You know, some guys are just compulsive liars, doesnt mean they dont love you,

Does keeping silent about an event/ocurrence count as Lying? If so, then i'm guilty. I would rather NOT let a girl know something, than lie to her about it. I am a very bad liar and they always catch me out, so i dont bother lying. If they ask, i wd probably tell.

Awwwwww. . . . wish they were more like you Grid

U should even be glad the lies he told u weren;t scandalous. Plus u,ve got to show him much love and confort since it can be seen from his lies that he suffers frfom the fact that his mom had him while in secondary schul. Got a friend too who suffers a lot from the same issue. But tell me, u girls are experts and pro,s and this game of lies telling, where do u girls get ur inspiration from? Movies, Friends, ur Mothers or Money?
Would really like to know for it would mean a lot to many guys

I agree with kimba. The thing to remember is that we ALL lie. My husband did start out with some lies, ones that really did not need to be lied about. I just stayed my time, and within a few months he said he had to come clean cuz he realized he did love me and want me forever. For over two+ years now he has always told the truth, a couple times when he started not to, he corrected himself. He has shown me he is an honest man. It's when they DON'T want to be honest that they need to be kicked to the curb. Girl, if u r looking for am an who never lies, you'll be looking a long time. IMHO

_{just back from work fagged out, no time to read all the 'turenchi' above but wanted to answer the simple question}    Just because ladies hates the truth._{good night}.

They lied cos they think is the best thing to do to a lady. my dear i believe he loves u and he want to chang for good, that's y he's telling u the truth, cos if u should find out urself is going to be a disaster. what do u think?

PPL LIE because THEY CAN, its called[b] FREE WILL[/b], if he's ur Fiancee then he should be ashamed of himself for having let things gone this far and not still have told u the truth.

I say, be more concerned about WHY he lied than the fact that he lied. If u love enough to want to commit urself to him, then try and understand why he did it, that might heal the rift and help u rebuild ur trust in him before decing to commit the rest of ur life to him. If he had no reason to lie and he just did it, THEN THE REAL QUESTION IS, DO YOU HAVE THE HEART TO LIVE WITH SUCH A MAN?>
i admire women with tremendous strength (or stupidity-depending how u ook at it) that are able to live with the knowledge that their husbands and partners are flirts and mini-gigolos, yet they accept it as part of them and live with it, even having their children, as long as he respects her, provides for his family and is responsible, those women can deal with his issues!

personally i would love all ladies to know this. most guys will agree with me that most ladies enjoy being lied to .its the only thing that gives them that temporal satisfaction that they all crave, temporal cos all ,women will only ride with a guy as long as the conditions are right. he lied to u basically cos he had studied the circumstance at that point in time and the best balm to suit u will be to lie to u which he did. and lest i 4get, i knew while he was 'teeling all those lies' u where really falling in love with him d more. so u see when there was a change in condition later he had to say something to perfectly suit the condition. i would not want u sistas to castigate us guys cos of one or two lies we say .we brothers can tell the gospel truth especially to the chic we love. but most of u girls prefer to hear those sweet and impossible things. so i think all u need to do is call him ask him to be sincere about y he lied and if his excuses are reasonable enough pls let him be. and if u think ure not o.k with that then go on with ure life and try and get someone who is truthful. but i bet my left thumb u will neva find such a one.

@topic
they lie because they are HUMAN , just like women are Human

Lillyfish said it all.
Hello Lil'fish!

@Topic

Because it is second nature to men and women just love to get carried away by the lies out of stupidity, by giving the stupid men opportunities to lie! Women will see the lies and still fall for them.  Silly things!

"because women cant handle the truth"

same reason some women lie too

ibk u're here
i've been waiting all night

all night, for what?

deola aw did u kno it was ibk i was waitin 4

for u girl
what was the name of the last thread we were flirting?

flirting? i don't know 

Nigeria boi:

deola aw did u kno it was ibk i was waitin 4

no you weren't 

no nn ibk, talk to me am ur man

deola1:

no nn ibk, talk to me am your man

oh really?

don't be shy sweetie, gimme the link to that particular thread pls

@deola
i really can't remember, why don't you check through posts

thanks for the idea sweetie, i forgot and thats why i loooooooooooo, u ;

deola1:

thanks for the idea sweetie, i forgot and thats why i loooooooooooo, u ;

no problem 

u crazy ibk

deola1:

u crazy ibk

crazy ke? ShubiduuuBwapIbkjsbkjafkhcsvhasvdjhdvmh! Bum Diddy Bum!

Nah, i'm not crazy.

another memorable thread is about to start

for real?