idnoble135: Talk to her about it.
Especially when she is calm and cheerful.
A great man once said about relationships; "There are some things that people get angry about in relationships that their partner does not even know annoy them."

intbizoil: My brother how old is she, you have to assert your authority as a man unless she would take you for granted. You have to draw on what you expect from her so that she would think twice whenever she wants to cross it. Talking from a whole lot of experience

idnoble135: If she talks anyhow to you and even her sister, most likely she will one day do it to your mom and your family.
I wont tell you to leave her. Why would i?
If you can put up with her, marry her. If you cant, let her go. IMO, this are your options. Its your choice.

idnoble135: A gentle man will never raise his hand against a lady.

sanb: This is an issue of disrespect…..a few things you need to be aware of are; never marry someone cos of pity and never marry someone and expect them to change; cos you can’t change anyone unless the change comes from them..I'll give you 3 options;

1)Accept her the way she is;
2)Stay with her and continue to advice her to change….(there’ll be drama involved); and
3)Walk away now if you can’t cope with her character

The choice is yours….but note that if you can’t see a solution to this problem now in relation to how she relates/talks to you; then be rest assured that it’ll get worse after marriage; cos her feet would've been firmly placed on the ground….

Remember, life’s too short to be sad in your relationship/marital life…..cos marriage is not a bed of roses….my 2 cent and all the best…..

tpapi: Am in d same shoes wit ,my gal is sausy n talks disrespectly, i broke up wit her now she wants us to come back together, i gave her one condition if she disrespects me i wil beat her up n she agreed

Sherlock Holmes: And the funny thing is...she is insisting that she wants to get married between now and next year unfailingly... I told her i was not ready till 2015( and i said this cos i wanted to really observe her attitude to see if she is capable of changing) and she decided to break up with me...with reasons that i dont know what i want. I called her back and explained to her that let us watch how our compactibility improves btw now and december,if all thing go well, i will visit her parents next year. She agreed and we got on the saddle again and barely two weeks after our new resolution, last night was another round of careless talk... Its getting tiring...i hate giving up on sumtin but in this case, i hav to let go.

maxwello.yg:

My friend, do you really need God to appear in your dreams and tell you to let go of that disrespectful kid?

owolabifunke14: You can change her if you apply common sense

Sherlock Holmes:

Teach me please... cos sumtimes common sense aint that common u know

Rhemar: I believe she can still change though it's a very bad trait dat can't b overlooked. But does she really sees it d way u c it too b'cos there are pple who possess some negative traits as these who are uncomfortable wt it; if she shows any willingness 2 change then she can probably do bt if otherwise u can then give up on her.

She thinks she can change sometimes and other times she believe its just her and i that i complain too much and then sometimes she does not even know she is doing it...until i draw her attention to it and some times she does it intentionally cos she has said it once that she knows what she is doing so right now i dont even know what to believe anylonger ....I am as confused about it as you might be right now..

tpapi: Am in d same shoes wit ,my gal is sausy n talks disrespectly, i broke up wit her now she wants us to come back together, i gave her one condition if she disrespects me i wil beat her up n she agreed

nenergy:
Hmmm,she's desperate. Guy, RUN!!!