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Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by timmfikk(m): 7:46pm On Jun 12, 2008
Nairalander under 18 and above 18, I keep wondering the kinda life youths of today are living, for example you see a lady of 16-17 of now days getting involved in marriage, Unlike when we do say its the fathers who really have given them out when they where young but knowingly they do this things coz of money and enjoyment, now my opinion is that is the actually right to be done at all??

Looking forward to your guideline
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by LadyT(f): 7:50pm On Jun 12, 2008
Enjoy your freedom of being a child!!!

Plenty of time for love heartbreak sex etc.
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by Nobody: 7:51pm On Jun 12, 2008
16-17 in marriage is another story lipsrsealed

but in a relationship, what's bad abt it? They're just exploring. . .all I'll say is, dnt let it get pass kissing. If you can't control yourself, dnt even try.

I know 15 year ols that's given birth to a baby. . .I absolutely look down on that. . .
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by Nobody: 7:51pm On Jun 12, 2008
I personally think that ages 16-17 is too young to have an intimate relationship, i like my freedom
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by onyinye2(f): 7:54pm On Jun 12, 2008
i feel there is nothing wrong in being in a healthy safe relationship at that age. I mean if both parties know there intentions then nothing should be wrong. i had a strong relationship to long ago when i was 19 and we both knew what we were doing and set the line on how far the relationship was going to go. The whole marriage part is well im not to sure about that. i dont anyone personally to give a straight answer.
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by jennykadry(f): 7:57pm On Jun 12, 2008
onyinye how will they know their intentions when they are still kids peeing on their p a n t i e s?

16-17 is too young abeg
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by tope2000(f): 8:00pm On Jun 12, 2008
as long as they are not having sex yet then i dont see nothing wrong
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jun 12, 2008
jennykadry:

onyinye how will they know their intentions when they are still kids peeing on their p a n t i e s?

16-17 is too young abeg

well, aunty, you should have told me that b4 na. . .

The thing is, you can be in a bf/gf thing at that age, just dnt take it further than kissing o, yes, it's not a serious relationship. But you're learning abi tongue

tope2000:

as long as they are not having sex yet then i don't see nothing wrong

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by studio43(m): 8:02pm On Jun 12, 2008
i started practicing sex at age 12 but then i never knew what i was doin. i saw it as a childs play.
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by michelin89(f): 8:02pm On Jun 12, 2008
I had my first guy when I was 16 and it was not cool. They guy thought that he could use my naiveness to make me do something silly as getting married to him so he could get the Italian citizenship! shocked shocked Until you are involved with your agemate you can still control things but when your partner is older be ready to be treated as a toddler!
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by onyinye2(f): 8:04pm On Jun 12, 2008
jennykadry:

onyinye how will they know their intentions when they are still kids peeing on their p a n t i e s?

16-17 is too young abeg
people have to understand kids these days are more mature than you think they are. when i was 19 which wasnt to long ago the relationship i was in was completely genuine. we were not out having sex or making out in public. it was slow and peaceful and a great experience. it was young love.
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by michelin89(f): 8:08pm On Jun 12, 2008
onyinye2:

people have to understand kids these days are more mature than you think they are. when i was 19 which wasnt to long ago the relationship i was in was completely genuine. we were not out having sex or making out in public. it was slow and peaceful and a great experience. it was young love.

We are talking about underage boys and girls dating! Overage dating is not even something to worry about.
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by jennykadry(f): 8:08pm On Jun 12, 2008
Men don't have problem at all,they can start dating a girl even @age 2,but im talking about babes going into a relationship at that age.

some of them want to take advantage of d babes age,for christsake no be every girl sharp naw undecided see as men dey deceive old women not to talk of youngies,yeah i know age is not maturity,but atleast d girl's got to grow up before any thing happens,from 18 is ok,but 16-17,some of them will only want to deceive,use and dump d babe because shes still young


onyinye that was 19 and not 16-17,we r talking about 16-17 yrs here and not 19
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by onyinye2(f): 8:11pm On Jun 12, 2008
I was 16 years old when we started this relationship. and he was 17 years old. and yeah we were underage but we knew our boundaries.
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by timmfikk(m): 8:12pm On Jun 12, 2008
[b]@ jenny,

onyinye how will they know their intentions when they are still kids peeing on their p a n t i e s?

16-17 is too young abeg[/b]


I think you are right well to me getting into an intimate relationship at such age is not the best thing, instead think of not lacking behind from friends in study, if its just a normal friendship well thats just better but getting to the fact of intimate, shocked  i dont think its okay
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by jennykadry(f): 8:13pm On Jun 12, 2008
onyinye then y did u mention 19 @first?how come its naw 16 and 17?
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by michelin89(f): 8:13pm On Jun 12, 2008
onyinye2:

I was 16 years old when we started this relationship. and he was 17 years old. and yeah we were underage but we knew our boundaries.

The guy nor sharp then! grin Which kind boy dey talk of boundaries? tongue
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by onyinye2(f): 8:15pm On Jun 12, 2008
maybe at that age michelin, you were tricking girls out of their boundaries but this boy was the perfect gentlemen. he never try to do something he knew i wouldnt approve of and it truly was young love.
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by michelin89(f): 8:17pm On Jun 12, 2008
onyinye2:

maybe at that age michelin, you were tricking girls out of their boundaries but this boy was the perfect gentlemen. he never try to do something he knew i wouldnt approve of and it truly was young love.

I be girl ooo but I admit that if I were a guy I'd be a real modafucker! grin
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by jennykadry(f): 8:18pm On Jun 12, 2008
hoenstly speaking if i had a younger sis who's having a relationship @dat age 16-17


NA WITH HER CREATOR FOR HEAVEN SHE GO SETTLE HER CASE,because I WILL SEND HER THERE angry angry
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by timmfikk(m): 8:19pm On Jun 12, 2008
@ onyinye,

maybe at that age michelin, you were tricking girls out of their boundaries but this boy was the perfect gentlemen. he never try to do something he knew i wouldnt approve of and it truly was young love.

Away from the fact that the guy was not sharp, i do not think the relationship was at its best the guy might be someone who always shy like me, it happened to guys somehow like that but i want you to know if you ever meet someone who is really stronger than you, and also have gangs of friend who taught him a lot of sexy things, forget it a day will be a day oooo grin grin grin grin
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by HRhotness(f): 8:19pm On Jun 12, 2008
how right or wrong something is a reflection of the times and circumstances

decades ago it would have been unacceptable but i know somone who got engaged at 18. . .
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by timmfikk(m): 8:24pm On Jun 12, 2008
@ poster, hoenstly speaking if i had a younger sis who's having a relationship @that age 16-17


NA WITH HER CREATOR FOR HEAVEN SHE GO SETTLE HER CASE,because I WILL SEND HER THERE


So you are telling me now jenny if i am to be your man, and you gave birth and a day she told you mom, i met a guy today at that age, what will you do to her, coz if you send her to her creator me an you go meet ourself there be that too. grin grin
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by onyinye2(f): 8:26pm On Jun 12, 2008
timmfikk:

@ onyinye,

maybe at that age michelin, you were tricking girls out of their boundaries but this boy was the perfect gentlemen. he never try to do something he knew i wouldnt approve of and it truly was young love.

Away from the fact that the guy was not sharp, i do not think the relationship was at its best the guy might be someone who always shy like me, it happened to guys somehow like that but i want you to know if you ever meet someone who is really stronger than you, and also have gangs of friend who taught him a lot of sexy things, forget it a day will be a day oooo grin grin grin grin
dont think i will ever find a person stronger than me grin and so what if the taught him a lot of things it wouldnt matter because he wouldnt have the chance to use it on me. it would be a waste of knowledge.
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by timmfikk(m): 8:30pm On Jun 12, 2008
@ oyinye.

don't think i will ever find a person stronger than me and so what if the taught him a lot of things it wouldnt matter because he wouldnt have the chance to use it on me. it would be a waste of knowledge.


cry cry cryHmmmm you think he will not be able to use the tricks on OYINYE , i have a something similar to that, the guy they pet the gurl likie anything , the day he really coult never control hiumself after some Indecency stuff, you know now , Omo the guy could not tell us how it started to the end and was so sorry for dhis action but what do we need to do, Action has been performed already which is the KOKO
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by chinesedoll(f): 8:33pm On Jun 12, 2008


no small pickin for this world again o
17yrs 2 old sef
d oda day my 13yr old cousin was telling me
that she has a crush on a guy in her class
when i was 13 i no even sabi d meanin of crush
one tin about this kids of nowadays d moment dey start
to grow tins on their chest dey feel dey have arrived
k take 4 example this babe akon was accused of assaulting
she is just 14 i hear but check out her dressin
at that age sef i still dey wear 3 step gown wey get belt 4 back
i ble if u have siblin that tinks he or she is old enough 2 go into a relationship
the best tin is 2 advice and counsel d person because violence wont help anytin

Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by jennykadry(f): 8:34pm On Jun 12, 2008
@timmfikk

if d babe don grow tell me years later,i go only caution her for even starting dat early,and since she don grow i believe she should be wiser ,but i go still caution her

but if dat girl is still 16-17 shocked shocked come open mouth tell me say she get lover,i swear dat mouth wey she open tell me ,go close for heaven cos i no go give her time to close d mouth for earth,i go just send her sharp sharp go up

nonsense
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by LadyT(f): 8:40pm On Jun 12, 2008
16-17 is too young. Better focus on your studies and having fun with friends. Heartbreak is the same at whatever age. I think its a horrible thing to inflict on a young girl or boy. I would not encourage a baby ( to me) 16-17 to start dating.
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by onyinye2(f): 8:41pm On Jun 12, 2008
timmfikk:

@ oyinye.

don't think i will ever find a person stronger than me and so what if the taught him a lot of things it wouldnt matter because he wouldnt have the chance to use it on me. it would be a waste of knowledge.


cry cry cryHmmmm you think he will not be able to use the tricks on OYINYE , i have a something similar to that, the guy they pet the girl likie anything , the day he really coult never control hiumself after some Indecency stuff, you know now , Omo the guy could not tell us how it started to the end and was so sorry for dhis action but what do we need to do, Action has been performed already which is the KOKO
oka for one thing spell my name right please. and second well the guy i was with didnt watch Indecency and even if he did it wouldnt matter cause i was never alone in his house. so yeah there were no tricks used on me and never will be used on me.
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by chinesedoll(f): 8:42pm On Jun 12, 2008
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by jennykadry(f): 9:31pm On Jun 12, 2008
ruky y u dey confused naw undecided
Re: Is It Right For Boy And Girl To Be In Relationship Before 18 Yrs Of Age. by hotchic1(f): 9:45pm On Jun 12, 2008
I really don't think 16-17 years old is too young nowadays.
At 17,some people are already in 200 level.
I think maturity is whats more important here.
I got into a relationship few months after leaving secondary,I was 15 then though the guy was a lot more matured,i have counted several years in the relationship and we are about moving on to the next level and i am still enjoying every bit of it.
Its just a matter of realising what you want and make this known to your partner provided you have thesame aim.
What i consider a child's play is a 16yr old girl dating 16 yr old guy,i'd see that as a wste of time.

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