What should I think if my international love asked me for money? Is there an appropriate amount that is ok to ask for? I mean if we were together we'd do that for each other anyway right?

Girl you better walk away now... Don't send his ass anything. If you do consider it helping somebody in need want. Never send anything you aren't ready to do without.

amitalian: What should I think if my international love asked me for money? Is there an appropriate amount that is ok to ask for? I mean if we were together we'd do that for each other anyway right?

so, you have international and local love

Enegod: so, you have international and local love

Only international.

SniperInADiaper:

Only international.

are you amitalian?!

Enegod: are you amitalian?!

No.. but I read her other post

SniperInADiaper:

No.. but I read her other post

happy morning Diaper

Enegod: happy morning Diaper

Its bedtime and Im cranky..

Can you send me some money? I think I saw on another thread that you are loaded

I need to buy something please

SniperInADiaper:

Its bedtime and Im cranky..

Can you send me some money? I think I saw on another thread that you are loaded

I need to buy something please

you are not in perfect mental chating order.. you need to sleep. muah

i wouldnt if i were u

SniperInADiaper: Girl you better walk away now... Don't send his ass anything. If you do consider it helping somebody in need want. Never send anything you aren't ready to do without.

wow thats harsh,Why are you trying to spoil the guy job lolz?

amitalian: What should I think if my international love asked me for money? Is there an appropriate amount that is ok to ask for? I mean if we were together we'd do that for each other anyway right?

Love is blind so please send him anything that he want,Be a cheerful giver.

How long have you know him and how did you meet?
If he's a guy u met on the internet or got introduced to by someone,then don't send him anything.
If you have to send anything at all,then let it be just little.
Don't send any huge amount of money to any international love.

I would say it depends.... You have to weigh his intentions. For the fact that you guys have known for quite a long period of time, you must have known how sincere and honest he is with himself and you. Also, take note if his intentions for asking; if it's just a means to extort money from you or a genuine reason. If after checking out these and you see the need, then the next thing is if you have the money, you can help me out even if not with all.

We are just speculating here cause we don't know the person involved if he has good intentions or not. But you are in the best position to know that...

So, it's up to you...

I don't even know what to say oo. All I know is that I am branding the OP's handle.

If anyone comes to say Nigerians are fraudsters, she is gonna get it

Why is he asking you money for??are you his mother?
Tell him to get a job!

It's true they say a sucker is born every second.

Op, don't drop a dime...it's scam...like someone said, are u his mum /dad?.....I was really into a guy, sometime ago until he conveniently / stylishly talked about how to raise 4 million naira to startup his biz, and that his mum has spent a lot lately on her biz, his not in talking terms with his dad... ... I was like? How about going for a loan?... It's only bank that can give off such money... He says he doesn't have collateral to backup the 4million.... I scratch the back of my neck, e go hard o...i then asked why not start small... and the biz will grow....he , then smiled and says don't worry God will work out sumthing... I said , amen o.. Then a week later, he says one babe is offering him 500k, as dash ... But he's skeptical to collect it... Cause he feels, she might want sumthing more and intimate from him.. As he was saying it, he was looking at me, trying to see a reaction.. I was like, wow!....hmmm, well a man has to do , what he gats to do... Take it , if u want to... Cos I don't av 500k to dash... He says ok, he understands... He became distant, stopped calling, I just smiled ....ok nah...I called him , one fateful day and asked him how about your new company? How far av u gone? And has the highest bidder paid and bought u over?... He was like women ? Women? .... To cut long story short.... I don't need such financial liability on my neck, not when we are not married...nah
If he wants to breakup cos am not dishing out 500k or more?......so be it...no probs...am all gud... He has parents, whom are suppose to be wealthy , while , am an orphan, trying to make headway in life , singlehandedly....
So, Op..... Don't drop o...

I'm speechless. I already knew the things u were saying r true... I guess I jus needed to hear it from others. He almost forces me to say ill send even tho I can't.

amitalian: I'm speechless. I already knew the things u were saying r true... I guess I jus needed to hear it from others. He almost forces me to say ill send even tho I can't.

That's why I stated that you know him better than we do... Seems he isn't fair afterall...

My dear, it's true o... It happend to me , live... And this was a guy, I was so in love with... Thinking he feels the same way, like I do... But he had a game plan up his sleeves... Am not ready for that kind of load, not at this stage of my life... Nah .. And when a guy wants to turn his back on his babe, after collecting some large chunks from her... Or if she can't continue to maintain the relationship financially, he will drop her like , its hot , then change his phone lines, block your bb pin from getting across to his...and start behaving distant.... So , it's better 4 him to behave like this now, than when uv spent so much on him... In the name of love...Magas in babes , don scarce.... Working class Babes , shine your eyes, wella.

Please what is international love Is it a type of lottery, a destination or something
Your response is needed urgently

Haba amelian.......so if I was ur guy now and am in desperate need of 400k, and u have it, u won't borrow me?

Even if u really know that I need it genuinely?

Doesn't mean if ur guy asks u for money one day, he is a scam o, agreed majority of naija guys in international luv are scams bt not all o

@AB025,
Do I look like a bank or a loan commercial bank?.... I av siblings responsibilities on my neck.. If u r in desperate need of cash, go and borrow from d bank or from small banks... Or meet family members to contribute monies to help out... But bothering yur babe, cause u guys are dating? Shudnt be? Cause first and foremost, i take care of my daily bills, I don't ask him for anything...especially when guys are always complaining about giving their babes a treat or spending on them.. So if I don't place my financial burdens on you? Why shud u place yours on mine?.. There are times , I need some substantial amount of money, I borrow from my friends, task each one of them and pay them back with 10percent profit .. So that next time, they will give to me..it's convenient for me and everyone concerned....so Nope , am not giving what I can't afford to loose.

dmcdad:
That's why I stated that you know him better than we do... Seems he isn't fair afterall...

But to b fair to him he also has gotten money to me.

AmBeautiful: Please what is international love Is it a type of lottery, a destination or something
Your response is needed urgently

For me it's exactly what it states. I'm in the us he is there in Nigeria. We r 2 years into this now n it feels real n right but jus some things r off. Is it cause he lied to me at 1st bout who he was or is there more... Idk

But as far as my side is concerned... I truly love this man..

amitalian:

But to b fair to him he also has gotten money to me.

Do you mean he has given some money in the past?

amitalian:

But to b fair to him he also has gotten money to me.

Do you mean he has given some money in the past??

If he has given u money in the past? Op.... Yurs is different from mine , abit.... Cause in my own case, he doesn't give, but I chose to accept him like that, until he came up with this money stuff...so Pls help him out... He cud be genuinely in love with you and also sincerely need yur help.. Give him , an amount u can afford to remove eye from.

dmcdad:
Do you mean he has given some money in the past??

He has gotten money to me b4 but I'm in need now n he knows that but for some reason still asks me for some. Blows my mind.

dmcdad:
Do you mean he has given some money in the past??

Seems so.

If he has, I don't know what the OP is asking questions for again although I will suggest she does not give too much. Just in case it ends badly