Suppose na the woman drive d bobo outside coz of her nagging or maybe she dey even deny the bobo sex.We are being one sided on this issue and it is not fair.Let´s look at it the other way round too

swing4real,

swing4real:

Suppose na the woman drive d bobo outside because of her nagging or maybe she dey even deny the bobo sex.We are being one sided on this issue and it is not fair.Let´s look at it the other way round too

dont take d discussion outta the cocoon we were weaved to talk abt. the topic n discuss is clear, lets not digress too far away from the issue at hand.

Though it has happened but as human the wife must remember how good the husband was.We dont pray for such thing but whenever it happened,it does not mean she should run into another man cos men are like that.She cannot get a perfect husband, she must have to tolerate one or two things from the husband. For me,l cannot be happy to join another man immediately.

4geting the man will not be as easy as most of you are saying. we should all work towards it not happening to us.

lets face fact ladies, am a married woman nd i love my hubby i only pray such a thing does not happen to me or any one i know, men will always be men, they cheat nd lie all the time nd we know it .only 2% of them are faithfull so if such a thing shuld happen u take heart nd give him his dues by burying him the way he be buried if not for any reason for the sake of the children cos when they r grown up they will not forgive u if u do the wrong thing. and God will not hold anything against u, and u see that ur life will be smooth and free from sorrows!! MEN wat can we do we need them in our lives.

well said jesse ose, yours was the best real post from the lots. Let us live in a real world, if a man is destined to die that way, it is not necessarily from a woman outside, it could even be from his wife or wives. It is not a big deal that a man die while with a woman, or even in an hotel room. Suppose he was tricked with a woman, suppose he was raped by a woman, suppose he was forced on a woman, it could be anything apart from the fact that he wilfully went with a woman, that reason is only one reason out of so many reason a man will die in an hotel room. Are the women lots saying that, they expect men to do the same thing if they found their wife dead in an hotel room. For God's sake, it could be be any reason, not on the part of the wife. Always respect the dead, unless of course the culprit come forward to say the truth, and in that case too, caution must be taken, because an adversary, can cook up cock and bull story just to nail someone reputation. May God delivered men from the problem associated with "put it in and withdraw it" (Katibo, kayo) Got the drift?

@Topic

that is such a sad scenerio. I pray it never happens to me in jesus' name amen.

eva heard of d sitcom 'desperate housewives', well d character 'Bree' invited all frends n family 2 d funeral but d site was nothin 2 write home bout, of cos in naija u'd simply cutout b4 ur inlaws get 2 u, a cheap goodbye 2him n a funky welcom bac 2ha   is wat i say, move on gal!!!!!!!!

eva heard of d sitcom 'desperate housewives', well d character 'Bree' invited all frends n family 2 d funeral but d site was nothin 2 write home bout, of course in naija u'd simply cutout b4 ur inlaws get 2 u, a cheap goodbye 2him n a funky welcom bac 2ha   is wat i say, move on gal!!!!!!!!

its a pity to the woman,it has happen so their is no solution.afterall he use what he like to gain his desarvation. let her go ahead for another if she like.

It's a pity that young women in Nigeria love to sleep with married men,
but when they are older, they don't want their own husbands to sleep around.

Abi o! seun!
I dont know why he should sleep around if they had sleep with married men as single young girls!

_{thats what he gets for cheating}

Seun:

It's a pity that young women in Nigeria love to sleep with married men,
but when they are older, they don't want their own husbands to sleep around.

From experience, young women will sleep with married men if he can take care of their needs. You can only blame young women who lacks nothing but still prefer to sleep with a married man. Most young women that I know that dont care to sleep with married women do so because they help them objectively in return, not just for sleeping sake. No young women like to sleep with a married man, just for the fun of it.

Whether U r sleeping for the fun of it or for the work of it, the fact still remains that U are sleeping with somebody's husband. It is not justifiable

Excatly .No excuse is good enough!
And you would be suprised how obsess some young girls get.

(I remember a doctor long ago in school-we meet again at my cousin's birthday and was just catching up on past years.
He sound happy with his maried and all.But the funny thing is that so-called girlfriend almost chew me raw even after that day.She is always asking my cousin if she thinks i would go and see the guy)

-my question what should the wife do or the other girls cos she certainly cant be the only one!?!

What the ??

I would be raging mad and then wonder why and cry but in the end, when i am HEALED emotionally, i'll get myself a better, sexier, (infact all the qualities he lacked) MAN.

From Heaven, Hell or Wherever, he would see what he's missing and will not be able to do anything. Yeah

right on gurl!!

Just hope and pray

I pray it happens to all the women on this site who do not give god all their attention.

deathadder:

I pray it happens to all the women on this site who do not give god all their attention.

You like attention dont you? Inbred prat

deathadder:

I pray it happens to all the women on this site who do not give god all their attention.

What a jerk!!!!!!!! Even using ''g'' for God! Illiterate ass.

I pray it happens to all the women on this site who do not give god all their attention

why would u say that _idiot

deathadder:

I pray it happens to all the women on this site who do not give god all their attention.

That will not happen to me in Jesus Name (Amen) and it will not happen to anyone on this site in Jesus Name.

You've got nothing sensible to say. Do you wish that upon yaself?. God is not a bad God, He loves us so much and does not allow evil to befall us his children/ creatures.

If you actually mean 'god' i Pray you will experience 'God'.

Seriously, think before you open your mouth or use your finger.

As a man think so is he, you're evil.

Tell him ooooooo

OpeLovely:

What a jerk!!!!!!!! Even using ''g'' for God! Illiterate ass.

Listen before you accuse anyone else of being illiterate you punk!

If you are quoting you use this symbol '. However you used speech marks. Check your 8-11yrs Englist text book!

deathadder:

Listen before you accuse anyone else of being illiterate you punk!

If you are quoting you use this symbol '. However you used speech marks. Check your 8-11yrs Englist text book!

Do as your name says. He-goat,

hmmmm


next!

go meet ya own people where you no go yawn again
yeye

@ Deathadder, i hope the adder really stings you in the eye, you bloody slowpoke. If you knew so much about the English language, then you wouldn't have used a small letter word for God.

I suggest you see a psychiatrist and have your mentally derailed brain checked. Boys like you, need serious growing-up to do. Idiot!!!!

OpeLovely:

@ Deathadder, i hope the adder really stings you in the eye, you bloody slowpoke. If you knew so much about the English language, then you wouldn't have used a small letter word for God.

I suggest you see a psychiatrist and have your mentally derailed brain checked. Boys like you, need serious growing-up to do. Idiot!!!!

Thanks, your comments have been noted.

men dats really bad,d woman cant help but feel so mad at husband.she should remarry and 4get about him