Pls nairalanders I need your advice.

I was dating this girl 2 yrs ago before she moved to turkey with the family because her dad is a diplomat. Although we didn't break up before she left,we were still in communication for about 4 month before I stopped hearing from her, instead voice mail will pick her call, she won't come online on fb and she neva replied all my messages so I felt I should move on with my life and am currently dating a someone nw.

On 7th of this month,she called me on phone and told me she's back to the country ,I was excited a little and also surprise because they normally stay 4yrs anytime they move to a new country. So when I met her she apologized for ignoring me all those while. But the fact now is that she came back to Nigeria because of me and am already dating someone. I've been at war with myself.

What do I do?

Leave her alone

Depends on how u feel..i mean ur happiness...bt not withstanding...if she doesn't gv a sound xcus for her behaviour...mehn flee for ur life n 2ndly, i dnt blv she came bck cos of u cos if she did,thn its only normal for her to av contactd u b4 comin to d country...watin even gv her d assurance say u still dey d country dey wait for her sef...#see finish

She has brought disease for u

Gabriel_sylar: She has brought disease for u

..dis got me laffin,turkey flu disease..@ OP,u already knw wat to do...n bear in mind dat she didnt com home cos of u

iykemoney90: Pls nairalanders I need your advice. I was dating this girl 2 yrs ago before she moved to turkey with the family because her dad is a diplomat. Although we didn't break up before she left,we were still in communication for about 4 month before I stopped hearing from her,instead voice mail will pick her call,she won't come online on fb and she neva replied all my messages so I felt I shld move on with my life and am currently dating a someone nw. On 7th of this month,she called me on phone and told me she back to the country,I was excited a little and also surprise because they normally stay 4yrs anytime they move to a new country. So when I met her she apologized for ignoring me all those while. But the fact now is that she came back to Nigeria because of me and am already dating someone. I ve been at war with myself. What do I do?

I don't think you should blame her. Blame that voicemail that was picking her calls . But who is voicemail and why would he be picking somebody's call ni

kreami diva:


I don't think you should blame her. Blame that voicemail that was picking her calls . But who is voicemail and why would he be picking somebody's call ni

Voice mail na akpos brother 4 warri.

Guys I don't really knw If she came back because of me like she said but she came back with her elder brother 2 settle fully in Nigeria. I still have this flaming feelings for her but don't want 2 hurt my current gf

iykemoney90: Guys I don't really knw If she came back because of me like she said but she came back with her elder brother 2 settle fully in Nigeria. I still have this flaming feelings for her but don't want 2 hurt my current gf

Then don't hurt your current girlfriend. U can strangle those flaming feelings.

tunetokheyno: Leave her alone

Unless you don't feel anything for this current person.Otherwise refer to the quoted post.
Besides don't you wanna settle down?If its a fling fine but if its a relationship.Flee!

No communicado for 4 months? Dude, tell her na standby u go put am. If d new chocomilo fkup, u go swap cd. Afterall, na gobe she put u b4 na

iykemoney90: Guys I don't really knw If she came back because of me like she said but she came back with her elder brother 2 settle fully in Nigeria. I still have this flaming feelings for her but don't want 2 hurt my current gf

Which flaming feeling? My guy, u no get extinguisher ni? My frien,focus on ur relationship joor! I swear if u dump ur current gf for away match, may d Gods of karma castrate u.

kreami diva:


I don't think you should blame her. Blame that voicemail that was picking her calls . But who is voicemail and why would he be picking somebody's call ni

voice mail is the younger bro to basket mouth...

Idowuogbo:
Which flaming feeling? My guy, u no get extinguisher ni? My frien,focus on ur relationship joor! I swear if u dump ur current gf for away match, may d Gods of karma castrate u.

Idowu! Idowu!! Idowu!!! How many times did I call you?

Send her to me. i guess i can help

Having read this, my thoughts goes along this lines; There is no way you can ascertain if she truly ignored you. Some things might have come up (or events might have taken place) and the communication had to be broken(not from her but maybe from other things). Maybe she has preserved herself for you all this while.
Alright, lets look at another angle. Maybe she truly dumped you and wanted to go on with her life. Maybe she went on with (another) guy(s). Maybe things did not go down well with her and you are her last option.
Okay, lets look at another angle. Could it be possible you now love two girls? You considering her, could it be because she seems well to do and her dad is a diplomat? (no offence).
Another angle, why stay with the present girl when the one whom you dated is back and is clamouring for your attention. She might truly still love you, you know?
Okkkk.... Final view, what of the present girl with you now? The girl that gave you her love and attention when no one was there. That has been with you all this while. Will you be this heartless to dump her for another gal when she did you no wrong?
OP, all i have done is to show you the scene from the different views that came up while reading this. I'm not going to make a choice for you. Follow your heart but take your brain along. Goodluck.

iykemoney90: Guys I don't really knw If she came back because of me like she said but she came back with her elder brother 2 settle fully in Nigeria. I still have this flaming feelings for her but don't want 2 hurt my current gf

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idnoble135: Having read this, my thoughts goes along this lines; There is no way you can ascertain if she truly ignored you. Some things might have come up (or events might have taken place) and the communication had to be broken(not from her but maybe from other things). Maybe she has preserved herself for you all this while.
Alright, lets look at another angle. Maybe she truly dumped you and wanted to go on with her life. Maybe she went on with (another) guy(s). Maybe things did not go down well with her and you are her last option.
Okay, lets look at another angle. Could it be possible you now love two girls? You considering her, could it be the fact that she seems well to do? (no offence).
Another angle, why stay with the present girl when the one whom you dated is back and is clamouring for your attention. She might truly still love you, you know?
Okkkk.... Final view, what of the present girl with you now? The girl that gave you her love and attention when no one was there. That has been with you all this while. Will you be this heartless to dump her for another gal when she did you no wrong?
OP, all i have done is to show you the scene from the different views that came up while reading this. I'm not going to make a choice for you. Follow your heart but take your brain along. Goodluck.

tanks but u shldnt have put "follow ur heart" because rite nw d hrt is confused.

iykemoney90: tanks but u shldnt have put "follow ur heart" because rite nw d hrt is confused.

Thats whyi also advised you take your brain along.

Listen to your heart ! when brain and heart are at war, the heart wins anyway so don't think too much but do what your heart desires.

Kirinwa:

Idowu! Idowu!! Idowu!!! How many times did I call you?

E meta!!

Happy Sunday

OP,if you leave your present GF for her,don't come here later and start telling us how she jilted you oo

She left u without notice, she came back and told u a hot lie again, What else do u need to knw, she's taking u for ntyn but a fool, don't ever think of leaving ur present all u need to do is play along with her games so if she aint lieing good, but if she's just using u for d main time nd eventually leave den u will be in d save side.

brb

What's your problem OP? Why do u think you have to make a choice? Welcome her to Nigeria with a diplomatic bang session and after 4 rounds with her, meet your current girlfriend to round up for the day.
Any love message you send to one remember to copy and send to the other girl. Don't mix their names up o!

let me read d topic first

still date both chicks

Op keep your head straight & play your game tight, a word is enough for the wise.

Don't go back 2 her cuz if she had. 2ru loved u she would never ignore u 4 even a day not 2 d extent dat u would try 2 get her and all would b in vain.
She only came back mayb becuase she is back to d country, if u leave ur present girlfriend 4 her and u travels again, she might not come back so use ur head.