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10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Untill Marriage by wandevincent(m): 12:04pm On Sep 26, 2013
1. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if
not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is
the most powerful creative force given to
man. When atomic power is used correctly it
can create boundless energy; when it is used
in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the
same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift
from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to
help in creating a deep companionship with
one's spouse and for procreation of the next
generation. But if you play with this powerful
force outside the bounds of marriage, it
destroys you and those close to you.
2. Sexual activity for young people arrests their
psychological, social and academic
development. Studies show that when
young people engage in premarital sex, their
academic performance declines and their
social relationships with family and friends
deteriorate. This is because adolescents are
too immature to deal with the explosive sex
drive and it tends to dominate their life.
3. The majority of women cannot enjoy sex
outside of the bonds of marriage. The
development of a fulfilling sex life needs the
security and peace of the marriage bond.
Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking
around in hidden places dealing with the
fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy
and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome)
factors undermine pleasure in premarital
sex, most especially for women.
4. Virginity is to be given to the most important
person in your life, the person you
committed yourself to stay with forever in
marriage. Your virginity is the most precious
thing you have to give to your spouse. Once
you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it
back. Don't lose something so precious in a
thoughtless way.
5. Those who engage in premarital sex run a
high risk of contracting one of the many
venereal diseases rampant today, as well as
losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other
common disfiguring diseases like herpes
have no cure.
6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms
and many couples discover many years later
that they became infertile because of these
diseases. Infertility experts estimate that
80% of today's infertility is due to venereal
diseases contracted before they married.
7. The best and only method that guarantees
100% against AIDS and other sexually
transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage
to have sex and maintain fidelity in your
marriage.
8. Premarital sex breaks the 10
Commandments given by God. The 10
Commandments are given to man by God to
make man happy. They are not outdated
and they are not restrictive. If we follow
these laws, we can create happy and
prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we
will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease,
abortions, illegitimate children and
loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake
when they think that they can break these
eternal laws and not suffer consequences.
9. Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving
illegitimate children. Numerous scientific
studies show that the children of single
mothers suffer psychologically and are less
successful socially and academically than
children from intact families. Above all,
children need both their father and their
mother. It is wrong to risk having children
who will never have their father's love,
protection and care.
10. If you date and you don't have sex, you can
forget about that relationship when you stop
dating. But if you have sex with those you
date and then break up, the nature of sexual
involvement creates strong, often
unpleasant memories for your whole life.
Every relationship you break up where you
had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce.
The psychological difficulties of these mini-
divorces does damage to your character.
Later, when you are married and go to bed
with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant
memories will accompany you.
True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you,
they will want the best for you. They will not want
you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy
and the psychological difficulties of premarital
sex. They will want to experience love with you
only in the very best place of all - the love nest of
marriage.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Untill Marriage by kennybelle: 12:31pm On Sep 26, 2013
Wish everyone could reason along with the op
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Untill Marriage by saintneo(m): 12:53pm On Sep 26, 2013
No 9

The one to fear most.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Untill Marriage by Iaz93: 12:58pm On Sep 26, 2013
No. 2 - Not true

If I marry virgin, then I'm dead sexually. angry
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Untill Marriage by Nobody: 2:06pm On Sep 26, 2013
Iaz93: No. 2 - Not true

If I marry virgin, then I'm dead. angry
Y?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Untill Marriage by wandevincent(m): 2:33pm On Sep 26, 2013
Miz Ritz: Y?
help me ask o
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Untill Marriage by Nobody: 2:43pm On Sep 26, 2013
Now this article is so rich. Thanks OP.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Untill Marriage by wandevincent(m): 3:04pm On Sep 26, 2013
idnoble135: Now this article is so rich. Thanks OP.
you'r welcome, God bless
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Untill Marriage by switdil(f): 3:06pm On Sep 26, 2013
So on point
Tnks OP
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Untill Marriage by Odunharry(m): 3:23pm On Sep 26, 2013
nice 1
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Untill Marriage by Nikkyparadise(m): 3:25pm On Sep 26, 2013
@OP na pple lyk u d spoil dos girls mind...... Nd u go d Bleep wela,u go com d tel us mak we no do. undecided
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Untill Marriage by wandevincent(m): 3:35pm On Sep 26, 2013
Nikky-paradise:
@OP na pple lyk u d spoil dos girls mind...... Nd u go d Bleep wela,u go com d tel us mak we no do. undecided
Go get a life, u'r too raw
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Untill Marriage by Nobody: 3:41pm On Sep 26, 2013
wandevincent: Go get a life, u'r too raw
Wow! Wow! Wow!

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