Pls how do i convince my 23yr old boyfriend to let marrie? I love my boyfriend so much i cnt wait for us to be together and i cnt stp thinking about having a baby nw too. I hate premarital sex my conscience warns me against it.

Oh dearie, marriage is not all that it seems. Have you considered your education? The implications of taking care of a child? Are u sure ur boyfriend sees the relationship that way? How financially stable you are right now? Believe me its not something you just jump into. Pls have a rethink to avoid have I known.

I went through ur profile and I got to know that you are thinking about this because the situation in ur home. Pls try to live with it as you better off than most girls, atleast till u get to ur twenties.

if its sex you want...then get yourself fvcked...at 23, he still has alot to think of...

Hummmmmm

I hope ASUU isn't a reason for this decision?
Why the haste anyway, you got your life ahead of you.

nadia_SA: Hummmmmm

I'll send u pm on how to make him marry u ok.. I'm 19 nd my man 25. It worked for me hope it will work for u too..

Ok ..
Hope u know what u getting urslf into..

what is she geting into?

nadia_SA: Hummmmmm

I'll send u pm on how to make him marry u ok.. I'm 19 nd my man 25. It worked for me hope it will work for u too..

Ok ..
Hope u know what u getting urslf into..

don't think u should encourage her....it worked for u doesn't mean its gonna work for her, humans are a bag of emotions and complexities...even with d end-goal being d same (marriage), the different variables involved could make your techs back-fire so bad that she may wanna blame u...



seriously though, your man's 25 n probably didn't have much reservations bout settling @ that age...
but @23 (which is still kinda young in the male world), this dude could still have so much on his mind to accomplish before getting married.



lastly, I think the op wants to get married for the wrong reasons-to have sex and procreate- without caring for the other major points that one should think of when planning for marriage.

nadia_SA: Hummmmmm

I'll send u pm on how to make him marry u ok.. I'm 19 nd my man 25. It worked for me hope it will work for u too..

Ok ..
Hope u know what u getting urslf into..

Are you married? *shock* its a lie.

I blame ASUU! So many sick topics making front page these days. Now,another person has come,looking for advice on how to make her guy marry her! What sick mentality! You think marriage is that easy as it appear on the surface? Pls,try and look deeper. It ain't easy,and believe me at your age,you are not 100% fit to marry,because the responsibility would be too much,that after one year,you would start crying to leave the marriage. Marriage are for matured,well-prepared adults. Your boyfriend,isn't of age. He ain't financially secured as at now.

Ehya sorry my dear, Na ASUU n fg cause dis?

O.p take a deep breath and relax.It is obvious you are emotional about this dilemma but your well being is paramount here.To be honest, your buobou can't marry you as there are too many bridges to cross before then.Why don't you suspend the ragin emotions, get about improvin yourself,abilities and talents.If your boubou notices your effort,he just make you his forever.Cheers.

OlamiB: Pls how do i convince my 23yr old boyfriend to let marrie? I love my boyfriend so much i cnt wait for us to be together and i cnt stp thinking about having a baby nw too. I hate premarital sex my conscience warns me against it.

this one just start life, you never see anything. I go soon turn you.

y-fo:


don't think u should encourage her....it worked for u doesn't mean its gonna work for her, humans are a bag of emotions and complexities...even with d end-goal being d same (marriage), the different variables involved could make your techs back-fire so bad that she may wanna blame u...



seriously though, your man's 25 n probably didn't have much reservations bout settling @ that age...
but @23 (which is still kinda young in the male world), this dude could still have so much on his mind to accomplish before getting married.



lastly, I think the op wants to get married for the wrong reasons-to have sex and procreate- without caring for the other major points that one should think of when planning for marriage.

Itz you who shouldbt discourage her, it what she wanna do, she is not under 18 which means she is responsible for her decisions, what she need is how to convince her guy to marry her

And they all think they know so much about marriage, because you can't take the responsibility of marriage doesn't mean others aint ready to.

OP I do not think you are too young for marriage, if U are ready then go for it, I pray it works out for you

Obinnau: I went through ur profile and I got to know that you are thinking about this because the situation in ur home. Pls try to live with it as you better off than most girls, atleast till u get to ur twenties.

what kind of home situation? And which profile?

awwww i read her last post 2.. sorry bae!! by the way...he is 23...most guys dnt wanna marry dah early, does he ve a job? naaa i doubt it. chill yo, ur case aint the worst scenario, other dnt even v a dad 2 giv dem anything,! control dem emotionz talk wiv ur guy, if hes ready go ahead..if he aint den dnt force a niccur 2 d altar!!!!

*if ur bf no gree m ready 4 marriage ehn! come marry me...am only 18yrs old, a working class, rich,, have a duplex in lekki, ve 5 state of the art car!! holla @me #okbye

OlamiB: what kind of home situation? And which profile?

were u not the person that wrote this=>

OlamiB: How Do I Cope With A Rich But Very Stingy Dad?by OlamiB:12:53pmOnSep 03
My dad is what you will call a typical stingy man, its nt as if he is not rich, I would have understood that i came to this world through a poor man if he is poor, but my dad is rich nd people see my as 'omo baba olowo' even wen they dnt know what i pass through bfr he gives me money. The only thing he pays attention to is my school fee, even tho he sometimes grumble bfr he pays, I attended a public scul during my seconday school time, so he didnt pay more than 1,500 per term. I alwayz go broke at home especially during break up to the extent of stealing his money because i know if i ask on a normal day he wunt give me. My mum is an housewife to make matters worst! She is tired of him too. I just wish i could get pregnant so i would leave the house for him, i prefer to live in my bfs house and suffer there than to stay with my dad nd still be suffering He is a kind of dad his daughters wont pray to have as an husband. Please how do i cope with him? He wants us to work day and night for him but cnt give us nofin in return! To buy recharge card, do my hair, buy cloth, slippers is a vewi big problem for me! He only gives us 10,000 for christmas cloth through the year nd nothing more till the next december. How do i cope pls? Am 18, maybe I should just get married

baibijay:

Itz you who shouldbt discourage her, it what she wanna do, she is not under 18 which means she is responsible for her decisions, what she need is how to convince her guy to marry her

and she's still just a teen....though I believe girls can marry early (not this early), how bout her significant other...the dude is just 23 and u want him to settle down when he hasn't fully matured.

I'm not married and have no experience with it, if u wanna support her...fine. I have a different view and feel she should concentrate on more important things now as she's trying to get married so as to enjoy priviledges that come with marriage, rather than looking at it from a holistic view and understanding the full weight of her decision.

Obinnau: were u not the person that wrote this=>

niccur who send u... she send u..Nigerians sha

nadia_SA: Hummmmmm

I'll send u pm on how to make him marry u ok.. I'm 19 nd my man 25. It worked for me hope it will work for u too..

Ok ..
Hope u know what u getting urslf into..

huh!!! Nadia re u married??

I would have said
'Book Before Boys bla bla bla...'

But ASUU no give me mouth talk.

Dearie, please slow down... Take a deep breath and think about it.

personally I c Nothing wrong in ur wish... but like other posters have said... wat about ur bf? is he independent? wat of his family? (his position and status in d family matters a lot )...even u... av u discussed ds with either of ur parents? its true u re legally mature for marriage... but there are so many factors that can't be overlooked. however ignore dose who are saying u re too young or ur bf is too young... maturity is not age...it is d state of mind. discuss it with ur bf and preferably ur mum... u aren't too young... though marriage is not a bed of roses...every marriage has its own challenges.. u ve got to be emotionally prepared... my opinion tho

Obinnau: were u not the person that wrote this=>

nah! My dad is rich and nice, even if he is stingy i cn neva come here to discuss it. He just gave me 5k for pocket money....i share this acc wit a frnd

Obinnau: were u not the person that wrote this=>

nah. I share this acc with a frnd

Madam 'marrie' when u r able to spell n write correctly, then i will tell u.

wasak: personally I c Nothing wrong in ur wish... but like other posters have said... wat about ur bf? is he independent? wat of his family? (his position and status in d family matters a lot )...even u... av u discussed ds with either of ur parents? its true u re legally mature for marriage... but there are so many factors that can't be overlooked. however ignore dose who are saying u re too young or ur bf is too young... maturity is not age...it is d state of mind. discuss it with ur bf and preferably ur mum... u aren't too young... though marriage is not a bed of roses...every marriage has its own challenges.. u ve got to be emotionally prepared... my opinion tho

tnks dear

drnairalov: awwww i read her last post 2.. sorry bae!! by the way...he is 23...most guys dnt wanna marry dah early, does he ve a job? naaa i doubt it. chill yo, ur case aint the worst scenario, other dnt even v a dad 2 giv dem anything,! control dem emotionz talk wiv ur guy, if hes ready go ahead..if he aint den dnt force a niccur 2 d altar!!!!

*if ur bf no gree m ready 4 marriage ehn! come marry me...am only 18yrs old, a working class, rich,, have a duplex in lekki, ve 5 state of the art car!! holla @me #okbye

tnks

nadia_SA: Hummmmmm

I'll send u pm on how to make him marry u ok.. I'm 19 nd my man 25. It worked for me hope it will work for u too..

Ok ..
Hope u know what u getting urslf into..

i wil be expecting

Husband security

D idea is good. In as much as u re not ready for marriage but want to keep God's law of no sex b4 marriage, our God will help u. Even those who have many thing wen they got married, still are not happy in their marriage showing its has no solid foundation. Have God, have love for him, talk it with him, speak with ur parents and other mature ppl, and don't forget to rely on God and tell him ur wish of marriage and sexual relations. He will help u. Refuse to give in to do it outside marriage. Thanks

You are too young for that. Get educated first. There is a time and place for everything. If you really are meant to be together then waiting will not change anything.