djeezy: @op by very poor do you mean destitute, impecunious, bankrupt, insolvent? A man should fix himself and ensure he is fit enough to cater for the needs of the family, that's the most important thing. You need not be as affluent as Dangote before you get married. Why do poor people have more kids than the rich?

Baybe: In Igboland, children are considered as riches. A man with plenty children is considered wealthy

djeezy: A man who can take care of all his children is the true riches. Not children with empty stomach.

mollytinrox: I tire for people sha.

If you're poor, like so poor you can't afford a roof over your head when you're out on your a$$ because you're unemployed, you have no business having an e-rection, not to talk of sticking it into a woman. For you, in fact, masturbaytiing with engine oil, soap and vaseline is permitted.

Why bring kids into the world to suffer, and turn out to be like you? Those kids will end up like their pa, no 2 ways about it. The fruit does not fall far from the tree.

Rubbish.

mollytinrox: I tire for people sha.

If you're poor, like so poor you can't afford a roof over your head when you're out on your a$$ because you're unemployed, you have no business having an e-rection, not to talk of sticking it into a woman. For you, in fact, masturbaytiing with engine oil, soap and vaseline is permitted.

Why bring kids into the world to suffer, and turn out to be like you? Those kids will end up like their pa, no 2 ways about it. The fruit does not fall far from the tree.

Rubbish.

Efemena_xy: ^^ Poorness is of the mind.

Having said that, even poorness with regards to financial wealth get levels. What sort of level are you talking about here? Destitute? Living under the bridge? Face-me-I-face-you??

Which one?

onuwaje: hehee u av spoken well... Over to u @op

Baybe: In Igboland, children are considered as riches. A man with plenty children is considered wealthy

Chillisauce: If you are poor, you can marry but pls, do go producing kids that will be hungry and no money for education, exception if you are a farmer and promise to homeschool your kid.

Too many kids suffering in this world.

mollytinrox: I tire for people sha.

If you're poor, like so poor you can't afford a roof over your head when you're out on your a$$ because you're unemployed, you have no business having an e-rection, not to talk of sticking it into a woman. For you, in fact, masturbaytiing with engine oil, soap and vaseline is permitted.

Why bring kids into the world to suffer, and turn out to be like you? Those kids will end up like their pa, no 2 ways about it. The fruit does not fall far from the tree.

Rubbish.

eddyland: I jst saw some piteous conditions some guys that got married and with kids are undergoin because of lack of money and it realy got me wondering. This morning I went to visit a friend, and the guy that was managing in the security house close to the gate of my friends compound has been evacuated because the landlord that offered him the place wants to make use of the place. Ok now I saw him,his wife and their two little kids just perching at the compound, obviously no place to go to. And I have known the guy for a while, and ever since i know him things have not being that easy for him. See him, see his wife and two little kids, just perching outside just like that, exposing the little kids to harsh environmental condition, i now begin to wonder, is it even by force to get married and bring in kids into the world that we cannot even take care of and just allow them to suffer for what they dont even know. Because it is even now very obvious that this guy was not even able to take care of himself very well but he went and pick a wife which i cant tell if they were legally married or not and with two very little kids of theirs. So is it really worth it to pick a wife even in our sorry condition?

eddyland:
Destitute

Efemena_xy: ^^ Poorness is of the mind.

Having said that, even poorness with regards to financial wealth get levels. What sort of level are you talking about here? Destitute? Living under the bridge? Face-me-I-face-you??
Which one?

onuwaje: hehee u av spoken well... Over to u @op

onuwaje: ur PAPA

eddyland:
Destitute

We all call for change in Nigeria, but it is obvious that we ourselves need to change first, because we also have strong and wrong attitudinal problem. Must you insult somebody on the forum all the time, what calls or warrants the insult? if you cannot follow up comments and threads in a forum, why not just keep mute rather than being barbaric

onuwaje: thanks mr 'right'... I will not sit down and keep shut when someone insults me ok... Thanks for ur advice tho

onuwaje: thanks mr 'right'... I will not sit down and keep shut when someone insults me ok... Thanks for ur advice tho