Sagamite:

Sagamite:

I agree with everything you say.

What irritates me is when a guy is not interested in a girl anymore and other women (EVEN HIS OWN SISTERS) and their lap-dog real men mugus come and start harassing him like if he was evil and basically demanding he explains himself. Then they will now respond with "Oh you used her", "You are not a nice person", "You did not understand her", "You will regret it, she is a nice girl", "you were the on that was wrong" etc exception is in extreme cases where the guy can prove she cheated. These women and the mugu real men think only women should have the option of dumping someone because they are simply not interested anymore or they are bored of her.

It is what I called collective propagation of self-interest. This is something I would teach my sons about women.

Never listen to women's (especially non-consanguineous ones') opinions about relationships. They are rarely objective. They would tell you what they think would help the women-folk in the long-run, i.e. collective propagation of self-interest, and say it with so much conviction even if it is not true.

Collective propagation of self-interest works in a way whereby if enough women can do their bit in convincing any man that comes their way to, for example, think in such a way of putting women's interest above his own interests but women don't have to think vice-versa, then in general, many women would benefit from indirect sources (i.e. not necessarily the direct men they brainwashed). E.g. convincing men that a real man would do blah blah blah and then enough men starts doing blah blah blah. Women are subconsciously proficient in this technique. They are champions if you are not a nigga clued on to it.

Subomi-luv:
I am glad you agree with me and you do have a point to an extent, but the same thing happens to woman too. Other women including family and friends will convince a lady not to break up with a guy because he is a good guy, he has done a lot for her perhaps(even the guy expects her not to leave him cos of same reason), they will tell her she would not find a nice guy again etc, the devil you know is better than the angel you dnt know, all men are the same, Men are like this and that etc.

In fact i feel it's worse of for a woman because other woman will be more in favor towards the guy then her(even in cases of cheating or abuse, it's other women convincing her not to leave), then men will start to call her names like a Bitch etc when a woman does what a guy does.

Truth is unfortunately it seems like the good girls end up with the bad guys and the good guys end up with the bad girls. I do not believe a man or a woman should be forced to stay with someone out of pity or because it is the "right thing to do". We have only heard his version and there are two sides to a story. I know it can be very difficult breaking up with someone so you would prefer to rather "act different/change so that the other partner would rather break up with him/her. Like i said before, there was some signs that she showed which he ignored and i do not know the whole story that went down between them so i cant really speak about her. It's kinda funny how most men will shout Feminism and get all aggro about it, but you are getting praised on what you have just said which sounds kind of Misogynistic to a certain degree.

2s£xy:
My take is: Never take any girl seriouse until it seem she is REALLY interested in you.

Don't give her what you can't afford to lose, even if she ask for it at death point!

Give what you know you can afford to give a fellow guy like you who is in need; in other words treat her as equal as a fellow dude. After all, we are all humans; non is above the other.

Tolutheo:

I wish i saw dis 2 months ago

2s£xy:
Baba saga, another mumuni just been slaughtered

fr3ddi3:
Oga...this is the only part I understand from your philosophical write-up

And please, be eazy with the coaching on your son(remember that witches still exist).

sh@dow-w@lker:


E be like say you be MUMUNI hunter abi?....dey show yourself, yeye fowl.

2s£xy:
Bros, wetin you want make I do na. I don turn crusader by force and the only place you see me post/comment on this section, with concerted effort, is in threads like this.

Me sef suffer nau.

Won fi oju mi ri mabo.

But the fool came back to beg after them don fvck life out of her. She nor even good again.

A very selfish being who said: 'I would have like us to continue but I am scared you may use it against me.'

you see am? She deal with me but no want experience d same thing she do me.

Anyways, age no dey her side again and guys no dey show her face... na so devil dey punish them.

sh@dow-w@lker:
Bros......I don't have any other choice than to survive now , but my tenure don pass since. Na my guys e dey happen to, and e dey pain me. But funny enough, I think a lot of guys have experienced such from ladies. We plenty like cockroach!!

They don't know that their last minute action always discredits all their good attitude/action during the relationship, and the most annoying part is when you finally try to move on, they'll claim they still want to retain the "FRIENDSHIP". Why didn't they put that into consideration before acting up in the first place?....making the guy lose all the respect and trust he once had for her. Or who would want to make friends with someone that will tell a lie straight to your face? (For me...........that's my biggest turn-off). That's kind of childish.


But still on the matter; I want to hear people's opinion especially the ladies on why they prefer that style of breaking up.

sh@dow-w@lker:
Bros......I don't have any other choice than to survive now , but my tenure don pass since. Na my guys e dey happen to, and e dey pain me. But funny enough, I think a lot of guys have experienced such from ladies. We plenty like cockroach!!

They don't know that their last minute action always discredits all their good attitude/action during the relationship, and the most annoying part is when you finally try to move on, they'll claim they still want to retain the "FRIENDSHIP". Why didn't they put that into consideration before acting up in the first place?....making the guy lose all the respect and trust he once had for her. Or who would want to make friends with someone that will tell a lie straight to your face? (For me...........that's my biggest turn-off). That's kind of childish.


But still on the matter; I want to hear people's opinion especially the ladies on why they prefer that style of breaking up.

sh@dow-w@lker:

Now you talking!!

I know for a fact that every prof in relationship matters must have experienced heartbreak several times......to a point where NOTHING scares them anymore. Their heart has tranformed form Flesh to Leather(kpomo), and "Emotion" is a word that doesn't EXIST in their vocabulary.

Its all good sha , coz I experienced a similar thing. IT IS WELL

stint:


I love you guy(not gay things!.). This is exactly what my ex did to me. too many lies! she later found that she loved me more than the other guy at the end and apologised. I accepted but the trust had died, the relationship basically 'imploded' after that due to lack of trust. How can i love you if i can't trust you?
Things would have good differently if she was honest and broke up with me, so that when she comes back, i would be sure she is being honest too.

2s£xy:
Lol.. You never even learn. Who told you the bold text is what really happened? Tah... Here is the truth: She later found out the other guy didn't love her like you did... Hence the need to come back you.

My own ex did same thing. After 3 years of fvcking d oda dude(yup she told me, thinking I am still the old fool I was and would gullibly accept her). When the guy was done, dey silently ended it because the relationship was heading no where. Na just so so fvck.

Meanwhile, that wasn't the case when she was with me. I had prospects, though much younger than the other dude which made her feel his age was a determinant for marriage. She didn't know there were a lot of old fools who just like to play with girls.

And the next thing she would say is :'you don't call or text me like you use to' 'what about the plans you had for us' your father...

I also think she lied about that too. She probably just said it's been only that guy so as not to look sluty.
Make I stop here jare...

2s£xy:
Eyah... Sorry. Just take heart and learn from what happened. Trust me, no other girl will ever succeed at trashing again. That's the benefit of what we get.

Googel: 'how to maintain and control a woman' and a nairaland result will pop at u. Click through and read it from beginning to the end and your life will soar thereafter.

Tolutheo:

Thanks bro

stint:
whatever the case, i have told her to keep her distance. i can't be friends with her self. Its time to concentrate on my own life intensively.

Sagamite:

Once my sons are 18, I am going to tell them to call a maximum of 5 of their closest friends to all report to my house and I would give them a 3-day, four-hours-a-day masterclass on how to relate, treat and deal with girls.

I would give them the inner secrets on what women are like and are looking for based on things that includes the girls' looks, culture, age range/life stage (15-18, 18-24 etc), initial interest in a guy and what the guy has to offer. My masterclass would be full of charts and psychological tools.

One of the most important sessions is the one on hot girls (i.e. based on looks). They would learn young hot girls don't like good boys and I would teach them how to be the type of guy young hot girls want and how to smack the shyt out of these girls. They must learn the when to "Stop giving a shyt at the right moment!" approaches to different types of girls, so they never lose out.

I would have studied all the boys' personalities and body language before the masterclass, so on the first day, I would be handing them a short self-profile telling them the most likely outcome of their interaction with babes (just to blow their mind because they will be like "this is fcking true; this is how girls have been treating me" and then on the last day, I would tell them what they need to change in their approach to women to always get what they want.

Give them 3 to 6 months to go explore my advice and test my tools and then come and reply back to me how the life coaching has worked and what else they want to learn deeper.

WackyJ1:
Sagamite i need your trainin course. Can it be done online.. I wanna take the fight to them.. To become Dynamite...

Good Girl: Lmao @ Sagamite. Hey, can my sons enroll in your classes too?

Anyhoo, @ topic, I think it goes both ways. It's not a unique case with women only. Matter of fact, I have heard worse tales from women.

Mynd_44: You are bold enough to date a guy for a number of times. In that time, he takes you out (he pays) he sends you airtime, you enjoy his company and suddenly you think he is a monster that might slap you if you tell him it is over?

Please define silliness

Monicasque: at least ladies act up and creat lies what about men? because they will string the poor lady along all in the name of not knowing how to end thing then the poor soul will only find out that she was dumped a long time ago when she hears that you are getting married to some girl tomorrow

Monicasque: at least ladies act up and creat lies what about men? because they will string the poor lady along all in the name of not knowing how to end thing then the poor soul will only find out that she was dumped a long time ago when she hears that you are getting married to some girl tomorrow

Booty butt chic: dats y as a woman u av 2 knw were ur relationship is goin,aw tins are runnin,u shld be able 2 see d red card urself if a guy doesn't like u again...u don't av 2 hold on 2 his apron string till he tells u to go 2 hell in a way he knows best.

2s£xy:
God bless you. It's espected that as a lady, you should know the trajectory(lemme borrow the physics term) and projection of a relationship. I don't know if many girls just don't have the courage to ask or discuss things with their bofy.

Many don't even know how to handle a relationship...

2s£xy:
God bless you. It's espected that as a lady, you should know the trajectory(lemme borrow the physics term) and projection of a relationship. I don't know if many girls just don't have the courage to ask or discuss things with their bofy.

Many don't even know how to handle a relationship...

sh@dow-w@lker:
So my thread isn't dead yet?......choi

I can see some female derailers, turning my simple question into an arguement.

I'mma leave you in the hands of Sagamite.

2s£xy:
Eyah... Sorry. Just take heart and learn from what happened. Trust me, no other girl will ever succeed at trashing again. That's the benefit of what we get.

Googel: 'how to maintain and control a woman' and a nairaland result will pop at u. Click through and read it from beginning to the end and your life will soar thereafter.