jidegirl12: WOW they really got into your head didn't they? You even have a diagnosis for yourself. You're messed up.

Bullies : they come in all forms and shapes .. family members inclusive....hehehe you haven't seen anything yet, so you'll bang your head on the wall if complete strangers mock your background and call you all sorts??

You need to grow a very thick skin buddy... Starting NOW!!

There's nothing wrong with you, you just happen to give a shît bout what people say bout you...Don't let anybody bring you down with their talks... put your ignore button on and aim high.

Enjoy your next step in life with your head up and positive thots. YOU'RE OKAY.'

Vivly:
But this theory does not make him less lonely or make people stay with him for long. I can relate to his story too.

Bipolar disorder, also known as bipolar affective disorder, manic-depressive disorder, or manic depression, is a mental illness classified by psychiatrists as a mood disorder. Individuals with bipolar disorder experience episodes of a frenzied mood known as mania alternating with episodes of depression.

Mania can occur with different levels of severity. At milder levels of mania, or "hypomania", individuals appear energetic, excitable, and may in fact be highly productive. As mania becomes more severe, individuals begin to behave erratically and impulsively, often making poor decisions due to unrealistic ideas about the future, and may have great difficulty with sleep. At the most severe level, individuals can experience very distorted beliefs about the world known as psychosis.

Well, the subject of this post should actually be[size=20pt] "help a nairalander with serious personality issues"[/size] but im sure that'll probably scare away those that would have ended up helping me.

Well let me start by saying i grew under the supervision of my sister who made my life miserable.People close to her will affirm that she's a tough person so we never got along(even till now)

My mom now,i can make her very happy; or so i think but next minute she's talking to someone and telling them what an irresponsible boy i am.

Kanwulia: Evidence # 3

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Vivly:
But this theory does not make him less lonely or make people stay with him for long. I can relate to his story too.

Nmeri17: Well, the subject of this post should actually be "help a nairalander with serious personality issues" but im sure that'll probably scare away those that would have ended up helping me.

Well let me start by saying i grew under the supervision of my sister who made my life miserable.People close to her will affirm that she's a tough person so we never got along(even till now).
Well the reins of my supervision were soon passed to my (rather long suffering) brother since my sister got married.We did have a nice time under his 'rule' till the final stages of our stay together.He eventually ended up painting a very distorted image of me to those i valued most before leaving to pursue his life ambitions.
My mom now,i can make her very happy; or so i think but next minute she's talking to someone and telling them what an irresponsible boy i am.
I happen to have good looks and crack a lot of jokes so i often have someone crushing on me from time to time but eventually they dont have any intentions of staying with me.


Now here's what im trying to bring out.I believe there's something about me,something really serious and not physical which is responsible for this.I asked this girl who's come the closest to me.She just said i have no problem but then the results im getting are quite inversed.I dont have much friends in real life but online im the talk of the town.Im really worried cos im soon going to get admission and i wont want to be distant from my roommates and classmates alike

spongeback: So what exactly is your problem

Nmeri17: my problem is i want someone to suggest to me what is it that might be the reason why people may not want to be with me over the course of time.If its my attitude,someone sometime should have told me i have a certain behavior that they dont like so i doubt its that

Kanwulia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bipolar_disorder



There. . . .!
We ALL have varying forms of these.
Sometimes happy. . . and sometimes sad!

I am actually a HYPOMANIAC!. . . ALWAYS PRODUCTIVE AND HAPPY. . .till I encounter DISGUSTING HUMANS!
I do not hesitate to show them the reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeal HYPERMANIA!

If I ever get deported to NIGERIA to live AMONG NIGERIANS without any form of ESCAPE. . . I WILL MOS-DEF become A TRRRRRRRRRRRUE BIPOLAR PSYCHO!

My H-AGNOSTIC GAWD FORBID OOOOOOOOOOOOOOH!!!!

Please pray for moi! Make dem nor deport moi to NIGERIA O!

I GO TURN SERIAL-KILLER . . . UUM! MALICHUKWU!!!!

jidegirl12: ^^ Ask him oh Abeg... All the negative remarks he grew up with is not helping him either... He's all messed up now he thinks he actually has a disability.

Oh boy .. It's a big world out there, enjoy wella and forget your sorrows

Mercy-u:
Probably,ur attitude 2wards those dt crush on u make them 2 leave.U can overcome or curb this problem by trying 2 be more emotional(loving) 2wards people dt come ur way.If u hv been harsh on them or u care less,try 2 be gentle,polite n careing n u will see them stay.,!

baby_123: You are bound to clash with people and your mum is bound to side with the majority of your siblings to make conclusions.

Goodluck with school

Nmeri17: yea.I too used to think everyone hated me but at some point i figured its not possible everyone has a fault.It has to be me.I do have a bestfriend.We have had as many relationship-breaking fights as nepa takes light in a year but we're still bestfriends.We did not stick together because of anything but him;he still comes back even when im the cause of the fight to plead reconciliation.I dont expect every individual to do same so im sure the problem is from me.MY QUESTION IS HOW WILL I BE ABLE TO DEAL WITH PEOPLE WITHOUT HAVING ISSUES ALL THE TIME IRRESPECTIVE OF WHO THE ISSUE IS FROM
thanks dear

Kanwulia:
There. . . .!
We ALL have varying forms of these.
Sometimes happy. . . and sometimes sad!
I am actually a HYPOMANIAC!. . . ALWAYS PRODUCTIVE AND HAPPY. . .till I encounter DISGUSTING HUMANS!
I do not hesitate to show them the reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeal HYPERMANIA!

If I ever get deported to NIGERIA to live AMONG NIGERIANS without any form of ESCAPE. . . I WILL MOS-DEF become A TRRRRRRRRRRRUE BIPOLAR PSYCHO!

My H-AGNOSTIC GAWD FORBID OOOOOOOOOOOOOOH!!!!

Please pray for moi! Make dem nor deport moi to NIGERIA O!

I GO TURN SERIAL-KILLER . . . UUM! MALICHUKWU!!!!

Chinma Eke:

Send a mail to mspsychewrites@gmail.com, she can help.

baby_123:

They have probably blamed his inability to keep a relationship on his unserious personality. What is a teenager doing getting worried about serious relationships? A boy for that matter. OP, let me assume you are 18 at the most. Please, which girl will want to stay with you for 7-12years waiting on a ring, or just doing girlfriend. When you get to 25 or 27 you can start thinking about taking anyone serious. Till then, just jaiye ori e. This time will fly by fast. Focus on school, get good results, get a job before you find a serious girlfriend so you dont get involved in something that will cause heartbreak and possibly set back for the rest of your life. While the girl will move on to someone who is richer. Most of your mates will marry guys older than you anyway.

baby_123:
Why are you fighting with your best friend like that? The fact that he comes to beg you all the time may mean he is gaining something from you, and does not want the relationship to end. Before another fight think thoroughly about if you still want the friendship and either end it for good, or dont get into a fight.

Forget girlfriends for now, and focus on school. You will be glad you did.

Nmeri17: hahaha...Recently i just learnt that the funniest people suffer depression the most and it did help me a bit at least now i know why my sadness is usually very deep when it comes.It might suffice to mention that i stand at 6ft 4 or so.So people usually point it out as its probably the only thing they can think of quickly say to me.So i try to measure up by dressin fly but i attract attention anyways.It so happens that the negative attention does get me deeply.take for instance this girl i toasted one time,after everything she said she was ashamed to walk wid me cos i was going to make her look a midget