The "It's not you, it's me." line isn't the most ridiculous one men came up with to break up with us. There's lots more where that came from!

I've just put together a list of 20 Ridiculous Break Up Phrases from Men I've ever heard of and my translation of what they really mean!

Have you heard even better ones than these? Please share them with me and we'll complete this list together!

1. "I'M JUST NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW, BUT IF I WERE... YOU'D BE THE ONE!"

aka:"I'm still not ready to spend the rest of my life sleeping with one person, but if I were, it might be you."

2. "I STILL REALLY CARE ABOUT YOU."

aka: "... Just not enough to really date you or spend much time with you. But I still care!"

3. "I'D LOVE TO STILL BE FRIENDS AND HANG OUT AFTER ALL THIS."

aka: "Can you hook me up with your hot friends after you get over me dumping you?"

4. REALLY NEED TO FOCUS ON (FILL IN THE BLANK... SCHOOL, JOB, GOD, WHATEVER) RIGHT NOW."

aka: "I don't think you'll take this break-up well, but you can't argue with this one."

5. "I'M MOVING TO A FOREIGN COUNTRY, BUT I'LL CALL YOU WHEN I GET BACK."

aka: "I've got to get away from you, fast!"

6. "YOU CAN DO SO MUCH BETTER THAN ME!"

aka: "And I know I can do so much better than you!"

7. IT HAS BEEN SO GREAT GETTING TO KNOW YOU, BUT I THINK WE NEED TO SPEND TIME WITH OTHER PEOPLE."

aka: "I've already met someone I'd rather spend more time with."

8. "I'VE GOT A FEAR OF COMMITMENT."

aka: "I've got a fear of being tied to you for life!"

9. "I'M FEELING SMOTHERED, AND I JUST NEED TO GET SOME SPACE."

aka: "You're way too in my business, too fast - I am ready to get you out."

10. "THE GUY WHO MARRIES YOU IS SO LUCKY!"

aka: "I just hope I'm not that lucky!"

11. "I THINK WE NEED TO SEE OTHER PEOPLE AND JUST SEE WHAT HAPPENS."

aka: "I'm already sleeping with someone else, and I'm just telling you this before you find out."

12. "I STILL WANT TO BE WITH YOU, BUT I JUST WANT TO TAKE A BREAK."

aka: "I want to try sleeping around, but keep you close in case I can't find anyone else."

13. I'VE GOT A LOT OF ISSUES I NEED TO WORK ON RIGHT NOW."

aka: "My main issue is that I'm just not that into you."

14. "I FEEL LIKE YOU'RE MORE OF A FRIEND THAN A GIRLFRIEND TO ME."

aka: "You're just not as cute as you were when we started dating."

15. "I JUST NEED SOMETHING MORE."

aka: "I'm not sure what more is, but I'm kind of bored, and this line sounds really convincing."

16. "I'M STILL NOT OVER MY EX."

aka: Ouch. This one's probably true.

17. "I WISH WE'D MET FIVE YEARS FROM NOW INSTEAD."

aka: "I'm really not that mature right now, but I probably will be in five years, and then I could've made a great boyfriend/husband!"

18. "WE'RE JUST IN TOTALLY DIFFERENT PLACES IN OUR LIVES!"

aka: "I'm in this place called I Want to Go Out Drinking, Partying, and Sleeping Around, and you're in this place called Let's Settle Down, and those two places don't fit well together."

19. "I JUST RESPECT YOU SO MUCH."

aka: "Please don't tell your friends I'm a jerk, because I might want to date some of them."

20. "I THINK WE GOT TOO CLOSE, TOO FAST."

aka: "When you put your toothbrush beside mine in the bathroom, that really freaked me out."

Post in the comments and let me know the worst ones you've heard of!

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Ok I guess a women will not say anything like this. They just follow the new superman while the one she was once all over is left in wonderland. I think men's ways of breaking up is better, then.

lol, are a guy. share the ones you have heard from women nah..This is basically from a woman's point of view

OP, you are trying o.
Are you talking from experience?

Hey, Girls say nothing or very few things. Actions speak louder than voice. In their cases you hear things like:

Mike, meet my cousin Chinedu from Abeokuta. So tell me how chinedu can be from abeokuta unless u still need someone to tell u that u re out.

Very true @op

Poster,women use these lines too.

mine went like this yesterday after two good years of a blissful relationship,i noticed she was consciously avoiding me and asked her about it and this was her response

woman :i love you but i really need to be alone right now, i need to think things through cos our relationship is so complicated.

addictiv: k how long should i wait for you to make up you mind?

woman: i dont know, i just want to be alone for sometime


addictiv: i want to see you

woman:no i cant see you,i want to be by myself

addictiv:can i call you

woman:yes feel free to call me anytime

please translate this for me cos me isnt thinking straight ryt now

Tolexander: OP, you are trying o.
Are you talking from experience?

one doesn't need to experience it to know! no?. i believe in learning from other people's mistakes...Even though i do make some myself

addictiv: mine went like this yesterday after two good years of a blissful relationship,i noticed she was consciously avoiding me and asked her about it and this was her response

woman :i love you but i really need to be alone right now, i need to think things through cos our relationship is so complicated.

addictiv: k how long should i wait for you to make up you mind?

woman: i dont know, i just want to be alone for sometime


addictiv: i want to see you

woman:no i cant see you,i want to be by myself

addictiv:can i call you

woman:yes feel free to call me anytime

please translate this for me cos me isnt thinking straight ryt now

errrrhm In my opinion dude! u been dumped!!!

Eeeeyaa
@ OP
Sorryy ooo
Men r wicked sha!!!

Lmao! This is so true. I made use of no.1 last week.

"Babe, I'm going to bring you nothing but trouble. My life is too complicated"

That line is what I use. It never fails.

I am Not ready

Well I ve used'' I need some space''
''we got close too fast''
''You deserve someone better''

Lwkm4h

uniqueval: oh yeah! wld you rather prefer a "non-ridiculous" phrase like...

•Sorry babe, you damn ugly, you kiss terribly, dress horribly. I got myself a hottie

•You and I are one heck of an incompatible couple. I wonder how we lasted a whole day

•I always thot you were the girl of my dreams, in reality, you've been my worse nightmare

•Cmon don't tell me you dint see this coming. Itz over!

if these phrases are ridiculous, what do you guys wanna hear?

Or if GO̶̶̷̲̥̩̥̅̊͡D want Us T̶̲̥̅̊o be husband & wife

Let me prepare a ROBUST REPLY!

At least men have a heart and try to provide a soft landing..even if its a lie.

Women on the other hand...hmm....leave story.

I love my mom so i got to spend quality time with her

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This is one thing u have no control OVER.!!!
Never be sad if someone prefers another over you....... its always difficult to convince a monkey that strawberry is sweeter than banana..!

I HAVE GIVEN MY LIFE TO CHRIST...... SO I WANT TO TRACE MY WAY BACK SPIRITUALLY.

''You boiled the wrong eggs''

Must I comment?

Our pastor said U and I ar nt compatible spiritually......women's style