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Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by ndidideby(f): 11:55pm On Jul 31, 2013
Hi!...I'm over a year in marriage and a few months pregnant already.my hubby comes bak really late dese days,I'm nt d whiny type but I tink I'm bginin to giv him toomuch space!!all of a sudden,he wants me to go and stay wit his mum so acording to him,he can hav enough time to sort tins out.I tink leaving d house will make him stay out late more and somtyms he sleeps over at his friends!!I'm gettn fed up!pls I nid ur advice!
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by 190: 12:09am On Aug 01, 2013
he don begin chop nkwobi for outside with better udeme 1964 brand grin grin grin

Go to his mom's house at your own risk

btw imma the first to comment

lemme give a shout out to all my NL girlfriends

I hail!
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by eyenCalabar(m): 12:22am On Aug 01, 2013
When I read things like this, I'll just feel bad with you girls. Didn't you know the kind of person he is before you got married to him? Is his actions new to you? Do you think it all men that women should get married to? No pls! Some are just good for friendship alone. Now, he's beginning to get tired of you for just first pregnancy. What would happen when your breasst start sagging? He'll need a marriage break nah. See, there are some things in life you can actually use your wisdom to settle it than with long prayers in the long run.
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by 190: 12:26am On Aug 01, 2013
eyenCalabar: When I read things like this, I'll just feel bad with you girls. Didn't you know the kind of person he is before you got married to him? Is his actions new to you? Do you think it all men that women should get married to? No pls! Some are just good for friendship alone. Now, he's beginning to get tired of you for just first pregnancy. What would happen when your breasst start sagging? He'll need a marriage break nah. See, there are some things in life you can actually use your wisdom to settle it than with long prayers in the long run.


grin grin grin

Be nice

she probably married the man cos her friendz were getting married too grin grin

I-de-laff

people simply dont know what they are in these days, Look at the so called relationships of these days
Nothing to write home about, well the only Thing that can help this lady atm now is just prayer

OP'i'd advice u seat your husband down, cry,beg,fight, kiss, s-e-x AM IF YOU FIT angry angry
And ask him to give you a chance what ever tangerine hes eating outside you can also give to him

Hes 90% gone and i'd advice u involve his mom too smiley

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Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Nobody: 12:32am On Aug 01, 2013
190: he don begin chop nkwobi for outside with better udeme 1964 brand grin grin grin

Go to his mom's house at your own risk

btw imma the first to comment

lemme give a shout out to all my NL girlfriends

I hail!
angry girlfriends huh??
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by 190: 12:36am On Aug 01, 2013
spongeback:
angry girlfriends huh??

i meant you honey

u know its you alone in my world embarassed embarassed
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by switdil(f): 12:54am On Aug 01, 2013
Na wa o, I pity d poor woman but for her info, her hubby is long gone.
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Nobody: 2:03am On Aug 01, 2013
190:

i meant you honey

u know its you alone in my world embarassed embarassed
Really Hun am alone and drunk angry
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Princesszoe: 2:20am On Aug 01, 2013
eyenCalabar: When I read things like this, I'll just feel bad with you girls. Didn't you know the kind of person he is before you got married to him? Is his actions new to you? Do you think it all men that women should get married to? No pls! Some are just good for friendship alone. Now, he's beginning to get tired of you for just first pregnancy. What would happen when your breasst start sagging? He'll need a marriage break nah. See, there are some things in life you can actually use your wisdom to settle it than with long prayers in the long run.
This is a beautiful advise and statement, and coming from a man for that matter. God bless you for being sincere. Is well with us all.
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Austeenxx: 2:37am On Aug 01, 2013
Huh. undecided
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Deschil: 3:51am On Aug 01, 2013
I should ordinarily be feeling sorry for you OP but I am upset. I know ladies who made the same mistake. You knew these things before marrying him... Take Late Pastor Bimbo Odukoya's advice; "the prayer you refused to pray before choosing your marriage partner, you will be forced to pray all through a wrong marriage..." Begin to pray now o! & remain at your best behaviour and appearance. Pray particularly against HIV. Sadly, as we lay our bed, so will we lie on it.
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Indifferent(m): 7:26am On Aug 01, 2013
Dear, dont see it that way, he dosen't want to be single again. He is just being irresponsible, guess ur pregnancy is freaking him out. It happens to most men when their wives get pregnant, its just that your husband couldn't pretend. Also and put him in prayers.
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Indifferent(m): 7:29am On Aug 01, 2013
Deschil: I should ordinarily be feeling sorry for you OP but I am upset. I know ladies who made the same mistake. You knew these things before marrying him... Take Late Pastor Bimbo Odukoya's advice; "the prayer you refused to pray before choosing your marriage partner, you will be forced to pray all through a wrong marriage..." Begin to pray now o! & remain at your best behaviour and appearance. Pray particularly against HIV. Sadly, as we lay our bed, so will we lie on it.
so you ve already concluded she is in the wrong marriage. There is simply no perfect marriage.
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by ednut1(m): 7:30am On Aug 01, 2013
Jst a year, for better for worse, face it its urs, all dey knw is marry marry marry, even wen d signs are der dem go say he will change
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Nobody: 7:55am On Aug 01, 2013
Xowatz new,men wud always be men..bt dis ur own husband mata is worse,ur first baby n hez behavin lyk dat!!datz aint nice,afta d birth of dat child...get a divorce d marriage is 2 early 4 such trash!
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by temi4fash(m): 8:14am On Aug 01, 2013
Harbosede02: Xowatz new,men wud always be men..bt dis ur own husband mata is worse,ur first baby n hez behavin lyk dat!!datz aint nice,afta d birth of dat child...get a divorce d marriage is 2 early 4 such trash!

cos d marriage is early for this stuff so divorce is d solution.... I believe divorce should b d last thing when both side cannot reach a compromise..
Before we start concluding y dont we ask d op if her and her hubby have had any disagrement lately.
Has she talked abt it with him.
Has he bin doin dis before dai got married.
Wen d op answer den we can begin to reason d problem out for her...

Ma one cent
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by owolabifunke14(f): 8:52am On Aug 01, 2013
eyenCalabar: When I read things like this, I'll just feel bad with you girls. Didn't you know the kind of person he is before you got married to him? Is his actions new to you? Do you think it all men that women should get married to? No pls! Some are just good for friendship alone. Now, he's beginning to get tired of you for just first pregnancy. What would happen when your breasst start sagging? He'll need a marriage break nah. See, there are some things in life you can actually use your wisdom to settle it than with long prayers in the long run.
Forget this your epistle. You men can pretend to a lady for over 5years of courtship and the lady won't have a hint of your pretence. My own brother was never seen with a girl for once in our house but one fateful day, a girl with 3months preg came to our house with her mother and her box. My parents were even denying that their own son could not do such a thing until the guy confessed that he actually did it. Prayer no dey expose una pretence ni.
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Nobody: 10:01am On Aug 01, 2013
190: he don begin chop nkwobi for outside with better udeme 1964 brand grin grin grin

Go to his mom's house at your own risk

btw imma the first to comment

lemme give a shout out to all my NL girlfriends

I hail!
You rock! Cheers!
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Nobody: 10:04am On Aug 01, 2013
Princess zoe: This is a beautiful advise and statement, and coming from a man for that matter. God bless you for being sincere. Is well with us all.
NodsHisHead'
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by overdrive(m): 10:05am On Aug 01, 2013
owolabifunke14: Forget this your epistle. You men can pretend to a lady for over 5years of courtship and the lady won't have a hint of your pretence. My own brother was never seen with a girl for once in our house but one fateful day, a girl with 3months preg came to our house with her mother and her box. My parents were even denying that their own son could not do such a thing until the guy confessed that he actually did it. Prayer no dey expose una pretence ni.
Pls what later happen btw ur bros and d girl,I know someone in his shoes right now.
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by eyenCalabar(m): 11:25am On Aug 01, 2013
owolabifunke14: Forget this your epistle. You men can pretend to a lady for over 5years of courtship and the lady won't have a hint of your pretence. My own brother was never seen with a girl for once in our house but one fateful day, a girl with 3months preg came to our house with her mother and her box. My parents were even denying that their own son could not do such a thing until the guy confessed that he actually did it. Prayer no dey expose una pretence ni.

That's why you have a God which you worship. Pray to Him that you be granted wisdom to know this at the right time. Life is not a mystery. You can package your life and get everything falling just perfect for you. Stop being ordinary else you'll get nothing out of life. Involve your God in everything you do because you don't know that little thing you feel it doesn't matter and you try to handle it in your own wisdom may land you in a big trouble later.
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by dmcdad: 11:59am On Aug 01, 2013
Harbosede02: Xowatz new,men wud always be men..bt dis ur own husband mata is worse,ur first baby n hez behavin lyk dat!!datz aint nice,afta d birth of dat child...get a divorce d marriage is 2 early 4 such trash!
Get a divorce? Haba! That's like going from frying pan to fire.
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by dmcdad: 11:59am On Aug 01, 2013
Harbosede02: Xowatz new,men wud always be men..bt dis ur own husband mata is worse,ur first baby n hez behavin lyk dat!!datz aint nice,afta d birth of dat child...get a divorce d marriage is 2 early 4 such trash!
Get a divorce? Haba! That's like going from frying pan to fire...
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by dmcdad: 12:06pm On Aug 01, 2013
owolabifunke14: Forget this your epistle. You men can pretend to a lady for over 5years of courtship and the lady won't have a hint of your pretence. My own brother was never seen with a girl for once in our house but one fateful day, a girl with 3months preg came to our house with her mother and her box. My parents were even denying that their own son could not do such a thing until the guy confessed that he actually did it. Prayer no dey expose una pretence ni.
Men pretend, that's right. But women? newsflash! they pretend more when it comes to getting married. A lot of em will hide their evil characters and attitudes acting like saints before the marriage and after everything is over, they now bring forth their devilish part of them...

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Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Odunharry(m): 12:27pm On Aug 01, 2013
@ op,instead of worry,put evrytn in prayer..
Hope u avnt done anytn dat made him change his attitude..sit dwn n think..
U and ur husband can make it work again..
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Nobody: 12:38pm On Aug 01, 2013
Another thread where 190 makes a bit of sense. undecided
op, i think you should tell the mods to move this to family section.
They'll dissect and un-dissect your case properly for you over there.
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by owolabifunke14(f): 1:03pm On Aug 01, 2013
overdrive:
Pls what later happen btw ur bros and d girl,I know someone in his shoes right now.
The girl. And her baby stays with us now and my father's mood since that day changed. He blames my mother for everything. But my brother is now hustling by force because old man told him to go and rent his own house. My brother is a gentle man by pretence to the core. He always want to beat the girl but my mum doesn't give him that chance. I salute my mum for always protecting the poor girl.
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by dmcdad: 1:08pm On Aug 01, 2013
owolabifunke14: The girl. And her baby stays with us now and my father's mood since that day changed. He blames my mother for everything. But my brother is now hustling by force because old man told him to go and rent his own house. My brother is a gentle man by pretence to the core. He always want to beat the girl but my mum doesn't give him that chance. I salute my mum for always protecting the poor girl.
Ehya...
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by 190: 1:12pm On Aug 01, 2013
alutacontinua: Another thread where 190 makes a bit of sense. undecided
op, i think you should tell the mods to move this to family section.
They'll dissect and un-dissect your case properly for you over there.


Come this girl nor take me play oh
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Nobody: 1:18pm On Aug 01, 2013
190:


Come this girl nor take me play oh

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Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Saraha1(f): 3:56pm On Aug 01, 2013
Marriage !!! GOD HELP US TO MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE.
Re: Help!i Think My Hubby Wants To Be Single Again!! by Pdizzle(m): 8:42pm On Aug 01, 2013
D way nl peeps advice divorce dese days is scary..which marrige wan remain for world

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