Nigerian with their mentality of 'marriage be the all in all of a woman'

It is well o!

Op, come and update us on your choice

LMAO. See all my "e-nemies" fighting each other

jennykadry: LMAO. See all my "e-nemies" fighting each other

na wa o

uchetobi: I'm married, the unmarried ones are envying me
I have kids, the ones without are envying me
I had normal delivery the ones that had cs are envying me

God really need to deliver a lot of Nigerian women from these mentality!

Life is not a competition and believe it or not some people's life do not revolve around answering 'Mrs'

Neither is it a competition of whose children got into sec school first or got married first! Jeez

Its not a race or 'first/ winner takes all'

I was at the gym in 2009 and two women got into a fight and the next thing we heard was 'that's why you are not married' shuooooo! Marriage don turn badge..the other woman she was abusing was even married, she just doesnt wear her ring to exercise


Coming from someone happily married for almost two years and still in a honeymoon phase self! Breathe in and out...your unmarried friends are not coveting your life....even the bible says it in ecclesiastics..there is time and a season for everything.

The fact that their time hasn't come yet doesn't mean they envy u or covet ur life or that you are even better than them

Just exactly what I wanted to type.

It is not easy. you have to be very strong if you want to marry as an undergraduate.I got married in 100L my husband is in another state and I gave birth in 200L and pregnant for second baby in final year. it is not easy at all when my mate will be going for night and extra class I will always run home to my baby.no time for myself at all,while eating am reading,while breast feeding am reading,cooking am reading.I alway av the feeling that am lacking behind but during examination and after I do come out fine.I made second class upper in Economics.you will av to sacrifice alot

My dear is not easy ooo, I suggest u postpone d wedding till wen in level 300, at least by den sch stress don reduce small

mamalette:
Am 23. Got admission to school quite late. Am in 200 level presently. My boify is stable financially and hez been asking that we get married soonest. However, he stays in lag while I school outside lag. Am worried, how wld he cope while am away? And is it advisable that I get married while in school? Thanks!

Congratulations mamalette.

Getting married in 200L is quite early, its better to wait till your final year.