I was just curious,in the past most single ladies saying i want to keep myself till i get married for my husband but reverse is the case these days.so my question is..
1) did u had sex with ur spouse before marriage
2) to the single men will u marry a girl if u have not had sex with her?

Are u a learner? If you fail to make love to your girlfriend before you marry her, another guy will be doing that for you, women can pretend to be virgin to get you as a man, but its left for you to be smart and service the 'koko' because the more you service the more the level of
love, these days love making has lots of impact in making the love stronger. 95% of marriage can not tell us the did not have premarital sex.

yes, but I'm still single

Move to the family section abeg

Perfecter4real: I was just curious,in the past most single ladies saying i want to keep myself till i get married for my husband

Guy no go fall mugu o!!

Shey yu fit buy car without testrunning it??

Think bout it!!

Still repping.....

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ENDTIME TINZ!!

I'm still single. It used to be ideal to launch the sex on your wedding night, now I'm not sure the idea is fool-proof anymore.

acume: Are u a learner? If you fail to make love to your girlfriend before you marry her, another guy will be doing that for you, women can pretend to be virgin to get you as a man, but its left for you to be smart and service the 'koko' because the more you service the more the level of
love, these days love making has lots of impact in making the love stronger. 95% of marriage can not tell us the did not have premarital sex.

you think so.

slap1: I'm still single. It used to be ideal to launch the sex on your wedding night, now I'm not sure the idea is fool-proof anymore.

why what made you change ur views?

Its ideal to wait after marriage, hv made dis mistakes in d past but hv made amends. So help me God. Sex before marriage make u sleep wit many ladies nd guys bfore marriage.

Perfecter4real: why what made you change ur views?

Some girls tell you ''no sex" to polish their dignity before you, and then they go behind and bang like hell. Again, some girls have destroyed themselves and will give you the refurbished thing for the original.

Sex before marriage is getting validated as normal. The new trend is pregnancy before marriage because most girls have formatted their womb with uncountable abortions. . .etc...etc.

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I still believe we have great girls out there. I deserve one because I've been a good guy, and I'll sure get one when it's gonna be.

Never did until every steps of the marriage was done and she was officially handed over to me by her parents. we have been together and love each other.

Well, I am a Christian, and as a christian I urge us to base our life based on a standard -the Bible. (To all Christians) Let's make GOD's word the standards for our lives. No doubt I have committed so many sins in my past I am not holy but i thank GOD for his grace and for his son JESUS CHRIST redemption.
GOD spoke about importance of purity and holiness before marriage and in marriage in the bible. Premarital sex or sampling or testing or what ever name or title given to it is utterly bad. If anyone trust and fear GOD that person would keep his commandments. Learn to have faith in God and trust him for marital bliss (I know folks would spite at my words) but DON'T go around sampling a man for his penile size, to the men pls let's abstain from sexual acts till marriage, it pollutes your self. I have dug up some scripture that deals with sex before marriage for us all to go through. They are:

25 BIBLE VERSES ABOUT PREMARITAL SEX

Hebrews 13:4
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let
the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge
the sexually immoral and adulterous.

1 Thessalonians 4:3-5
For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that
you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one
of you know how to control his own body in
holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like
the Gentiles who do not know God;

1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has overtaken you that is not
common to man. God is faithful, and he will not
let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with
the temptation he will also provide the way of
escape, that you may be able to endure it.

1 Corinthians 6:18-20
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a
person commits is outside the body, but the
sexually immoral person sins against his own
body. Or do you not know that your body is a
temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you
have from God? You are not your own, for you
were bought with a price. So glorify God in your
body.

1 Corinthians 7:8-9
To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is
good for them to remain single as I am. But if
they cannot exercise self-control, they should
marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with
passion.

1 Corinthians 7:2
But because of the temptation to sexual
immorality, each man should have his own wife
and each woman her own husband.

Matthew 5:28
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a
woman with lustful intent has already committed
adultery with her in his heart.

Colossians 3:5
Put to death therefore what is earthly in you:
sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire,
and covetousness, which is idolatry.

1 Corinthians 6:9-11
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not
inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived:
neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor
adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,
nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor
revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of
God. And such were some of you. But you were
washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in
the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the
Spirit of our God.

1 Corinthians 6:13
“Food is meant for the stomach and the stomach
for food”—and God will destroy both one and the
other. The body is not meant for sexual
immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the
body.

1 John 1:9
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to
forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all
unrighteousness.

1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a
person commits is outside the body, but the
sexually immoral person sins against his own
body.

Jude 1:7
Just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the
surrounding cities, which likewise indulged in
sexual immorality and pursued unnatural desire,
serve as an example by undergoing a punishment
of eternal fire.

Galatians 5:19
Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual
immorality, impurity, sensuality,

1 Corinthians 6:9-10
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not
inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived:
neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor
adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,
nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor
revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of
God.

1 Corinthians 7:1-5
Now concerning the matters about which you
wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual
relations with a woman.” But because of the
temptation to sexual immorality, each man
should have his own wife and each woman her
own husband. The husband should give to his
wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to
her husband. For the wife does not have authority
over her own body, but the husband does.
Likewise the husband does not have authority
over his own body, but the wife does. Do not
deprive one another, except perhaps by
agreement for a limited time, that you may
devote yourselves to prayer; but then come
together again, so that Satan may not tempt you
because of your lack of self-control.

Exodus 22:16-17
“If a man seduces a virgin who is not betrothed
and lies with her, he shall give the bride-price for
her and make her his wife. If her father utterly
refuses to give her to him, he shall pay money
equal to the bride-price for virgins.

Genesis 2:24
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his
mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall
become one flesh.

Mark 7:20-23
And he said, “What comes out of a person is what
defiles him. For from within, out of the heart of
man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality,
theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness,
deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride,
foolishness. All these evil things come from within,
and they defile a person.”

Acts 15:20
But should write to them to abstain from the
things polluted by idols, and from sexual
immorality, and from what has been strangled,
and from blood.

Ecclesiastes 9:1-18
But all this I laid to heart, examining it all, how
the righteous and the wise and their deeds are in
the hand of God. Whether it is love or hate, man
does not know; both are before him. It is the
same for all, since the same event happens to the
righteous and the wicked, to the good and the
evil, to the clean and the unclean, to him who
sacrifices and him who does not sacrifice. As the
good one is, so is the sinner, and he who swears
is as he who shuns an oath. This is an evil in all
that is done under the sun, that the same event
happens to all. Also, the hearts of the children of
man are full of evil, and madness is in their hearts
while they live, and after that they go to the
dead. But he who is joined with all the living has
hope, for a living dog is better than a dead lion.
For the living know that they will die, but the
dead know nothing, and they have no more
reward, for the memory of them is forgotten. ...

1 Corinthians 6:16
Or do you not know that he who is joined to a
prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it
is written, “The two will become one flesh.”

1 Corinthians 6:15-17
Do you not know that your bodies are members of
Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ
and make them members of a prostitute? Never!
Or do you not know that he who is joined to a
prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it
is written, “The two will become one flesh.” But
he who is joined to the Lord becomes one spirit
with him.

Isaiah 1:1-31
The vision of Isaiah the son of Amoz, which he
saw concerning Judah and Jerusalem in the days
of Uzziah, Jotham, Ahaz, and Hezekiah, kings of
Judah. Hear, O heavens, and give ear, O earth; for
the Lord has spoken: “Children have I reared and
brought up, but they have rebelled against me.
The ox knows its owner, and the donkey its
master's crib, but Israel does not know, my
people do not understand.” Ah, sinful nation, a
people laden with iniquity, offspring of evildoers,
children who deal corruptly! They have forsaken
the Lord, they have despised the Holy One of
Israel, they are utterly estranged. Why will you
still be struck down? Why will you continue to
rebel? The whole head is sick, and the whole
heart faint. ...

Romans 5:20
Now the law came in to increase the trespass, but
where sin increased, grace abounded all the
more


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So far u blessed her punny befor tearn it#den u gud to go#remeba to cal us to eat o u safee wen u do dat or u can do a 7dayys dry fastin n on last day ur break d fastn wit her nt fud

So far u blessed her punny befor tearn it#den u gud to go#remeba to cal us to eat o u safee wen u do dat or u can do a 7dayys dry fastin n on last day ur break d fastn wit her nt fud

The real question is: are you (men) a virgin, because its extremely one-sided to want an untasted fruit while yours is rotten to the core And i've got 2 kids, so I'm def not one. But I'm searching for overall compatibility and partnership in a marriage... If my daughter was still a virgin at her time of marriage I'd be very up in arms if the fellow was some philanderer or even that he couldn't control himself yet wanted my pure, chaste daughter...

^^^Weda ur daughter chaste or not, dat na una palava, for me, she must get pregnant b4 marriage, sex is an understatement.

Jenams: ^^^Weda ur daughter chaste or not, dat na una palava, for me, she must get pregnant b4 marriage, sex is an understatement.

This man has a mission

Not yet married but body no be firewood

Am not married yet, but am Sampling all the 4 Ladies.. the 4 Candidates that am likely to choose from.

I need to know how sex.ual ma partner is before i rush into the "No-Going-Back-Bond"!

Jenams: ^^^Weda ur daughter chaste or not, dat na una palava, for me, she must get pregnant b4 marriage, sex is an understatement.

Lol. This seems like a reasonble request. If your sure you wanna marry her, plant that seed, if it grows, go ahead

slap1: ^
I still believe we have great girls out there. I deserve one because I've been a good guy, and I'll sure get one when it's gonna be.

hmmmm....have u really been a good guy?

andyanders: Never did until every steps of the marriage was done and she was officially handed over to me by her parents. we have been together and love each other.

whoa.... Thats kul i just hope she she didn't had sex either.

Pls ds should be in sexuality

Perfecter4real: hmmmm....have u really been a good guy?

Oh yeah!

(To all Christians) Let's make GOD's word the standards for our lives. No doubt I have committed so many sins in my past I am not holy but i thank GOD for his grace and for his son JESUS CHRIST redemption.
GOD spoke about importance of purity and holiness before marriage and in marriage in the bible. Premarital sex or sampling or testing or what ever name or title given to it is utterly bad. If anyone trust and fear GOD that person would keep his commandments. Learn to have faith in God and trust him for marital bliss (I know folks would spite at my words) but DON'T go around sampling a man for his penile size, to the men pls let's abstain from sexual acts till marriage, it pollutes your self. I have dug up some scripture that deals with sex before marriage for us all to go through. They are:

25 BIBLE VERSES ABOUT PREMARITAL SEX

Hebrews 13:4
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let
the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge
the sexually immoral and adulterous.

1 Thessalonians 4:3-5
For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that
you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one
of you know how to control his own body in
holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like
the Gentiles who do not know God;

1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has overtaken you that is not
common to man. God is faithful, and he will not
let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with
the temptation he will also provide the way of
escape, that you may be able to endure it.

1 Corinthians 6:18-20
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a
person commits is outside the body, but the
sexually immoral person sins against his own
body. Or do you not know that your body is a
temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you
have from God? You are not your own, for you
were bought with a price. So glorify God in your
body.

1 Corinthians 7:8-9
To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is
good for them to remain single as I am. But if
they cannot exercise self-control, they should
marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with
passion.

1 Corinthians 7:2
But because of the temptation to sexual
immorality, each man should have his own wife
and each woman her own husband.

Matthew 5:28
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a
woman with lustful intent has already committed
adultery with her in his heart.

Colossians 3:5
Put to death therefore what is earthly in you:
sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire,
and covetousness, which is idolatry.

1 Corinthians 6:9-11
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not
inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived:
neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor
adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,
nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor
revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of
God. And such were some of you. But you were
washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in
the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the
Spirit of our God.

1 Corinthians 6:13
“Food is meant for the stomach and the stomach
for food”—and God will destroy both one and the
other. The body is not meant for sexual
immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the
body.

1 John 1:9
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to
forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all
unrighteousness.

1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a
person commits is outside the body, but the
sexually immoral person sins against his own
body.

Jude 1:7
Just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the
surrounding cities, which likewise indulged in
sexual immorality and pursued unnatural desire,
serve as an example by undergoing a punishment
of eternal fire.

Galatians 5:19
Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual
immorality, impurity, sensuality,

1 Corinthians 6:9-10
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not
inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived:
neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor
adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,
nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor
revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of
God.

1 Corinthians 7:1-5
Now concerning the matters about which you
wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual
relations with a woman.” But because of the
temptation to sexual immorality, each man
should have his own wife and each woman her
own husband. The husband should give to his
wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to
her husband. For the wife does not have authority
over her own body, but the husband does.
Likewise the husband does not have authority
over his own body, but the wife does. Do not
deprive one another, except perhaps by
agreement for a limited time, that you may
devote yourselves to prayer; but then come
togeth this is long u don't expect me to read all this do you?

I am a young man of 32yrs old, Soldier serving in Abeokuta (Alamala brks), Single n seeking a woman in Abeokuta to settle down with. Age n religion is not barrier provided there is true love. Any woman who is interested n ready is free to add me on BBM 2296fbd7 or send sms to 08187374670 or ssk_melo@yahoo.com. I really need a pious one!

Jenams: ^^^Weda ur daughter chaste or not, dat na una palava, for me, she must get pregnant b4 marriage, sex is an understatement.

get pregnant b4 marriage dont u think thats to extreme?

lomomike: Well, I am a Christian, and as a christian I urge us to base our life based on a standard -the Bible. (To all Christians) Let's make GOD's word the standards for our lives. No doubt I have committed so many sins in my past I am not holy but i thank GOD for his grace and for his son JESUS CHRIST redemption.
GOD spoke about importance of purity and holiness before marriage and in marriage in the bible. Premarital sex or sampling or testing or what ever name or title given to it is utterly bad. If anyone trust and fear GOD that person would keep his commandments. Learn to have faith in God and trust him for marital bliss (I know folks would spite at my words) but DON'T go around sampling a man for his penile size, to the men pls let's abstain from sexual acts till marriage, it pollutes your self. I have dug up some scripture that deals with sex before marriage for us all to go through. They are:

25 BIBLE VERSES ABOUT PREMARITAL SEX

Hebrews 13:4
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let
the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge
the sexually immoral and adulterous.

1 Thessalonians 4:3-5
For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that
you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one
of you know how to control his own body in
holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like
the Gentiles who do not know God;

1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has overtaken you that is not
common to man. God is faithful, and he will not
let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with
the temptation he will also provide the way of
escape, that you may be able to endure it.

1 Corinthians 6:18-20
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a
person commits is outside the body, but the
sexually immoral person sins against his own
body. Or do you not know that your body is a
temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you
have from God? You are not your own, for you
were bought with a price. So glorify God in your
body.

1 Corinthians 7:8-9
To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is
good for them to remain single as I am. But if
they cannot exercise self-control, they should
marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with
passion.

1 Corinthians 7:2
But because of the temptation to sexual
immorality, each man should have his own wife
and each woman her own husband.

Matthew 5:28
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a
woman with lustful intent has already committed
adultery with her in his heart.

Colossians 3:5
Put to death therefore what is earthly in you:
sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire,
and covetousness, which is idolatry.

1 Corinthians 6:9-11
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not
inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived:
neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor
adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,
nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor
revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of
God. And such were some of you. But you were
washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in
the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the
Spirit of our God.

1 Corinthians 6:13
“Food is meant for the stomach and the stomach
for food”—and God will destroy both one and the
other. The body is not meant for sexual
immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the
body.

1 John 1:9
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to
forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all
unrighteousness.

1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a
person commits is outside the body, but the
sexually immoral person sins against his own
body.

Jude 1:7
Just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the
surrounding cities, which likewise indulged in
sexual immorality and pursued unnatural desire,
serve as an example by undergoing a punishment
of eternal fire.

Galatians 5:19
Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual
immorality, impurity, sensuality,

1 Corinthians 6:9-10
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not
inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived:
neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor
adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,
nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor
revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of
God.

1 Corinthians 7:1-5
Now concerning the matters about which you
wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual
relations with a woman.” But because of the
temptation to sexual immorality, each man
should have his own wife and each woman her
own husband. The husband should give to his
wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to
her husband. For the wife does not have authority
over her own body, but the husband does.
Likewise the husband does not have authority
over his own body, but the wife does. Do not
deprive one another, except perhaps by
agreement for a limited time, that you may
devote yourselves to prayer; but then come
together again, so that Satan may not tempt you
because of your lack of self-control.

Exodus 22:16-17
“If a man seduces a virgin who is not betrothed
and lies with her, he shall give the bride-price for
her and make her his wife. If her father utterly
refuses to give her to him, he shall pay money
equal to the bride-price for virgins.

Genesis 2:24
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his
mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall
become one flesh.

Mark 7:20-23
And he said, “What comes out of a person is what
defiles him. For from within, out of the heart of
man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality,
theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness,
deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride,
foolishness. All these evil things come from within,
and they defile a person.”

Acts 15:20
But should write to them to abstain from the
things polluted by idols, and from sexual
immorality, and from what has been strangled,
and from blood.

Ecclesiastes 9:1-18
But all this I laid to heart, examining it all, how
the righteous and the wise and their deeds are in
the hand of God. Whether it is love or hate, man
does not know; both are before him. It is the
same for all, since the same event happens to the
righteous and the wicked, to the good and the
evil, to the clean and the unclean, to him who
sacrifices and him who does not sacrifice. As the
good one is, so is the sinner, and he who swears
is as he who shuns an oath. This is an evil in all
that is done under the sun, that the same event
happens to all. Also, the hearts of the children of
man are full of evil, and madness is in their hearts
while they live, and after that they go to the
dead. But he who is joined with all the living has
hope, for a living dog is better than a dead lion.
For the living know that they will die, but the
dead know nothing, and they have no more
reward, for the memory of them is forgotten. ...

1 Corinthians 6:16
Or do you not know that he who is joined to a
prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it
is written, “The two will become one flesh.”

1 Corinthians 6:15-17
Do you not know that your bodies are members of
Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ
and make them members of a prostitute? Never!
Or do you not know that he who is joined to a
prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it
is written, “The two will become one flesh.” But
he who is joined to the Lord becomes one spirit
with him.

Isaiah 1:1-31
The vision of Isaiah the son of Amoz, which he
saw concerning Judah and Jerusalem in the days
of Uzziah, Jotham, Ahaz, and Hezekiah, kings of
Judah. Hear, O heavens, and give ear, O earth; for
the Lord has spoken: “Children have I reared and
brought up, but they have rebelled against me.
The ox knows its owner, and the donkey its
master's crib, but Israel does not know, my
people do not understand.” Ah, sinful nation, a
people laden with iniquity, offspring of evildoers,
children who deal corruptly! They have forsaken
the Lord, they have despised the Holy One of
Israel, they are utterly estranged. Why will you
still be struck down? Why will you continue to
rebel? The whole head is sick, and the whole
heart faint. ...

Romans 5:20
Now the law came in to increase the trespass, but
where sin increased, grace abounded all the
more


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God has spoken and that is final

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know:

God has spoken and that is final

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Obama had enough sex before meeting Michelle. Look at him now

@jenams I knw u r nt married nd dats y u talk dis way. Anyways poster jst cos pple ve issues wit virgins dosnt mean u wil ve nd jst coz pple dnt ve dnt mean u won't ve so follow ur hrt