Ms_Steph: Silly excuse. So when he was "courting" her nd knacking akpako he forgot she is dirty dat man has sumtin in his closet

Efemena_xy: Takes one to know one.

Likewise, it takes a dirty person to recognize and acknowledge another person's filth AND YET wallow in it for three whole years.

Filthy couple.

Chillisauce:

My dear, I disagree with you on that, anyone can detect a dirty person. A clean person will detect, a dirty person will also detect depending on the degree of the other.

Some ppl are naturally dirty, and they know this but they are more comfortable in their dirt.

As per the man filing for divorce, he should go ahead, it's difficult to change a dirty person, the best you could do is try to be like them. And I refuse to partake in that

debrief08: Chili is right, dirty people stay dirty, you are either constantly cleaning up after them or you ignore the dirt and live like them.

They are very comfortable in dirt.

debrief08: I forgot to add his curtain had finger and oil stains meaning when he eats he cleans his hands on the curtains.
Almost throwing up now as that memory returns to me.

timothy001: Very Funny How You All Reason : Do you think the man would have gone to court without first Teaching/warning/Instructing The wife? Or do you think after 3yrs of marriage the man just went to court? Ofcourse not.

Probably he was fed up.And After WORK you don't expect the man to clean the house. A 35yrs old. (Please reason with me. )

Some woman are just Dirty and hardly take corrections, 3 yrs is enough for her to change before the case getting to court.

I wish the man had enuf Money to get a house Maid since Nobody is perfect.

For You kulyie,Ms_Steph, Efemena_xy Question 4 U All.

How many of You will Allow this,After Closin From work at 7pm or 9pm Then Ur coming to clean ur House, A 35yrs old married man.??If yes For How long? 3yrs?

The woman should be Ashamed ,I wonder if she's clean Down there. #Just Curious.


After Renting a 4 bedroom duplex for 1.3M in Magodo. I married u ,I close from work at 8pm,Due to Lagos Traffic got home 9pm Then everywhere dirty,Bedroom dirty,kitchen dirty,U expect me to continue warning u after 3yrs i shd still warn u.

Are you a Baby?

Then if the man should die now of 2 much stress .The wife would want to claim the husband property? Is this What You Nigerians CALL TRUE LOVE?.

Marriage is for Happiness,I wouldn't be happy Complaining the same issue for good 3yrs .

And for U girls,When ur suppose to be learning simple stuff at home.It's Always You and ur BLACKBERRY.

Dont know how to cook,Clean Worst of it all Losed Kitty:

And U expect ur Husband after Passing through Hell to be successful To come home from work and clean ur house and kitchen for U.

And U dominique,greatgod2012 , How will you feel If you were asked to visit ur Brother Only for you to find out after he close from work , He get home and start another cleaning Exercise. Pls Be Honest in ur Answers.

Then D True Issue start showing up and Ur telling me no one is perfect,

Thank GOD the wife never Said the Husband had Gf's .That means the main issue is Dirtiness of 3yrs .

Some men are Clean to a Fault.If u notice this about ur husband/Wife,Why not make him happy by doing what he ask u But U will only change after he has taken you to court for divorce.

And for those woman dat claim DIRTINESS shouldn't lead to Divorce, Calm down and watch the woman's Behavior if things/business /work go wrong for the man.

Am not the OP but just saying from my own perspective. Just my pieces of Cake.

debrief08: A younger colleague was dating a guy, a lot of us were carried away with his good looks and his seeming politeness, she kept saying hehad hygiene issues but I was thinking it was the normal sometimes careless nature some men including my husband exhibit, till one day she got me to his place, I still have nightmares from what I saw.

He lives is a different town so she would go every 2 weeks, she spends all weekend cleaning up only to return and meet it more dirty.
When we got there he was at work, she said she got tired of cleaning his bathroom so she locked the second bathroom for her own use.
His bathroom water and pee all over the floor, poo in the toilet and stains of poo, the bath was discoloured with dirt and layers of it.

His clothes thrown all over, rats and roaches had made a permanent abode in his kitchen, the 30 mins we spent there I was scared for life, cockroaches strolling comfortably, I went to the hotel and showered 3 times, never nagged my husband for not properly mopping after that.

She tried and gave up, I always wonder who he will end up with, me I will de dead in a week

There were week old dishes in the kitchen sink, some developing maggots, coackroaches lazying around them.

My dear friend told me "see what I come to meet every weekend"

After that day I never told her to "manage" again.

debrief08: A younger colleague was dating a guy, a lot of us were carried away with his good looks and his seeming politeness, she kept saying hehad hygiene issues but I was thinking it was the normal sometimes careless nature some men including my husband exhibit, till one day she got me to his place, I still have nightmares from what I saw.

He lives is a different town so she would go every 2 weeks, she spends all weekend cleaning up only to return and meet it more dirty.
When we got there he was at work, she said she got tired of cleaning his bathroom so she locked the second bathroom for her own use.
His bathroom water and pee all over the floor, poo in the toilet and stains of poo, the bath was discoloured with dirt and layers of it.

His clothes thrown all over, rats and roaches had made a permanent abode in his kitchen, the 30 mins we spent there I was scared for life, cockroaches strolling comfortably, I went to the hotel and showered 3 times, never nagged my husband for not properly mopping after that.

She tried and gave up, I always wonder who he will end up with, me I will de dead in a week

There were week old dishes in the kitchen sink, some developing maggots, coackroaches lazying around them.

My dear friend told me "see what I come to meet every weekend"

After that day I never told her to "manage" again.

debrief08: I forgot to add his curtain had finger and oil stains meaning when he eats he cleans his hands on the curtains.
Almost throwing up now as that memory returns to me.

passionate88: Very funny how the girls think. Greatgod I never knew you of all people could write such. The woman isn't working yet you expect the husband to come from work and sweep the house with his " housewife ! This one na real end time thingz. We give up