should married persons i.e the wife or husband keep in touch with exes
on the flip side keepin in touch with an ex is usually to compare with the choice made i.e scorn the person assuming the person isnt better off when you left him/her, but in the case where the person is excelling a sense of regret might set in, and if the person is a bad guy/girl, the tendency to cheat will come in.

case in point, thanx to Watzapp, my ex and i started chatting seriously, catch is she's married and wants to pay a visit to my crib- i feel its totally wrong, but this wud never have crept up if she didnt keep in touch.
there is no perfect relationship, and potential infidelity lies in wait, when a partner is unhappy and comparing the choice made with another individual with whom he/she has had past sexual engagement.

should married persons i.e the wife or husband keep in touch with exes? should married partners ban all form of communication with exes?

HELL NO!!! Keep in touch for what An Ex should forever remain an Ex,dead and forgotten. If you coincidentally meet in public sef no greet am if possible and if you have to greet,do it from a far distance with just a hi,shikena.

taryour: HELL NO!!! Keep in touch for what An Ex should forever remain an Ex,dead and forgotten. If you coincidentally meet in public sef no greet am if possible and if you have to greet,do it from a far distance with just a hi,shikena.

i think this advise is for those who can't control themselves emotionally. As the name implies he/she's just ur ex, not ur enemy. Not all break ups are bloody, some are just by mutial agreement, due to distance or some other minor inconveniences. There's nothing wrong with talking to or helping each other once in a while

provided there is no strings attached, and do not let emotions becloud your judgements, cos you might be re-igniting old flames. kip in touch once in a while, but not so frequent, be friends i'll say.

I don't plan to keep in touch with any of my Exes... the past is in the past, bygones be bygones.... focused on the future.

HELL NO.

There is no big deal I beg.....stop making issues out of no issue.....so far u gat no dirty mind

Make I think am 1st. Brb

Noooooooooooo



It's like keeping in touch with a man you who rubbed you!

just like taryour said, hellll noooo! a lot of people are talking bout how you should control emotions! that's why they are emotions, very hard to control. keeping in touch with an ex whom you shared a bed with is disrespectful to you partner. the mind frame of many guys is like this- you, your wife, and her ex will definitely meet up sometime and he will always look at her and be like, men i once tapped that asz. that's how most guys think. spare your loved, lovely and loving husband that mental humiliation which could as well get vocal someday!

Nooooooooooooooooooo!

I dey come. Make I finish this eba

Can only answer yes/No...
Base on what made her my ex...

The only reason u should be in touch with your ex is if you have kid (s) together. Anything else is just revisiting sweet old memories which WILL lead to temptation

It depends on your motive. Some people just want to wallow in self pity while some just want to ease the pain.

Always ask yourself, "Why do i want him/her in my life?" Your answer defines it all.

no,cos its definitely going 2 affect ur marriage in different ways

I think the OP knows the answer to his question. He only needs nairalanders to "back him" b4 he fulfills his lustful desires

Whatever makes u sleep at night is what u should do...

It d best combination.


Husband to keep in touch with is Ex girlfriend.

And


Wife to keep in touch wit his Ex boyfriend.

i can meet her, under some circumstances, remember we human being are like water, she can be my ex but not ENEMY.

taryour: HELL NO!!! Keep in touch for what An Ex should forever remain an Ex,dead and forgotten. If you coincidentally meet in public sef no greet am if possible and if you have to greet,do it from a far distance with just a hi,shikena.

Too bad! My ex actually made my man what he is today! we are still friends because we separated without any quarrel. it was a mutual agreement that we call it quits. Why should i then hate him?

dey should not b in a room alone because somting else may happen wether planned oor unplanned. they can sit out, greet e.t.c but comparism should never set in.

Let me prepare a ROBUST REPLY!

HMMMMMM

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So today na for "Ex" and "Exes" ?




About to say . . .

Why not... If you go back to your vomit... Maybe to admire it