obo_man:

I think coogar is partly right to say it was consensual,meaning two capable and legal adult made a decision to sleep with each other, but that is not really the bone of contention.

What has happened is a pastor, often a spiritual leader with high moral standing, has gone against what he stands for, if the story is true.

Yes, he isn't perfect but let us all admit that he has made a mistake, if we use his doctrine as a reference point.


As for the woman coming out, I think it's right she came out because anytime she sees him preach, she sees pretense and hypocrisy on the pulpit.

Coogar, how would you feel if an armed robber that robbed you last night openly goes to primary school the next morning, to warn kids to stay away from robbery?

I think this is the sole reason why Ese Walter is aggrieved


P.S We need to stop blaming women , even when we know they are the victims. We blame them when they are raped, we blame them when their trust is abused, etc... No sane society does that...

They will end up being our mums someday.

touchmeder:


GOD BLESS YOU A THOUSAND LIKES. ITS REFRESHING TO KNOW PEOPLE WHO REASON THIS WAY REMAIN ON NAIRALAND. TRULY REFRESHING

peppy luv:

mbulela:
i feel you but the lady spoilt her tale by calling herself a victim. That was a very wrong choice of word. She was a wilful participant who chose to be seduced,controlled and manipulated by a man because she like most females in the pentecostal setting choose not to read their bibles and have a personal relationship with God devoid of any intermediary called GO or Archbishop or even senior pastor.
This will keep happening until they stop abusing 1Chronicles 16:22, Every believer is anointed of God. Their is no hierarchy in God's kingdom.

deols:

One would have thought that having been a victim yourself, you'd be on the side of this lady. Rather you'r here spewing hatred.

You should seek help if you haven't. It is understandable the kind of psychological damage that encounter must have done you.

Teaching practice you said? College of education tinzzz? Isalrite

Fadelex: I see most of these men of God as being of d same level wit me cuz if God really calls you, you're gonna survive any temptations dat come your way..but u see fine girl and her thought engulfed your mind, then you're no better than dat guy on d street. may God help us all.[b][/b]

i_laugh: Blame yourself woman. Sit on my laps, you sat, kiss me, you kissed, open your laps, you opened, by your own freewill and you come here blaming the man. Abeg, clear for road.

You don't believe in the salvation thing, so why do you feel remorse and want to free yourself?

game plan: LET HE DAH TINKS HE IS WISE TAKE HEED LESS HE FALLS..ppl jst come here to type wat eva dey feel like tinkin its wisdom...bware of d wrath of GOD!!!

game plan: LET HE DAH TINKS HE IS WISE TAKE HEED LESS HE FALLS..ppl jst come here to type wat eva dey feel like tinkin its wisdom...bware of d wrath of GOD!!!

thehomer: As usual, many refuse to blame the pastor. At least the lady wasn't married but he was.

game plan: LET HE DAH TINKS HE IS WISE TAKE HEED LESS HE FALLS..ppl jst come here to type wat eva dey feel like tinkin its wisdom...bware of d wrath of GOD!!!

GeneralShepherd:

And they wonder why you are an atheist...hypocrisy

GeneralShepherd:

Lol why are you threatening people? You and your kind are the people that encourage pastors to act with impunity.

kingthreat: Everybody has weaknesses they are dealing with. Some its drugs, fornication, drinking, adultery, masturbation, etc. But to expose someone's weaknesses to make him seem evil is very wicked of you. Just wanted to remind you Ese Walter that as much as the pastor is a hypocrite, adulterer, etc. You are also a LovePeddler, an adultress, blackmailer and a hypocrite too. Enjoy the fame in pulling people down. Your christianity is no better than you hype yourself to be.

acidosis™:


Revenge or No Revenge...
She tried several times to reach Pastor Coza, but Mr Flo won't allow her move close.
Is it not obvious to you the kind of link between Mr Flo and Mr Coza??


Pastor COZA is guilty
..and silence will not solve this problem.

An open confession and a permanent closure of the assembly would do.

Thats one thing Satan hates..

mbulela:
there are loads of Christians here blaming the pastor. The pastors actions have no bearing on the infallibility of God. God was God,is God and remains God irrespective of the shenanigans of hirelings or even genuine pastors.

eiknarf14: I knw Ese personally, she lived in royal Victoria, east London whr I use to live bck thn n we were quite close. I totally believe her story n it's quite baffling....

spicy v: You need to see how this girl displayed on the pulpit of the church she started attending when she left COZA(she has also stopped coming to church, since early this year). She go give testimony come begin display dey cry, repeatedly shouting, "I have forgiven all of you that abused me"!

Choi! See drama! That was a couple months back o. He is very bitter and disturbed, going through intense torment. She is always quick to say I have forgiven only to plot evil. I know sha, say she is not really alright but why she is refusing professional help is puzzling! Treating mental health is not a stigma abeg, people dey codedly do am for ABJ. And they live a normal life.

Its so, sad, fine, smart, sharp looking lady oh! You would never suspect anything is off, observing her from afar.

acidosis™:


What Department are you in COZA, ma'am??
Pastoral Care Unit?

texaco1: Abeg I still need two more confessions please to make the list 10.pls I dey beg all of u wey don nack ur pastor I beg come confess oo,make una no fall my hand .I swear I no go tell una husband

lee007:
Are you for real? so someone's child can sit down and write this rubbish?

texaco1:
An open confession to 160 million ppl will close this case ,abi?brilliant.

spicy v:

what's your own? You dey get credit alert with each confession?