wife to have a one night stand in the name of "spicing things up" between you two

Its either the couple are not Nigerians or they spent most of their life time over seas. Adultery is adultry, weather with ur spouse's concent or not.

A mixture of adultery and insanity.

O boy dat woman wey go do dat kind tinz dey madt. She don give me license to dey bleep dey go be dat naa, and she better not complain wen I explore...

Sighs...

The truth is, as soon as she gives me that liberty, I GO BEGIN SUSPECT HER. Probably it's her way of paying back what she may have done secretly.

But come to think of it, i will nyash more babes after that first freedom.

It's ADULTERY, but not CHEATING!
But why would she do that in the first instance?

The wife i would definitely end up with would never have the guts to utter such balderdash to me. What is good is good and what is bad is bad. The fact that it comes with one's wife's approval doesn't make it proper, neither does it exclude it from adultery.

But for Christ sake, why would a woman bring up such trash from her mouth? No woman dares to try it with me. Dang! That would be desecration, insanely stupid and highly preposterous. Jeez!

If she permits you to do such rubbish, then SORRY SHE IS NOT YOUR WIFE...cos d good wife I knw will even be jealous when your getting to close to another woman and would not even think of telling you to sleep with her.....

the question should be, are you dumb enough to even contemplate the offer? well if u are truly unimaginably that dumb then i will have you know sir, that she is getting ready to kill ur stupid ass.lol

mekaboy: Lol, In a situation where ur wife permits u to have a one night stand with an escort, will it be considered cheating? Or adultery? I know some women will permit their husbands to have a one night stand to spice up the sexual experience of the marriage or to help the man cool off in a long distance.

Cheating ? No. Adultery ? Yes.

I remember in bible time men had cuncubines aside apart from their wifes. Remember when Absolom in spite of his father David violated/slept with David's concubines?
If the wife permits its a hard one to say. Those kings wre not said to have done anything wrong.

^^^well said!!!

how can it be cheating if the wifey knows and allows it?! some people obviously do not know the meaning of cheating.

Sarah in the bible allowed Abraham to sleep with her maid. In fact He got her pregnant.

Bible didn't say abraham cheated or fornicated or committed adultery.

Cheating is when you do something without the other co-owners consent.

Fornication is when you are not yet married and sleeping around without violating any sacred vow to anyone.

Adultery is when you are married and sleep around thereby violating your sacred vow.

But when the other party knows and encourages it.. you are HOME FREE..

What about just having some respect for your yourself, your wife and the vows taken in marriage? If you don't want to commit to one woman, don't get married, SIMPLE!

It not cheating but it might lead you to hell... That the spiritual side of it.
you might end up in everlasting sorrow when that one night stand nearly split your home... And that the physical side of it.

Chima would never give me permission to cheat. He is too territorial.

Eiregirl: What about just having some respect for your yourself, your wife and the vows taken in marriage? If you don't want to commit to one woman, don't get married, SIMPLE!

so if a wife fully allows her husband to have a mistress (whatever the reason may be), doing so would be disrespectful to the man, his wife or their marriage?! lol!

married people should do whatever they deem fit to make that union as best as they both need it to be. i can see man y reasons why a wife would allow such "deal":

- husband is a sex addict and wifey cannot take the "workload" on her own.
- wifey is not sexually attracted to hubby any longer and would rather he mount someone else.
- wifey is kinky like that, and like to watch hubby mounting another girl.
- wifey needs a younger fresh lover, and therefore she needs to let hubby do his thing, so she can do hers.
- husband and wife married for convenience but hate each others guts.
- love is gone but they stay together because of kids.

Mrs.Chima:
Chima would never give me permission to cheat. He is too territorial.

Madam Your Hubby Na Major

Mrs.Chima:
Chima would never give me permission to cheat. He is too territorial.

wait till he has mounted you a few good yrs, the toto has lost all its elasticity, tittays are reaching your belly button and the "fun" is gone in the bedroom.....and see how easy he will let you have some fun on the side (and vice versa)

Cheating, Adultery or Fornication are words invented by men, nothing is wrong is asking a man to go to bed with a night stander, what is wrong is not permitting him to. Enjoy your life, there is no sin in sex.

@op....... U wish!!!
Stop dreaming and face reality jooor!

MRbrownJAY:

wait till he has mounted you a few good yrs, the toto has lost all its elasticity, tittays are reaching your belly button and the "fun" is gone in the bedroom.....and see how easy he will let you have some fun on the side (and vice versa)

MBJ....you make me sick.

I can get my titties tucked if start swanging! My toto will never lose its beauty...kegal is my friend.

Eiregirl: What about just having some respect for your yourself, your wife and the vows taken in marriage? If you don't want to commit to one woman, don't get married, SIMPLE!

True.

She agreed to it ...you are not doing it without her knowledge.

So..you are not cheating her.

But you may be cheating the marriage ...but then..she knows about it and agreed to it!

Her choice!!

Mrs.Chima:


MBJ....you make me sick.

I can get my titties tucked if start swanging! My toto will never lose its beauty...kegal is my friend.

kegel exercise wont turn your toto into a brand new spanking toto. as much as it may be sweeter than cherry pie TODAY, after a few yrs that wont be the case, and any disease infected toto would be better than yours.....simply because it would be new.

so in 20/30yrs, the only person who will ultimately enjoy that "now" recycled toto of yours (thatnks to Kegel) is your new lover.....unless you rather live a miserable life and stick to your uninterested husband.

MRbrownJAY:

kegel exercise wont turn your toto into a brand new spanking toto. as much as it may be sweeter than cherry pie TODAY, after a few yrs that wont be the case, and any disease infected toto would be better than yours.....simply because it would be new.

so in 20/30yrs, the only person who will ultimately enjoy that "now" recycled toto of yours (thatnks to Kegel) is your new lover.....unless you rather live a miserable life and stick to your uninterested husband.

Good thing about opinions that is it not a reality.

My kegalized toto would be enjoyed by my husband for decades to come.

Come to momma Chima.

^^^after a few children, no exercise can make that toto feel as day one. none!

MRbrownJAY: ^^^after a few children, no exercise can make that toto feel as day one. none!

Just because your baby mimmas toto busted doesn't mean all totos are busted after birth.

That's like saying after 40 all dicks go to hell.

^^^ sadly, most totos get busted after childbirth......some getting tight again after it, but never to regain the sweetness of that said toto. sometimes just seeing the toto get enlarge from the baby head is enough to turn a man off for life!

^^^^ You are too raw with your words...

^^i am simply telling her the undiluted truth.