nne3870: @op I support you tell his mum, dad, sisters and his pastor also. Everybody should be involved in helping your BF stop the devilish act on himself.
I will help you pray!

Mazi_Omenuko:

@bolded, you are absolutely right and you should be alarmed. His actions reduces libido (men's sexual drive) and once he's used to jerking off with his hands, it might lead to erectile disfunction and untimely ejaculation. Its a psych thing, once his d!ckk get used to getting erect once his fingers itches, it may be difficult for it to get erect when he's with you.

Do I have a solution?

No!

firetrap:

why not tell her to take a megaphone and go from street to street announcing it to the whole world. you're giving an advice that you would not take if it was given to you. op e be like say to be aunty gbegbegbe dey hungry you. u go dey there dey form say masturbation no good and another lady that doesn't feel as strongly as u will even help ur man to be milking himself.

Exponental: @op, As d case is, he has 3 options.
Masturbate, cheat on u or u give him d satisfaction he desires.
Pls choose for him.

Mazi_Omenuko:

@bolded, you are absolutely right and you should be alarmed. His actions reduces libido (men's sexual drive) and once he's used to jerking off with his hands, it might lead to erectile disfunction and untimely ejaculation. Its a psych thing, once his d!ckk get used to getting erect once his fingers itches, it may be difficult for it to get erect when he's with you.

nne3870: @op I support you tell his mum, dad, sisters and his pastor also. Everybody should be involved in helping your BF stop the devilish act on himself.
I will help you pray!

ijeoma100:

Is this the worst piece of advice EVER to be offered on Nairaland?

Where in the Bible does it say masturbation is devilish?

What has a pastor got to do with anything?

Telling his whole family that he self services will achieve what?

And to the OP - what exactly is your own issue with your boyfriend masturbating? What exactly are your own ideas about it all and what harm do you think he might be causing?

nne3870: @op I support you tell his mum, dad, sisters and his pastor also. Everybody should be involved in helping your BF stop the devilish act on himself.
I will help you pray!

Exponental: @op, As d case is, he has 3 options.
Masturbate, cheat on u or u give him d satisfaction he desires.
Pls choose for him.

tellwisdom: Please, what is self service?? He works for himself?? Where??

chi2012: Just when I thought I found a nice man who is so in love with me' who isn't so keen abt sex' ready to wait after marriage. Just few dayz after meeting his mother and family. I learn the bitter truth. He masturbates to keep himself satisfied... I don't feel so safe with this' and he says he would stop. But I m still worried. Is dis normal of young men? What do I do?

udemzy_udex:
I always tell girls that there is no guy that will date without asking for sex. .if he doesn't ask then it's because he is shy or he self service. himself..

my own advice. .

he should avoid staying in a lonely place when ever the urge arise.

delete all porn video and pictures
ask him if he is ready to stop the act

Princess zoe: wrong! There are guys who don't ask nor self service because they have fear of God. Aside fear of God, comes strong moral principle. In some ocasions, is the women that initiate sexx. Discipline also plays important role here.

Princess zoe: wrong! There are guys who don't ask nor self service because they have fear of God. Aside fear of God, comes strong moral principle. In some ocasions, is the women that initiate sexx. Discipline also plays important role here.

chi2012:


How else would I help him nah? I have decided to put into prayer and probably talk to his a mum about it. Since he travels a lot, his defence is' do I prefer him sleeping wit a girl or does he stick to his habit?

nne3870: @op I support you tell his mum, dad, sisters and his pastor also. Everybody should be involved in helping your BF stop the devilish act on himself.
I will help you pray!

medidress: Educational Guide
The side effects of such changes to the body include:
Fatigue. Feeling tired all the time
Lower back pain
Thinning hair / Hair Loss
Soft / Weak Erection
Premature Ejaculation
Eye floaters or fuzzy vision
Groin / Testicular Pain
Symptoms (also called Sexual Exhaustion) is distressing liver and
nervous system functions, include youthful impotence/erectile
dysfunction (including a soft or weak erection)
Get Rid From The Addictive Behavior?
The first step to getting better is to reduce masturbation and
ejaculation frequency and try to overcome this bad habit.

chi2012:

U are right dear. But I still feel its not worth it. This habit has its own side effects!

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nne3870: @op I support you tell his mum, dad, sisters and his pastor also. Everybody should be involved in helping your BF stop the devilish act on himself.
I will help you pray!

Boss13: Women and their plenty wahala.

udemzy_udex:
even the men of God do fornicate..

men are the carriers of life.. .lol
when you are not in the mood that thing will be in the mood.. .

for the side of discipline, all guys are not the same..

udemzy_udex:
even the men of God do fornicate..

men are the carriers of life.. .lol
when you are not in the mood that thing will be in the mood.. .

for the side of discipline, all guys are not the same..

austushi1:

So d guys dat self service, do not have d fear of God, abi?