Abeg help me look into this matter! Whats the maximum reasonable age diffrence between a guy and a gurl in a serious relationship who are looking to say "i do" some time in the future.

From experience 5-10yrs is perfect!

It's pretty much a personal predilection. So you gotta do your thang in a mode that tallies with the circumstances circa you.

Isn't age just a number? All they need is respect for each other. And depending on how huge the gap is, the more the couple need to shut their ears/eyes against the gossips. Personally, I like a 5ish age gap cause of my 'stronghead'. Lol. But that's just me.

20-40yrs

0-10years

3 to 8 yrs.....anything more than that and you might have generational differences...............beside ladies who marry much older guys say 9 yrs and above tend to age faster while the men tend toget younger......#freshbloodtinz#

Popowaa: 20-40yrs

make you try get sense nah...its not that difficult.

addictiv: 3 to 8 yrs.....anything more than that and you might have generational differences...............beside ladies who marry much older guys say 9 yrs and above tend to age faster while the men tend toget younger......#freshbloodtinz#

okay lemme confess the difference here is about 9and1/2 yrs. Should I just give it up?

Bootylicious: From experience 5-10yrs is perfect!

yes so perfect

Kisivan:
yes so perfect

u with bootylicious they gimme hope.

Kisivan:
yes so perfect

u with bootylicious they gimme hope.

Kisivan:
yes so perfect

u with bootylicious they gimme hope.

Androgen daisy:
okay lemme confess the difference here is about 9and1/2 yrs. Should I just give it up?

no not yet.. it depends on how you guys relate and mix mentally.....you ll have to note that he may not be intersted in sometinz you wanna do or you might see him as a boring person lyk he may want to relax and read papers or play golf while you want to go out and mingle,club and stuff like thAT.....but you ll enjoy his company due to his wealth of experience and maturity in handling issues and he ll always want to spoil you(if he s lyk me) with good stuff...........the only issues you might have is feeling left out when he is with friends as you might be one of the youngest so might not fit in comfortably but with time your mind would kinda race to meet up with his and his would kinda come down to level with urs hence the physical result of you aging a lil bit faster than you would if he were younger but this might not be noticeable and also depends on your gene.........if you love him and he loves you...then enjoy your relationship and marriage.....thats what matters

addictiv:
no not yet.. it depends...if you love him and he loves you...then enjoy your relationship and marriage.....thats what matters

now you are making "many" sense

Whatever the age gap. There are other serious issues to consider. Emotional, psychological, financial, material maturity and bedmatics.
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Who i dey give this epistle? 10 years gap is quite okay.

10yrs??
As in I'll be 30 when dude is 40?
With the rising case of infertility among young men,the younger the better.
#icantshout#

Who i dey give this epistle? 10 years gap is quite okay.[/quote]
vivly u r too mush...oya nah nothing do me.
Truth is despite the age diffrence the conection is solid. Same wavelengths, same "ishh", same aspirations.when we chat we go on till our thumbs bleed.

Personally 7-10

10yrs
I beggi
If d guy too old he go dey treat the lady lyk small pikin
She no go fit breath well for house
Em guyz no old pass sef em dey form "I know it all"
Not to tok of 10yrs age gap
E too much
Highest 5yrs
Me I no fit marry person wey I no go fit follo do rough play

Between -10 to 10 maximum for me. My current fiance is 5 years older than me.

Popowaa: 20-40yrs

Lol you sabi

I will say 50 - 80

9yrs and 1/2 isn't much it's VERY PERFECT!!!

Androgen daisy:
u with bootylicious they gimme hope.
u with bootylicious they gimme hope.
u with bootylicious they gimme hope.

Max.......maybe ur fatjher's age mate n above.
Min......she's older.
What matters is d love. Though I dont appreciate an older woman but I can do with same age bracket.

Y am i jst seeing 5,10yrs...datz quite much 4 me..i wud prefer 2-3yrs..moreso,age is jst a number.1,2,3,4,5....blah!!

6 to 8 yrs for marriage
1 to 3 yrs for punny

Harbosede02: Y am i jst seeing 5,10yrs...datz quite much 4 me..i wud prefer 2-3yrs..moreso,age is jst a number.1,2,3,4,5....blah!!

Age is not just a number dear
Let me tell u the logic
Girls mature sexually faster than boys
So when u were aware of ur attraction towards boys , the boys ur age never knew what to do to get ur attraction that was why u prefer older guys.
Now u have gotten all the excitement n sexx n heartbreaks n now want to settle down at 25+ , unfortunately that is when most guys at that age are at the peak of their game .
At Average, Guys only start thinking seriously about marriage (ie financially n emotionally) from 31 n mostly would not consider a 30 yrs old woman for marriage , they will go for 23 to 27

Its only in Nigeria where a guy MUST be older than a lady before the lady dates him.
Its only in Nigeria where age is an issue in a relationship.
That part of the world really sucks.

It's that way because of the way guys behave,hardly would you see a serious guy at age 27,and a lady at 27 is ready to settle down, so best a lady goes for a man advanced in age that is ready to settle down..

Blackteeth: Its only in Nigeria where a guy MUST be older than a lady before the lady dates him.
Its only in Nigeria where age is an issue in a relationship.
That part of the world really sucks.

I used to be #team5years and above, but my current bf is just 2years older than me and he is more matured and level headed than a lot of older guys I know. I dont have a challenge letting him take the lead as I have learnt from experience that he always has my best interest at heart. He isnt chauvinistic or condescending to me which is a trait most mature men exhibit towards younger ladies. So right now I would say it depends on the couple in question and what each expects from the other. Infact I know of a lady married to a younger man but you would never guess unless you were told.

2 me age is jst a no o, a 25 yrs guy might b matured dan a 35 yrs old man, i ve sn a guy who startd his puberty at 11 nd anoda who startd his at 15, so its al abt maturity

There is nothing like Age gap to me!

I prefer 0 or 3-6 months age gap