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Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by coogar: 9:36pm On Aug 29, 2013
baby_123:
Again it is obvious her point was not to destroy pastor Biodun. But to talk about her issues since everyone she talked to either laughed at her, or swept what she was dealing with under the carpet. Some people keep diaries, and like to write about their experiences. I dont. But maybe this was the way she could express herself? You cant blame her for taking matters into her own hands since the "custodians" of her faith and what she believes in failed her. So anything she does, they have to take it in good faith.

baby123, the matter had been dealt with by pastor flo. when such things happen, the church deals with it privately. according to her, she was told pastor biodun had confessed and he repented - yet ese still wanted a one v one meeting arranged privately with pastor biodun.

what else does she want? she wants the church to stop operating or for pastor biodun to step down as a pastor? when people confess sins to a priest, the matter is dealt with privately. look at the confession box in the catholics, it's between the sinner & the MOG they confess to - it's never a public matter.

ese is just a slithery-aśs creature determined to ruin a MOG!
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by baby124: 9:39pm On Aug 29, 2013
coogar:

baby123, the matter had been dealt with by pastor flo. when such things happen, the church deals with it privately. according to her, she was told pastor biodun had confessed and he repented - yet ese still wanted a one v one meeting arranged privately with pastor biodun.

what else does she want? she wants the church to stop operating or for pastor biodun to step down as a pastor? when people confess sins to a priest, the matter is dealt with privately. look at the confession box in the catholics, it's between the sinner & the MOG they confess to - it's never a public matter.

ese is just a slithery-aśs creature determined to ruin a MOG!

I hope in all this you have learnt something about controlling your blokos. Because you might end up with an Ese who wants to talk about her experience. hahahaha. Still i support her doing whatever makes her happy. The pastor already used her to release some tension and exploit the effects an possibilities of manipulation. wink
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by tpia5: 9:44pm On Aug 29, 2013
baby_123:

http://esewalter./


Oya o. cheesy


baby_123:

I hope in all this you have learnt something about controlling your blokos. Because you might end up with an Ese who wants to talk about her experience. hahahaha. Still i support her doing whatever makes her happy. The pastor already used her to release some tension and exploit the effects an possibilities of manipulation. wink


from her blog:


To the point I became desperate in my relationships. I meet a guy today and just because he likes me, I start planning the wedding in my head. At ‘hello,’ I already start to think of how my name would sound with his at the end. I think of how many kids we would have. I even wonder if he would stay home with me as opposed to hanging with ‘the boys’ when we were five years into the marriage. Most times brother-man isn’t even thinking about asking me out. He probably just enjoys my company and wants to have a good laugh over drinks or lunch.

Sure by the time I get back from my dreamland, brother-man is taking to his heels and I am stuck again feeling like an ass and sometimes even feigning a broken heart or bruised emotions. This was a stupid circle I had to go through again and again and again and then I finally got it.


still on the blame game:

It wasn’t really me that had the problem. It was this shitty circle I was stuck in. This inconsiderate expectation from society that I had been thrust into completely unprepared. I wasn’t prepared in my mind, as I didn’t even know who I was or what I wanted.
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by coogar: 9:45pm On Aug 29, 2013
baby_123:
I hope in all this you have learnt something about controlling your blokos. Because you might end up with an Ese who wants to talk about her experience. hahahaha. Still i support her doing whatever makes her happy. The pastor already used her to release some tension and exploit the effects an possibilities of manipulation. wink

i learnt nothing from this saga....
there's no lessons to be learnt when 2 grown ups decide to have steamy sëx for a week.

one of the things i was taught in my early teens was how to duck & avoid women like ese - women with the emotional make-up of a 12-year old girl.
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by tpia5: 9:49pm On Aug 29, 2013
as per the "hours" sex and the 7 day non-stop "rounds", i need to see the pastor's viagra prescription, thanks.

or will it be attributed to alcohol?

non-stop alcohol that didnt knock the drinker out for 7 straight days?
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by baby124: 9:51pm On Aug 29, 2013
coogar:

i learnt nothing from this saga....
there's no lessons to be learnt when 2 grown ups decide to have steamy sëx for a week.

one of the things i was taught in my early teens was how to duck & avoid women like ese - women with the emotional make-up of a 12-year old girl.

Am sure the pastor would have thought the same. What, brave girls like this have a sign on their forehead? Learn to control your blokos, it will even make women want you more. And respect you. grin. If you refuse, what ever comes of it, you embrace it. Na you sabi.
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by baby124: 9:53pm On Aug 29, 2013
tpia@:
as per the "hours" sex and the 7 day non-stop "rounds", i need to see the pastor's viagra prescription, thanks.

or will it be attributed to alcohol?

non-stop alcohol that didnt knock the drinker out for 7 straight days?
grin grin grin

Tpia, leave matter. What happened, happened.

You want to say you have never gone on a 7day vacation and escape from the world? Only to come back and savor the moments you had. May our vacations not be one of regret after being fooled with "touch no my anointed". Chei, bible has suffered.
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by baby124: 9:54pm On Aug 29, 2013
Dayo, grin grin grin grin cheesy. Please just read and dont comment, i cant argue again tonight. Let me go around just dropping comments. The debates were wonderful. Thanks guys, everyone's comment was well respected and enjoyed. kiss
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by Nobody: 9:56pm On Aug 29, 2013
tpia@:






from her blog:





still on the blame game:


The babe is one confused bia.tch grin grin grin seriously messed up.
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by tpia5: 10:00pm On Aug 29, 2013
baby_123:
grin grin grin

Tpia, leave matter. What happened, happened.

You want to say you have never gone on a 7day vacation and escape from the world? Only to come back and savor the moments you had. May our vacations not be one of regret after being fooled with "touch no my anointed". Chei, bible has suffered.

is the lady "savoring moments" or savoring some non-existent "guilt"?

you seem to be unable to make up your mind what emotion exactly is supposed to be involved here.
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by coogar: 10:04pm On Aug 29, 2013
baby_123:
Am sure the pastor would have thought the same. What, brave girls like this have a sign on their forehead? Learn to control your blokos, it will even make women want you more. And respect you. grin. If you refuse, what ever comes of it, you embrace it. Na you sabi.

i have a tester that tells me when a babe is desperate & despicable like ese. did you read her blog? she meets a guy in one day and she's already planning wedding & raising babies in her head.

imagine what she would have thought after the romp with pastor biodun. she probably expected pastor biodun to chase his wife away and make her the pastor(mrs) ese. it was a shock when she discovered all her efforts were in vain. grin
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by biolabee(m): 3:11am On Aug 30, 2013
baby_123:

Majority of the victims were people's wives and mothers. i knew them like this. But out of the small small money the priest will give them, they will not talk. They will even fight the smaller girls for wearing short skirt to seduce the priest and take their position. This is why i am solidly behind anyone who can come and expose the frauds in the churches. The wolves in sheeps clothing.

Interesting
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by biolabee(m): 3:16am On Aug 30, 2013
IF God come down today...people go quench plenty cheesy


Please who has the link to this powerfull pastor


coogar:
that's so untrue!
the man screwing the lady wasn't the pastor - someone else was dictating what to say. you could hear "make you dey do am o, power, enter, close your eyes o" from a voice of a man who wasn't in the video....someone was calling the shots and the couple having sëx were repeating after him.


the woman committed suicide? show me the link, please
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by biolabee(m): 3:24am On Aug 30, 2013
tpia@:




make una leave the priests o, i'm sure they dont find it easy as it is. . . . . . . . . .

Maybe they should stop this celibacy vow
If they are struggling, they can alternatively leVe the priesthood instead of being closet pa.edophiles
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by Nobody: 3:42am On Aug 30, 2013
coogar:

baby-123, what are you on about?
how can you compare this to ladies who get räped for wearing miniskirt? do the ladies go back to their attackers for 7 days and sleep with them? the pastor never used any violence according to ese - how's this räpe or sëxual abuse?

even ese wrote in her 2nd missive she wasn't abused sëxually.

Bwahahahaha!!! Oh! So now you agree that she said she didn't mean sex*ual abuse? Now that it suits your argument?!! Rotfl!!!
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by Nobody: 4:38am On Aug 30, 2013
She may now be targeting Paul Adefarasin or another fine pastor or Ayo Orittsejafor sef
Eediot
All pastors in Abuja should mark that face
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by coogar: 10:54am On Aug 30, 2013
ileobatojo:
Bwahahahaha!!! Oh! So now you agree that she said she didn't mean sex*ual abuse? Now that it suits your argument?!! Rotfl!!!

ileoba the chief priestess, i never disputed she said she didn't mean sëxual abuse. i only highlighted her inconsistencies in the 2 statements she made.
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by Nobody: 11:44am On Aug 30, 2013
Yes, Ese is a prostitute; yes, she had s.ex with Pastor for seven days; yes, she didn't walk away, infact she enjoyed it, but we have different moral, spiritual and family backgrounds. Staying or walking away doesn't change the fact that Pastor B used his manipulative skills which he has acquired over the years to get his prey. Pastoral Care Unit? What special care does he need?.

My joy in all of this is that Pastor Biodun will think twice before he uses his manipulative skills on any other vulnerable woman. Common let's keep naming and shaming them, so many of them out there.
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by Nobody: 12:36pm On Aug 30, 2013
aysometin: Yes, Ese is a prostitute; yes, she had s.ex with Pastor for seven days; yes, she didn't walk away, infact she enjoyed it, but we have different moral, spiritual and family backgrounds. Staying or walking away doesn't change the fact that Pastor B used his manipulative skills which he has acquired over the years to get his prey. Pastoral Care Unit? What special care does he need?.

My joy in all of this is that Pastor Biodun will think twice before he uses his manipulative skills on any other vulnerable woman. Common let's keep naming and shaming them, so many of them out there.

Preach!!

Dat's all! The guy is a very skilled and experienced manipulator and predator. And it starts from the point he hand picks the girls to join the pastoral care unit. She was 'invited' to join the pcu, not so? That was when the plan was set on motion! The rate at which he's slicing through the women in his congregation is really something! Disgusting sex*ual predator!
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by Nobody: 12:37pm On Aug 30, 2013
coogar:

ileoba the chief priestess, i never disputed she said she didn't mean sëxual abuse. i only highlighted her inconsistencies in the 2 statements she made.

What?! A bold faced lie?!! I'll be back to quote where you did exactly that.

.........Ok, liar liar. Your words.

coogar:

so tell us, our great witchdoctor, how was ese "abused"? if it's not sex abuse, what form of abuse? adult abuse or wait for it.........spiritual abuse?

coogar:
she meant sëxual abuse - don't even twist it. in what other way could she have been abused in the story she told? marital abuse? verbal abuse or what exactly?

I can only lmao @ the people that feel they have a better person on their side of the argument. grin grin
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by coogar: 12:42pm On Aug 30, 2013
ileobatojo:
What?! A bold faced lie?!!I'll be back to quote where you did exactly that.

if i smack your acne-face....
ese said she was sëxually abused then later came back to say she wasn't sexually abused. one of the 2 must be correct, the 2 scenarios can't be together - and the fact that she mentioned the 2 scenarios imply she's a pathological liar as her story isn't consistent.


ileobatojo:

Preach!!

Dat's all! The guy is a very skilled and experienced manipulator and predator. And it starts from the point he hand picks the girls to join the pastoral care unit. She was invited to join the pcu, not so? That was when the plan was set on motion! The rate at which he's slicing through the women in his congregation is really something! Disgusting sexual predator!

this is why arguing with you can be tedious
ese had left their church for the UK for almost 2 years for her masters before this incident happened. it wasn't a case of hand picking girls into the PCU or the lies you have contrived. ese simply wanted to screw the pastor - she was willing and she got what she wanted!
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by Nobody: 1:28pm On Aug 30, 2013
coogar:
this is why arguing with you can be tedious
ese had left their church for the UK for almost 2 years for her masters before this incident happened. it wasn't a case of hand picking girls into the PCU or the lies you have contrived. ese simply wanted to screw the pastor - she was willing and she got what she wanted!

*Sighs* grin grin grin
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by Nobody: 2:32pm On Aug 30, 2013
This Ese girl is fame obsessed.which kain nonsense letter to "her" creator did she write?
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by coogar: 2:44pm On Aug 30, 2013
jennykadry: This Ese girl is fame obsessed.which kain nonsense letter to "her" creator did she write?

jenny, see your country. cheesy grin

https://www.nairaland.com/1417807/soldier-stole-iphone-4s
Re: The Fatoyinbo Dilemma, Your Thoughts..... by Nobody: 3:03pm On Aug 30, 2013
Whose country?coogar take time ooo. I denounced my citizenship and burnt my passport. Oh I have to copy this link cheesy grin

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