gidjah: wow!! am so touched my dr op, so sure u will mke a gd home, God bls u mam, bt really wish most women wil pick ds n work wt it.LOVE my hubby,, really do,bt wish she cn lay hands on ds.pls send ds to my inbox or rather let me send u her num so u cld foward it to her,
once again gracias dr

komek: See as u look like she goat in ur dp. All this village girls on NL sef

chaircover: Very
good points poster. Can I add a few to those please?

Praise him. If we can tell them when they do wrong, then we should be as
vocal when they do good too

Do things that he wouldn’t normally expect you to do e.g. if he has a
project you know about, there is nothing stopping you from giving him a
lump sum towards that project if you have the money sitting in your
account

Take genuine care of his family & their welfare

Close gaps – For example if he is bad at remembering birthdays, then
send people cards in his name

Always pray for him

Treat him with respect, like a king & let him know how special he
is, in your simple everyday actions and words.

. . . . and a decent responsible man will return all this back to you

hushbarbie: awwwwww, i love dis nd i hope it works for me wen am married

salt 1:

Why will God bless you with such a woman unless you deserve her?
Some men want faithful wives but they cheat. They want wives who are open to them financially but hide their own salary details more than cat hides shit. They want wives who respect their relatives when they don't care about
her own relatives.

Instead of looking for Miss Perfect, aim at being Mr Perfect and she
will naturally come to you.

One lady's prayer comes to mind
"Lord, please give me a husband I will gladly pound yam for. Most of the men I see don't deserve anything better than indomie without egg".

danot1030: u ar wrong, at am a married man n i can u dat i enjoy most points frm my wife, thank God i didnt marry a heady like u.

RedBenson:

So you are not still married up to this time? What are you waiting for @ 37?

priscaoge: Nothing is as good as a Happy home,but there are few things that can help us build our homes to βε best among all homes. Ladies Let's put these tips into practice,and trust me,our homes will βε one everyone will like to have.

(1) Discover his favorite pet name and call him by that most times

(2) Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family

(3) Do not challenge him when he is hurt.

(4) Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology and explain why you behave that way that annoyed him.

(5) Be quick to say "I am sorry dear". Whenever you offend him insist on his forgiveness, appreciate and kiss him when he does.

(6) Speak good of him before his friends and siblings.

(7) Honor his mother.

( Insist that he buys gift for his parents and so be sure that he will do same for your parents.

(9) Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when he has no enough money at hand and never delay his food.

(10) Do not allow the maid to serve his food when you are at home.

(11) Give him a warm reception with an embrace when he returns, collect his luggage and help UnCloth him.

With these tips put into practice, I believe we will have more of a happy home

Imanuelle:



spontaneity

Like making the first move

RedBenson:

Truly truly, you are a nagging type. You want to stand 50/50 with ur husband abi? Dont worry, when you find yourself back in your papa's house, that's when you will know who married who and who owns the house. Keep exhibiting 50/50 authority till then!

Wendyphil: Tnx Op..I've stored it permanently for future purpose..

ojiefi: TRUTH IS MEN LIKE EVERY GOOD THING BUT ARE NOT WILLING TO GIVE BACK. MANY WOMEN DO EVEN MORE BUT WHAT DO THEY GET IN RETURN?
CHEATING HUSBANDS....

jeff1607: First comment on nairaland after a year

priscaoge: Nothing is as good as a Happy home,but there are few things that can help us build our homes to βε best among all homes. Ladies Let's put these tips into practice,and trust me,our homes will βε one everyone will like to have.

(1) Discover his favorite pet name and call him by that most times

(2) Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family

(3) Do not challenge him when he is hurt.

(4) Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology and explain why you behave that way that annoyed him.

(5) Be quick to say "I am sorry dear". Whenever you offend him insist on his forgiveness, appreciate and kiss him when he does.

(6) Speak good of him before his friends and siblings.

(7) Honor his mother.

( Insist that he buys gift for his parents and so be sure that he will do same for your parents.

(9) Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when he has no enough money at hand and never delay his food.

(10) Do not allow the maid to serve his food when you are at home.

(11) Give him a warm reception with an embrace when he returns, collect his luggage and help UnCloth him.

With these tips put into practice, I believe we will have more of a happy home

chaircover: Very good points poster. Can I add a few to those please?

Praise him. If we can tell them when they do wrong, then we should be as vocal when they do good too

Do things that he wouldn’t normally expect you to do e.g. if he has a project you know about, there is nothing stopping you from giving him a lump sum towards that project if you have the money sitting in your account

Take genuine care of his family & their welfare

Close gaps – For example if he is bad at remembering birthdays, then send people cards in his name

Always pray for him

Treat him with respect, like a king & let him know how special he is, in your simple everyday actions and words.

. . . . and a decent responsible man will return all this back to you

chaircover: Very good points poster. Can I add a few to those please?

Praise him. If we can tell them when they do wrong, then we should be as vocal when they do good too

Do things that he wouldn’t normally expect you to do e.g. if he has a project you know about, there is nothing stopping you from giving him a lump sum towards that project if you have the money sitting in your account

Take genuine care of his family & their welfare

Close gaps – For example if he is bad at remembering birthdays, then send people cards in his name

Always pray for him

Treat him with respect, like a king & let him know how special he is, in your simple everyday actions and words.

. . . . and a decent responsible man will return all this back to you

Promhize: Cook good sweet food, take care of the children and respect him, be good in bed too(optional)

I REP OLDSCHOOL METHOD

sunnshyn: Nice one OP!

I did almost all OP stated for my dad...except the unclothe him part. You won't find me still sitting when my dad comes in.

I saw my mom do theses things, and I learnt subconsiously from her.

Another one is: I can not retire to bed for the night if my family isn't complete at home. Especially my dad. Unless I'v been told before hand they'll be sleeping out...I was raised to be the last to fasten all bolts on all doors as the Adanna of he house.

I'm sure I'll transfer all mom taught me to Nwokem...

Easy tips I must say. Thumps up at OP

RedBenson:

Women have no say in a man's life even if he cheats. Do the best you can to ur husband and he does his best to you too but dont try to dictate to him how he shld do with/to you and in his life. Who married who?

RedBenson:

Truly truly, you are a nagging type. You want to stand 50/50 with ur husband abi? Dont worry, when you find yourself back in your papa's house, that's when you will know who married who and who owns the house. Keep exhibiting 50/50 authority till then!

RedBenson:

Women have no say in a man's life even if he cheats. Do the best you can to ur husband and he does his best to you too but dont try to dictate to him how he shld do with/to you and in his life. Who married who?

coolest01: hehehehe, u funny die

bukatyne:

Why are so many people uncouth in NL?

If you don't agree with a poster, why don't you move on or engage the person?

FYI, Salt 1 is a married man and I don't agree with most of your outlook on marrriage